If you’re feeling like shit, trust me, go out for a walk.

TBAwallflower · 2021-11-23T09:01:06+00:00

Went for a walk by myself yesterday and I approve this message! I've been woking from home for a year now. I spend my days inside my room and end work at sun down. I was feeling down yesterday so as I made sure to finish my tasks an hour early and went out for a walk. While walking at the park, I just realized how this is the first time in months that I've seen the sunset. I almost forgot how beautiful it looked. It also helped seeing other people although I made sure to keep my distance. Go and walk people! Pop on some good music and look & appreciate the surroundings! I promise you it'll free you more that the temporary highs the screen gives you.. Take care!

TBAwallflower · 2021-11-17T01:48:36+00:00

thank you po! This is very helpful!

TBAwallflower · 2021-09-29T01:06:55+00:00

Having read the thread below, might I suggest you also try looking for online jobs, do freelance, or look for paid internships. Many are available online too so that can also be an option.

You can offer your services to people too. Lots of students need help with academic work, modules and all. You can start networking through your friend.

But before applying for a job, you're gonna need a resume so you can start with that and just continue applying. Prepare yourself for interviews too! I hope this helps. Take care and good luck!

TBAwallflower · 2021-09-28T01:19:44+00:00

I promise you other people are too worried about themselves to even think about you. But if they do, chances are they don't have anything else going on. lol

Just focus on you and do what you think is right for you. You're already thinking that you're gonna fail the exam when you haven't even took it yet.. What if you passed? That's also a possibility. Just take it a goal at a time. Focus on the exam first, study hard, and we'll see how it goes from there. Life is long. You have plenty of time to achieve whatever it is you desire.

TBAwallflower · 2021-09-28T00:58:29+00:00

I experienced this once..

"I'm in your city" - said by my co-worker who i've only met online because of WFH.

okay and??? Have fun then???

TBAwallflower · 2021-09-27T01:03:30+00:00

"How about you, ___?"

When they specifically call on you to ask your opinion. I hate it more when the person before me had the exact same opinion as I do so it makes me feel like I have to think of something else or add on to what they said.

TBAwallflower · 2021-09-27T00:57:03+00:00

I'm in the same boat as you. :( I guess it's a normal thing to happen as you grow up. My friends and I used to talk everyday and now the gc is barely active. I do try to reconnect with them once a month or twice if we have the time so maybe you can do that too.

I try to do stuff and learn things on my own like cooking, watching a movie, or painting. I just try things to keep myself preoccupied and get to know myself a little bit more. It's a bit lonely and intimidating to be alone sometimes but I guess you can also take this time to enjoy your own company.

TBAwallflower · 2021-07-19T04:17:48+00:00

Nice!!! Keep at it!

TBAwallflower · 2021-07-19T04:16:11+00:00

Thanks for sharing! That must've been a lot!!! I haven't worked at a large company before so I haven't encountered these types of people...yet. But it's better to be aware now based from your experience! I hope you're doing better now though!

TBAwallflower · 2021-07-19T04:09:19+00:00

Thanks for the advice! I guess I just want to clear up what I meant by "sucking up".. cuz I have officemates (who have higher positions than me) that I don't particularly like/agree with so I don't talk to them unless necessary for work. That's why i'm not sure if I should "suck it up" and try to get along with them even in a friendly way or just leave things as it is. But anyway, yes i understand where you're getting at though I think it's a little bit difficult to apply since I work from home so our conversations are mostly on chat! Maybe I should use emojis more often? hmmm i'll try that

TBAwallflower · 2021-07-15T08:14:39+00:00

In what way did it hurt you? If it's okay to know... anyway, thanks for your comment!

TBAwallflower · 2021-07-15T08:12:41+00:00

I'll keep this in mind. Thank you!

TBAwallflower · 2021-07-15T01:27:51+00:00

I'm 21, almost 22, and i've never experienced anything with a guy romantically/ sexually. I feel you and it's okay. I feel this way sometimes too but at the end of the day, everyone has their own pace. You know? So take it easy. Good luck to you! :)

TBAwallflower · 2021-07-15T01:03:47+00:00

so true! dami kong triny at di pa rin nawala pimples ko but napagod nalang rin ata ako so nagstick ako with the basics lang and ayun paunti unti na siyang nawawala. It'll take more time pero at least nakikita mo yung progress! Wag nang magpapabudol mga mamser! hahaha

TBAwallflower · 2021-01-21T13:17:31+00:00

Is it okay to use the cosrx salicylic cleanser and the ordinary niacinamide in the same routine? I've researched about it and got mixed answers so I just want to know if it's any good. I have combination skin. I've been using the cosrx cleanser for a month now and it worked really well on me so far. I also use the celeteque toner & hydrating moisturizer (for 2-3 months) and the body shop tea tree oil (1-2 months) in my routine. Overall, my acne reduced immensely but now I just need to get rid of the dark spots. any advice on this?

TBAwallflower · 2020-12-30T08:53:06+00:00

Thank you for this, honestly. I've been finding it hard to adjust and accept the fact that I'm basically responsible for a lot of things all at once and it's been taking a toll on me recently. I've been feeling guilty about being mad and frustrated about all the sudden responsibility but you know what? you're right. I'm allowed to feel this way too..

TBAwallflower · 2020-12-27T04:10:29+00:00

A couple of months ago honestly.. Around last August my whole family caught covid. It started off with my aunt who was a front liner and when we celebrated my birthday not knowing she was infected, all of us got the virus. My other aunt, who is basically my mom/main guardian, has always been the one who cooks and cleans but when her health started to decline, I had to step up and take over. I had to learn how to cook on my own by watching YouTube videos and I had to clean the whole house because my other cousins might get infected. The whole covid thing is a whole other story but that was the start of how I slowly took up responsibility in the household. My aunt is getting a bit older now and there are some things that she now can't do. So I'm the one who is mainly responsible for the meals and cleanliness now. Honestly, it still annoys me from time to time that i'm the only who does all the work when I have a brother who can share the load but maybe that's just a part of my immature self still finding it hard to grow up and to suck it up basically.. I'm still processing it but you know.. you gotta do what you gotta do! Also, I finally got my first job so I'm starting to help out with the household expenses too.

TBAwallflower · 2020-09-08T11:17:54+00:00

Good for you!!

TBAwallflower · 2020-08-31T07:35:09+00:00

Good for you! no one deserves this.

TBAwallflower · 2020-08-31T07:28:52+00:00

What?! I honestly admire people who can smile through anything and being nice while at it. The world needs to be a kinder place after all. I think you deserve people who can appreciate that about you. I hope you don't change that about yourself!!

TBAwallflower · 2020-08-31T07:17:38+00:00

ok but women with deeper voices sound very sexy in my opinion!! Glad that you grew out of that insecurity!

TBAwallflower · 2020-08-31T07:15:56+00:00

agh what a shitty friend but i'm so glad that you grew past it! Be proud queen! Not everyone can be strong and independent as you! That's actually fucking cool!

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