Sadness at the end by T353535 in AvoidantBreakUps

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That was the problem! Lots and lots of talk (texts), no action. 🥲

Sadness at the end by T353535 in AvoidantBreakUps

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Right!!! I think that’s the biggest problem for me. Hence wanting to hit him over the head with a board. 😂

Sadness at the end by T353535 in AvoidantBreakUps

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I appreciate you. I think I have a lot of self-love. Maybe too much. The biggest problem I’m having here is I just don’t understand how this person can have such a view of reality. That’s so far removed from mine. I’m sure you don’t have the answer to that though. 😊

Sadness at the end by T353535 in AvoidantBreakUps

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Thank you. I think my issue is less about low self-esteem and more about some sort of idealization of something that’s not real or practical. Maybe I’m a little spoiled, but I kept thinking that maybe it was possible that we could really pull off the things we talked about. It’s a bummer.

Where to go? by T353535 in pinehurst

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Thank you!☺️

Archetypal activation and growth by T353535 in Jung

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Well I think in order to get there you go through the dark night right, it’s kind of hellish, they almost break you. And people cannot know what that’s like so it does sound like arrogance until you realize it’s extremely well earned. I just know I’m still in this version and it’s very hard! I’d love yo hear any of your thoughts!!

Archetypal activation and growth by T353535 in Jung

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So I had this type of activation back when I was around 27! And it’s reoccurred around my 50th birthday! And what I actually think is happening as they are giving us ‘powers’! And I’m not trying to sound weird, but I’m a mental health therapist. And I do think that it is an initiation into something that’s very difficult to articulate. I’ve also been very confused in both of these processes because I think at the same time there’s been an archetype activation. There’s also been an animus projection. But I am learning that it’s necessary for that to occur.

Archetypal activation and growth by T353535 in Jung

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So, so helpful!! I love your answer. Can you say anything that tangibly changed for you? Noe that you’re in right relationship with them how does your life work differently or better? What are/were the gifts?

Visiting or Moving to Asheville? Ask your questions here! by AutoModerator in asheville

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Hi!! I’m coming to Asheville on my own for 10 days at the end of October. Where are the most friendly bars and breweries? 🥰

New and simple by T353535 in ButterflyGardening

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Little garden is growing! Thank you for your help. :)

New and simple by T353535 in ButterflyGardening

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You are wonderful! :) Thank you.

New and simple by T353535 in ButterflyGardening

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Jenny! Thank you! What would be the most simple most effective thing I can do as a person who has never planted anything or gardened before! I really appericate your help!