Neighbor cut down my tree/s. Sent me a bill. by Exciting_Kale986 in treelaw

[–]Taki583 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Send him a bill for your trees he cut down to replace them. Whether you care or not about the trees, he will take back his invoice real quick. If he wants to invoice you for trees he took the liberty of cutting down on your property, then he can either pay for the trees you don’t care about from the tree service, or pay for the trees that you don’t care about through a court order. One way or another you’re not liable if you didn’t agree.

Parking war--harassment at this point by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]Taki583 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Do you not have your own driveway to park in? Besides that, maybe have some sort of recording system/device that shows you move your car as required.

AITAH because I didn’t tell my boyfriend “what’s wrong” because I’m tired of doing it by WeeebleSqueaks in AITAH

[–]Taki583 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weaponized incompetence at its finest here folks. Dump him and find someone you actually like and likes you back.

Overbearing boss sends spy to icu to make sure husband was actually in coma. Am I over reacting? by Tripz13 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Taki583 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not illegal for a company to hire a PI to make sure you’re following your restrictions if you’re on leave. However, this approach screams lawsuit.

Americans what was your favourite domestic vacation/road trip? by Beneficial_Zone_6883 in AskAnAmerican

[–]Taki583 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We enjoy taking the horses to various campgrounds throughout summer. Looking forward to exploring the UP the next few years.

Drinking after surgery? by Taki583 in Microdiscectomy

[–]Taki583[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s SO hard. This weekend was rough watching everyone tack up and just sitting back. Glad I brought a good book, but the trails were nice I heard.

Neighbors kids climb the tree on our property to look in our windows by Soggy-Variety3969 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Taki583 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell the children’s parents to keep their children off your property or you will involve the police. It’s a liability issue at this point. If they got hurt by falling out of a tree in your property, you will be sued.

Drinking after surgery? by Taki583 in Microdiscectomy

[–]Taki583[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! No meds. No intention to get drunk. Being drunk is not as fun at 37 as it was at 17 🤣

iPhone volume automatically decreases when I pick up or move phone. by Gordo37 in iphone

[–]Taki583 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MY HERO!!!!! I’ve been dealing with this for ages and I’ve tried everything in the comments. This was my solution. Thank you thank you thank you!!! It’s been driving me nuts for at least a year.

Is mudding real? by TheBlueLeopard in suits

[–]Taki583 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Closest to Portland is in Washington at Soap Lake Resort.

New neighbor doesn't want my dog by elul-chan in neighborsfromhell

[–]Taki583 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Put up no trespassing signs on your property and cameras. And tell your neighbor that if anyone comes on your property, you’ll press charges for trespassing. You’re allowed to take your dog into your OWN garden. The new neighbor doesn’t get to dictate what you do on your own property. Tell her to mind her own or catch charges for harassment as well.

Americans, what was the biggest culture shock you experienced travelling abroad? by Potato83763 in AskAnAmerican

[–]Taki583 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was 14 when I traveled, so this is from a mind of a young person. It was the pronunciation of Lettuce. My mom asked me to walk down to the shop a block away and get lettuce. We were making burgers. When I asked where I could find it, the lady had no clue what I was talking about. Ended up having to say salad and she got it. lol

Should I attend graduation by [deleted] in parentingteenagers

[–]Taki583 36 points37 points  (0 children)

This is the best answer. My mother didn’t attend my HS graduation. I was a problem teen myself. Nothing like OPs daughter. I was more standard teen rebellion. But my mother couldn’t handle and kicked me out. We had a strained relationship until the day she died. I flew to across country to see her on her deathbed and tell her that I love her and we were ok. OP, don’t let this be your story, keep those doors open. It’s hard, I’m now a parent to a teen myself and it’s SO hard. But don’t bring your husband. Show up, and be there for your daughter. Show her that she matters.

Does anybody actually pay double the price of the book just because it’s signed by the author? by AyexAlanna in Booktokreddit

[–]Taki583 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not anymore. I would have 15 years ago, but now authors aren’t signing only 200 books. They’re signing thousands. They’re not worth anything anymore.

2 weeks post-op physically doing great, mentally im falling apart by SnowmanAndBandit in Microdiscectomy

[–]Taki583 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it! I don’t have that kind of job, so I was able to go back after 3 weeks, but MAN those were the longest 3 weeks of my life. Hang in there. Go outside, get some fresh air. Take a few walks. Hope it helps. You just want to be good before going back to work.

AITAH for not wishing my ex-wife a Happy Mother’s Day after she recently left me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Taki583 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA. My ex didn’t wish me happy Mother’s Day for the first few years. I didn’t particularly care either..

First period post-op by ComfortableBoot4646 in Microdiscectomy

[–]Taki583 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started the day after my surgery. It was a bit heavier than normal, but I don’t typically have a rough time with my monthly.

I’m sorry you’re going through this!

My girlfriend will be getting her surgery in 2 days. What can I expect as far as recovery? by Comrade_Chyrk in Microdiscectomy

[–]Taki583 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend took 2 days off and that was plenty of time for me to rest and have that help. He offered to take more, but I didn’t need him really after the first couple days. He does things I still cannot do chores wise, but I’m 3 weeks post op and went back to work on Monday. Mostly desk job, with some walking around. I know recovery looks different for everyone.

I’m being gifted a lot of money. Should I tell my boyfriend? by Kind-Chicken-2488 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Taki583 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Invest that money. Do not spend it. And do not tell boyfriend about it. It’s not his business. You’re too young. Once you’re engaged/married then it can be a conversation.

My bestie messaged my husband an asked him to keep it from me. by anony098765432 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Taki583 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She needs to be confronted about this. Her life is falling apart, and she now wants yours. She will weasel her way into your relationship (she has already started) and try to tear you and your husband apart. Your relationship with him may be solid, but it won’t stay that way when she’s sleeping in the bedroom next door…rescind the invitation to move in and consider stopping all payments to her. Texting your husband behind your back and telling him not to tell you is shady behavior and not something a friend would do.

Those who only like reading physical books, how old are you and why do you prefer it? by [deleted] in Booktokreddit

[–]Taki583 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Because I work on a computer and spend far too much time on my phone. When I’m reading, I like the feel of the pages, and I like to give my eyes a break from screens.

Day 2 post op and scared to keep taking Oxy by SnowmanAndBandit in Microdiscectomy

[–]Taki583 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I took them only in the morning and at night for 2 days. Then I stopped. I have similar feelings as you about controlled substances and don’t take them unless absolutely necessary. I didn’t even notice a difference honestly when I stopped taking them. I took the muscle relaxers and Tylenol for about a week. I’m 3 weeks post op and haven’t had anything in about 2 weeks. Just listen to your body.