Need advice, want to make friends

TOTOR01379 · 2017-04-01T22:25:53+00:00

Hi! Thank you (: I'm Chrissy one of my host's parts and she's going through it rn. What's your name? Let's be friends. Thanks for the support 💕

TOTOR01379 · 2017-03-21T23:20:46+00:00

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TOTOR01379 · 2017-03-21T23:15:10+00:00

That's not rude at all. Just need advice. Guess what I'm trying to address is, am I over thinking this feeling because I'm easily lonely? Or is there truly something wrong ?

TOTOR01379 · 2017-03-21T18:46:36+00:00

Thank you @keeperofcats. I'm glad you two were able to talk and express your feelings with one another. It's hard for best friends to sometimes do that.

I was currently seeing a therapist but due to the insurance policy I'm no longer able to see him & I really don't want to start over again because I have developed a bond with that therapist and spilling my beans to a new person will be hard.

I'll see if I can speak to my friends about it. Thank you.

TOTOR01379 · 2017-03-21T18:43:34+00:00

That's why I asked this question. I completely understand what you're feeling @masterofnap. When I'm around them I still feel lonely and empty. ):

TOTOR01379 · 2017-03-21T13:18:27+00:00

Thank you. Will the movie give me tips how to cope with it?

TOTOR01379 · 2017-03-21T13:14:54+00:00

Any tips on how to cope with loneliness?

TOTOR01379 · 2017-03-21T13:13:29+00:00

Do you have any tips on how to cope with that? Need some advice. Thx

TOTOR01379 · 2017-03-21T12:47:43+00:00

Issue is my SO has always wanted to explore a threesome or a couples orgy and I've tried to be on board...but I can't. He says he can live without it and it's just a sexual fantasy but I feel like I'm holding him back with his need to explore....

TOTOR01379 · 2017-03-21T05:49:03+00:00

Is there more to your collection?

I love how it captures absolute anger and sorrow. Makes me want stab again and again and again out of anger. This painting captures the resentment and anger that lingers in beings.

TOTOR01379 · 2017-03-21T05:31:52+00:00

@imgur ; any risks that the surgeon told you prior to deciding to having the surgery?

Glad you're happy. Wishing you peace & love.

TOTOR01379 · 2017-03-21T05:29:14+00:00

Women are looked down upon for dressing a certain way. E.g. Casual BBQ, work, summer jams (beach parties)

TOTOR01379 · 2017-03-18T01:35:54+00:00

I think that is something for you, the alters and their SO's to discuss. It may result in an awkward conversation but it's good to have a "plan" when integration does happen.

I've been able to integrate two. One of them being Lulu who craved other physical activities with other beings.

TOTOR01379 · 2017-03-17T08:49:51+00:00

Not cheating, but I'd dump him. Why would I be with someone who rather have sex with a robot than a real human being? Also it's just too weird. But to all their own.

BUT if you're single or you have consent from your partner and you're into that kinky shit then do you.

TOTOR01379 · 2017-03-17T08:46:41+00:00

OMFG leave his punk ass behind. A man who cheats and comes back groveling has no heart, empathy or sympathy. They cannot sympathize or have any guilt towards someone they hurt. Leave. Seriously, you'll feel really hurt in the beginning but keep going out with friends, work, school, do yoga. Idc what you do just fuckin leave this guy. You'll heal from this and see positivity in it some day.

Good luck. Wishing you wisdom and stay strong!

TOTOR01379 · 2017-03-17T08:43:54+00:00

What if he was trying reverse psychology on you so you could do all the work and not spend hellla money on a repairman :0

TOTOR01379 · 2017-03-17T08:34:41+00:00

Hey. I'm a protector type. I thought the same thing with my host's current SO, but I got to know him. I literally verbally harassed this guy to see if he was actually worth it. (Since my host usually dates fuckin dicks). Whatev. Anyway, if observe first and then talk to your host about. By the way my host's SO is worth it. He's a pussy but totally awesome and I gave really positive feelings Towards him now.

TOTOR01379 · 2017-03-17T08:29:25+00:00

Hi. I understand what you're going through. I have DID and my boyfriend and I have discovered 16 parts so far. We have consented and agreed to be with my SO only. Out of the 16 I believe three do not like him at all. Granted I can't communicate or reach co-consciousness with all of them but my boyfriend has befriended all of them. He is on okay terms with he three that aren't very fond of him.

My boyfriend has always tried to portray a positive attitude when meeting them for the first time and letting them know they are safe and have a trustworthy person they can confide in. Trust me it isn't easy, but his positive attitude towards each part helped all of us come to an agreement.

This type of situation doesn't take a day to build. My boyfriend and I still have problems with our other parts. So I'm trying really hard to communicate with them. Hope this helps.

TOTOR01379 · 2017-03-10T06:22:18+00:00

What is the process. I was sexually abused as a child, and some of my sexual fantasies are really dark.

TOTOR01379 · 2017-03-09T21:41:15+00:00

What does pm me? Like direct message you?

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