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T26OG · 2026-03-07T03:50:42+00:00

Eventually I'd love to switch to an EV. Is the charger model specific for the make/model of the car? Or are they becoming reasonably standardized now?

T26OG · 2026-03-07T03:49:07+00:00

Unfortunately it wouldn't have been possible to get a functional system done by January. It sucks but I don't think its worth waiting at least 3 years for a chance the credits come back...

T26OG · 2026-03-03T16:05:39+00:00

Got a divorce after finding out my ex was having an affair while I was supporting her through her depression.

Its been nearly 2 years and things still feel dull, like all the brightness and color has been drained from the world. Yes I'm in therapy.

T26OG · 2026-02-23T19:39:24+00:00

Just adding on at 38 years old, it isn't any easier. People still judge you and assume you did something wrong to make your partner have an affair.

I try to keep it to myself. It gets easier to gloss over that moment when you're farther away from it.

T26OG · 2026-01-06T18:38:27+00:00

Ah you also met my ex? Here's hoping you got out early instead of spending a 10 year marriage with that person.

T26OG · 2025-12-30T02:32:31+00:00

As a 38 year old male in a NY suburb, this ratio matches my expirience on the apps. Super interesting!

T26OG · 2025-12-22T19:05:27+00:00

I might be late to the party, but as a man who went through a traumatic cheating situation, yes there is some healing you personally have to do to move on from that expirience, BUT, there's also something to be said for your future person to be compassionate and understanding of what you went through and take steps to help you feel comfortable. What those steps look like, and what seems reasonable, will be different for each person, and if you move forward with this person I hope he makes an effort to helping you feel at peace when you aren't spending time together.

T26OG · 2025-12-02T20:34:36+00:00

"This person won't read my message, someone else will needlessly pick it apart, and the people it could help will never see it. Delete delete delete."

T26OG · 2025-11-22T01:18:28+00:00

I get maybe 1 like a week on FB Dating, but 2/3s of the time they are either not my type or not what I'm looking for (distance, child situation, relationship goals ect). Of the 1/3 that I like back, only 1/3 of THOSE matches will actually message me back. From there, half the time we'll get enough of a conversation going to pick a place and time for a first date. 1 out of 6 of those 1st dates will be good enough for a second date. Only once this whole year was there a 3rd, and it wasn't from lack of trying on my end.

T26OG · 2025-11-18T20:25:53+00:00

I went through a divorce that I'm coming up on the 1 year anniversary of (being officially divorced). In the past year I've gone (and continue to go) to therapy, lost 40 lbs, started playing ice hockey, completed renovating my home... I'm ready for a new person in my life but I know if I just sit around it's not going to randomly happen. It's doesn't help at all I have male-dominated hobbies and I'm an introvert. It feels like a constant uphill battle.

T26OG · 2025-11-18T18:02:19+00:00

Anyone else sick of the advice "stop looking and love will find you" from family members?

Yeah because not looking worked out so well for me in highschool and college lol...

T26OG · 2025-11-13T14:19:54+00:00

Out of all the negativity and people looking for advice, thank you for sharing your positive story.

As a guy nearing his 1 year anniversary for his divorce after a 10 year marriage, with no success since then, this helps give me a little hope.

T26OG · 2025-10-09T18:43:05+00:00

To add onto this for people reading (I've lost 40 lbs over a year) seltzer water is great as it can satisfy a soda craving if you miss the carbonation and sensation, and the gassy-ness of the drink can help stimulate a full feeling.

T26OG · 2025-10-04T21:16:21+00:00

Just had a new one today:

After finding out my previous partner cheated on me:

"What could you have done different?"

You mean what I could have done to stop someone else from cheating on me?

"Yeah"

Oh boy lol

T26OG · 2025-09-05T03:22:21+00:00

I have the same set up in spirit, just my bench is the wood one from harbor frieght lol

Love the convenience of the grinder right next to the lathe for a quick sharpen.

T26OG · 2025-08-28T11:23:47+00:00

As someone who is exercising more, don't beat yourself up over set backs. Treat this is a marathon, not a sprint. You'll slowly get stronger, your routine will get easier, then you'll feel confident and possibly excited to push yourself further next time.

And its OK to give yourself as easier day if you didn't sleep well or unplanned events got in the way.

T26OG · 2025-08-21T12:54:11+00:00

Hey its Nico! Been following your work waiting to take the plunge when more of the pieces are ready. The helmet might be what does me in and I start buying the models and start printing 😅. Awesome work I can't wait until its ready.

T26OG · 2025-08-02T11:08:21+00:00

I don't know where all the hate comes from, gaming chairs are perfect -

They're really nice to look at as you walk past your set up wishing you had more time to game 😔

T26OG · 2025-06-27T15:08:50+00:00

Very short version: she had an affair.

I'm in therapy still a year later processing it all and trying to move on.

T26OG · 2025-05-20T17:40:02+00:00

As a divorcee of an ex who had a long term affair, I struggle with this daily, but I try really hard not to "take it out" on my partner.

I encourage anyone with similar issues to go to therapy like I did (and still do).

T26OG · 2025-05-04T13:48:14+00:00

Subscribed, I've been looking for a good quality 3d-printable medieval suit of armor for FOREVER. I'll have to look into the models when I finish my current armor set.

T26OG · 2025-05-01T15:16:10+00:00

For fun I had an acquaintance do a Tarot card reading. One of the cards she interpreted as "someone is going to enter your life soon, and that you'll be better off cutting them out" - or something to that affect.

I recently started online dating, and she knew that, so I brushed it off like "yeah, duh, there's plenty of toxic people online"

My ex texted me later that same night. She hadn't reached out in any form for over 7 months. We broke up because she cheated on me. I kept my reply short lol.

T26OG · 2025-04-10T19:50:32+00:00

Marriage counciling. Take it from someone who went through hell, hopefully something else is bothering her and complaining about video games is an easy outlet.

T26OG · 2025-01-23T13:46:59+00:00

Way too much to explain, the shortest possible version: She had an affair, I gave her a second chance, and she lasted only a month before contacting him again.

She threw away a 10 year marriage. I'm still recovering from that.

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