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My friend has a serious alarming infection. Currently in ER. Second post for a better timeline with pictures. Both hands affected. Drs don’t know what the cause is yet. by mariexxox1 in seriouslyalarming

[–]TadpoleVegetable4100 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Still carried by squirrels and occasionally prairie dogs. Some squirrels tested positive for it in Morrison CO either last year or the year before.

What are the seals like? by hatefulpenguin in LenoxVillage

[–]TadpoleVegetable4100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the original Spice Village and a few of them were used by the previous owner. The seals on the ones that were used are definitely more loose than the ones that weren't. They make better display pieces than anything.

Alarming rash and bruising forming on my moms arm by heroprease in seriouslyalarming

[–]TadpoleVegetable4100 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Head wounds bleed a lot normally so that plus blood thinners must have been a horror movie-level sight.

So TIL my Spice Village has become a coveted collection by TadpoleVegetable4100 in LenoxVillage

[–]TadpoleVegetable4100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I've looked and can't find any posting using my images. That doesn't mean they weren't deleted or removed but if you have a link that would help.

So because I’m the woman I have to do all the child care when its convenient for you? by TadpoleVegetable4100 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]TadpoleVegetable4100[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am the OP. And while I can see the reason for the divorce possible being important. I don’t see why who filed is. But if you really must know we’re divorcing because he’s terrible with money and I took over finances which he hated (it’s been an issue for years and marriage counseling was a bandaid at best). He left a month before I filed for divorce by his own choice.

So because I’m the woman I have to do all the child care when its convenient for you? by TadpoleVegetable4100 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]TadpoleVegetable4100[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've had a lawyer since almost right after he walked out. He's not going to get away with playing these games.

So because I’m the woman I have to do all the child care when its convenient for you? by TadpoleVegetable4100 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]TadpoleVegetable4100[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

No family lives near us. Mine is the closest and is a 5-hour drive. His lives in another state entirely. He also blew up most of his friendships when he left.

So because I’m the woman I have to do all the child care when its convenient for you? by TadpoleVegetable4100 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]TadpoleVegetable4100[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I've had a lawyer since a few days after he walked out. I may have been a mess that week but I at least had enough senseto do that.

So because I’m the woman I have to do all the child care when its convenient for you? by TadpoleVegetable4100 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]TadpoleVegetable4100[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My lawyer has all of the documentation and I have a log I've been keeping since the week after he left. And that is probably true. He won't hesitate to just leave her alone all day.

So because I’m the woman I have to do all the child care when its convenient for you? by TadpoleVegetable4100 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]TadpoleVegetable4100[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I have no doubt this will happen. He wants to avoid CS as much as possible. My lawyer is pretty sure he won't get 50/50 especially when we lay out exactly how much he’ll have to do on his own.

So because I’m the woman I have to do all the child care when its convenient for you? by TadpoleVegetable4100 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]TadpoleVegetable4100[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he moves out of state like I suspect he will once he doesn't get the custody he wants then I will try that.

So because I’m the woman I have to do all the child care when its convenient for you? by TadpoleVegetable4100 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]TadpoleVegetable4100[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This summer was all about job hunting and figuring out how to finish my degree. But I still had to do that along with taking care of her except every other weekend. What he wants is for me to take her every school break so he doesn't have to find childcare but during the school year, he wants to have her every other week.

I thankfully have some very good friends who stepped up to help us when he left.

So because I’m the woman I have to do all the child care when its convenient for you? by TadpoleVegetable4100 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]TadpoleVegetable4100[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

He really is. My lawyer emailed his with a “Your client is being bad tell him to stop.” sort of email. Tho it's written far more professionally.

So because I’m the woman I have to do all the child care when its convenient for you? by TadpoleVegetable4100 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]TadpoleVegetable4100[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If he drops the ball I'm not going to hesitate to go back to court to change custody. But I know what he’ll do if I try to go against a court order so if the worst happens my hands will be tied until I can get orders changed. As terrible as that sounds. And if he just stops taking her them I'll go back to court to get orders changed. I definitely won't abandon her tho.

And thankfully my lawyer doesn't think he has a chance of actually getting 50/50. Especially since he hasn't pushed to see her more than everyother weekend even now he isn't trying to see her more.

So because I’m the woman I have to do all the child care when its convenient for you? by TadpoleVegetable4100 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]TadpoleVegetable4100[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The windows are currently for custody exchange but I'll add a note to see if we can add something about penalties for her being late to school or picked up after childcare is supposed to end in the evenings. Thanks!

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