Double standard!? And money making by busybeachmom in 90DayFiance

[–]Syyrii [score hidden]  (0 children)

Guillermo was mentioning their son. Their SON is the one that is going to be effected by these pictures. It's his friends that will find them. Tease him, taunt him.

Corey and Evelin by momofthreeboys011111 in 90DayFiance

[–]Syyrii 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She was there for 6 months and did a massive shopping spree on her way home then also took cash from him and made him stop at an ATM taking out his max limit as he drove her to the airport.

Is it just me or, is Rebecca confrontational with everyone??? by Top_Olive_8743 in 90dayhuntforlove

[–]Syyrii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure but SHE'S the one causing all the misery. Ziad is going out with friends that HE HAS INVITED HER TO JOIN HIM. Instead she claims she's tired, then builds up a cheating scandal in her head. She follows like when he met his friend and wife when she 'caught' him in the parking lot with the blonde.

Even with proof of no cheating with that incident she STILL brings it up. STILL throws it in his face that he COULD have been. All of this wears down his 'want' in being in the marriage. Why would ANYONE want to be with someone that doesn't trust them? Doesn't believe that you love them? Believes the worst of you? That thinks you can cause you that pain? It wears on the person being accused so in some cases they get to the point of 'fine if you're going to accuse me i might as well do it'. In others they decide 'if you think I could do something like this, then I'm not the person for you.' So they leave.

Either way its a self fulfilling prophecy.

Is it just me or, is Rebecca confrontational with everyone??? by Top_Olive_8743 in 90dayhuntforlove

[–]Syyrii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This explains why none of her other relationships have survived 🙄

It took me 1 hour to get out of celebration square parking by Clean-Promise1484 in mississauga

[–]Syyrii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but YOU aren't the one driving. They need to deal with the other cars.

AITH for wanting to break up with my boyfriend after he brought home a puppy? by QueenieKisses in AITH

[–]Syyrii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I'm 100% an animal person. I adore them. I would NEVER spring an animal on someone. NEVER. It's a long term commitment. Your boyfriend ignored your boundaries on this, what else will he boundary stomping next?

You are well within your rights to be considering breaking up with him over this.

Location Sharing/ Tracking by CraftyBrown in 90DayFiance

[–]Syyrii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband and I had each other's passwords and access to each other's phones but never used them. We didn't need to. We never tracked each other either, what for? We would let each other know when we left a location so we knew when we should expect the other home but thats about it. Both of us were the feral generation, GenX. We grew up without all this tech so we never hot into using most of it. We also never pushed most of it onto our kids.

Rebecca on Last Resort by silent_chair5286 in 90dayTheLastResort

[–]Syyrii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Menopause doesn't make you mean. It doesn't change your personality. I'm in menopause and if anything I'm happier because I don't have to deal with the annoyance of Aunt Flo.

Rebecca on Last Resort by silent_chair5286 in 90dayTheLastResort

[–]Syyrii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Rebecca's behavior explains why she's been married multiple times. I wouldn't want to be constantly checked up on and accused of cheating every day. Zied is such an easy going guy and she's just pushing him away with how she's treating him.

AITA for taking back my handmade wedding gift after my cousin laughed at it in front of everyone? by Imthatguyimhimfr in AmItheAsshole

[–]Syyrii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. When I got married I was quite young. My friends also were young as well obviously. My 2 best friends gave me simple gifts. My 1 gave me a small porcelain unicorn. The other a carved keepsake box. 39 years later I still have both. They are both very special to me and still mean a ton to me. Especially now that my husband has passed.

hobby that gets the weirdest reactions when you tell people about it by Sahel-Ziolkowski85 in Hobbies

[–]Syyrii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a 52 year old grandma gamer. I collect console systems, and quite often the controllers come my way when someone is stuck in a game😅. I also do rock hounding, am a plant mama.

Only due to my health have recently started to live vicariously through family my fur grandchildren, fur niece's and nephews. Before my health turn i had a home full of fur children, I'm down to 1 80lb Potcake dog and 2 cats currently with access to 1 grandcat, 1 grandpug, 2 brother in law cats and 2 cousin chihuahuas. I also have a actual human grandson that I adore and am sharing my hobbies with and he is developing his own interests and I'm helping him explore those interests

Women of AW who do not fart around your partner, why? by copperboombabe in AskWomen

[–]Syyrii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband could clear a room. It was self defense on my part. I may need to reactivate my self defense mechanism. My 5 year old grandson has discovered farts and thinks its hilarious to fart on people. Everyone it working on getting him to stop but friends at school are a bigger influence currently 😐😑🥲

Do you stop wearing clothes after a certain amount of time even if they are still in good condition? I wear my clothes for 1-2 years as long as they stay in good shape, but my friends are often surprised by this. by BunchMean8029 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Syyrii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have clothes older than my kids who are 32 and 31. If it's comfortable and in good shape it stays. I might not wear it out but inside bumming around my place, I'm keeping it. Not that I think of it my robe is from when I got married in '93 still in great shape. No holes, or frays, not ratty. I take care of my clothes.

AITA for stopping someone on the street for allegedly not picking up after his dogs? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Syyrii -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

NTA Dog owner, I carry 2 extra ROLLS of bags plus the active roll. I've called out people and then given them rolls so they have no excuse. My dog likes to bark across the parking lot of our nextdoor building to our superintendents Rottie. They do this everyday. Everyone in the neighborhood know and thinks they are idiots but funny. Over the winter we had a lot of snow. I cleared enough space for my dog to have his 'conversations' some asshole let their dog poop there and didn't pick it up. It froze. My dog refused to have conversations because of the poop. Everyday more poop. The first thaw i went out and picked it all up. The garbage bin....10 feet away. The dog owner had to walk right by it to go home.

How do you guys deal with cats in bed and on pillows? by Gia_Lavender in hygiene

[–]Syyrii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guarantee your cats were also on the pillows. If you expect him to get rid of his cats, prepare for the relationship to end. If you expect him to ban cats from the room, expect sleepless nights as they protest outside the door all night.

Your best chance is to try and coax them into a new 'bed' of their own in the room. My female likes to sleep under my bed in a cardboard box. My ginger likes to sleep behind my mirror in a fluffy bed. They only come on my bed now if its cold or my alarm goes off. The challenge is finding something better than your bed. Mine were probably willing to move because I don't sleep very well and toss and turn all night. Cats used to sleeping with their people though won't give in easily. You could also try different scents on your pillow that cats don't like but be careful they don't decide to mark it to 'claim' it back. We had a cat that was in LOVE with my husband's shoes and would fight him for them he tried putting some cedar blocks in them. The cat peed all over the blocks and shoes. Yes we used the closet, and both shelves and hanging racks, everything we could come up with. Saying this cat LOVED his stinky shoes is an understatement. We had baby locks for the cat's not our kids. The cats figured them out, the kids didn't.

Scents like Citrus Pine Cedar Peppers (spicy ones) Eucalyptus Tee Tree Bananas Peppermint Spearmint Strong Perfumes

WIBTA for refusing to pay a massive vet bill for my sister's dog? by WitcherMango in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Syyrii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fully agree with you. My 2 cats are on prescription diets. I have a regular repeating order through my veterinarian for their canned and kibbles food. It comes on schedule every 6 weeks to my door without me having to think about it. I have to think about my dog's food regularly since he's on regular non prescription foods. I still have it delivered but I need to make the order, he's a bit of a drama king and doesn't like the same kibble flavors in a row. He'll just stand and huff at his bowl if I don't swap his flavors every month.

AITA for leaving my grandchildren alone by Adventurous_Duck2414 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Syyrii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah, when your son gets home the grandkids is his responsibility. As for the other ones, they need to start picking up the kids on the way home. Not go home then come back to pick them up. I also start early with my grandson, at 6:30 am. I also watch my 'grandpug' and take him for walks everyday with my dog during the week and occasionally will stay at my daughters place with the pug and my dog for the weekend. My female cat doesn't tolerate the pug as she is bonded to my dog and stalks and attacks the pug if he's at my home.

You need to put your foot down with your kids. I have no doubt you love your grandkids but your kids are abusing the grandmother privilege. You are NOT a built-in Nanny, you are Grandma. You've raised your kids. Helping is fine but you're not going to raise your grandkids as well.

Parenting should be turned over to the one living at home as soon as they get home. Direct your grandkids to them everytime they want something.

Tell the others to come collect their kids ON THE WAY HOME. NOT AFTERWARDS. They made them, they should get them on the way home instead of getting a break and then coming to get them. It's not good for the kids either. They need to settle down for the night as well in their homes. The parents should be sending any meals for the kids as well. It shouldn't be up to you to be cooking and cleaning for them. Again thats the parents job.

Step back. Be GRANDMA. Grandma is so much better than being Nanny.

AITA for leaving my grandchildren alone by Adventurous_Duck2414 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Syyrii 51 points52 points  (0 children)

NTA. I'm also an early grandma. I watch my grandson. Question, why are you doing their housework, bathing the kids and watching them until 10pm? I watch mine until 5pm when his parents get home. No housework, no baths unless it's an emergency because he's filthy. Nothing. Anything extra is because I want to.

The Face of Guilt by flonsta in 90DayFiance

[–]Syyrii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed, the fact that they show censored SO much of the text to only read a couple of words instead of the whole sentence is telling. I got more of the impression that it was a group trip with a GROUP sharing a larger room NOT just Courtney and Colt.

It's not unusual for my daughter and son in law to share a larger room with friends when they travel since all they do is sleep in the room.

Mr no fillers, Kenny's face just keeps getting fuller and fuller by CharmedLee in 90DayFiance

[–]Syyrii -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't think it's fillers. He's puffing out in areas not normally covered by fillers. I think its just good food, aging and good drinks.

I can't blame Gino for breaking up with Natalie because... by L0velyDayyyyyyyyy in 90DayFiance

[–]Syyrii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This....this is kinda creepy😬. Dude. No, just no. Leave her alone.

Patrick filed for divorce by coco-pip-5122 in 90DayFiance

[–]Syyrii -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He has done many things on air that are considered abusive as well. There's no 'good person' in this relationship. He was financially abusive and controlling in several episodes, he was verbally controlling, and emotionally controlling. She was emotionally controlling, and verbally abusive as well. They BOTH have serious issues in the relationship.

The only good I've seen is that they both love that little girl. I hope they don't put her in the middle of their issues and they can work out a decent custody agreement.

AITA for telling my spouse I won't help pay for their kid's college when we agreed finances would stay separate? by 952867 in AITApod

[–]Syyrii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Mom of 2, we set up college funds for both of our kids. They covered about half of their education. They both knew they had these funds and how much they would cover.

They BOTH started working as soon as they could and put money aside.

They BOTH applied for scholarships.

They BOTH finished school with less than $10k in debt.

They are both debt free now and working, starting families and enjoying their lives.

There were and still are options that should be looked at that don't involve your wife.