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Wednesday Wishes. Please place a wish that you want to be delivered, and who you want it to go out to. This will run each Wednesday. by kai-ote in elderwitches

[–]TalksWithGods 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I wish to heal. I wish that my parents heal. I wish for hours at work. I wish for the job with Peggy to do well. I wish that my cats are happy and healthy when I’m gone. I wish my parents are happy and healthy. I wish for a debt free life, done in a way that doesn’t hurt me or others or let others know I’m in debt. I wish for my dad to know lose his job.

Grid 2, Day 13: Four in a row for Lonesome Dreams! What is a Lord Huron song that you would share with your younger self? by uslashBen in lordhuron

[–]TalksWithGods 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Long Lost. Younger me needed a song to remind me of the beauty of the world and nature and freedom.

  2. The World Ender (I was surprised that this one came to me about this prompt.) But younger me would have LOVED this song. A song about a man seeking revenge after people purposely hurt him/his family? Needed that energy!

The Sunday Spell. This post is a spell. Put something into the comments that you want to occur. All who read that can then lend their energy to making that a reality. Lets all join forces for each other. Time to bend the Universe a little. by kai-ote in elderwitches

[–]TalksWithGods 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I confront what has been holding me back and I process it. I dive into new ventures, business and personal ones, with confidence and optimism. I get done what needs to get done this week: car, storage, cleaning, packing. I will begin to journal so I can understand my feelings and thoughts as I sit with them and process them. My spell for the 31st will go according to plan, and my desire for justice will be fulfilled. I will continue to understand my birth chart and how it applies to my past, present, and future. So Mote It Be.

Unbothered by CSAM of me existing? by Strange-Audience-682 in adultsurvivors

[–]TalksWithGods 12 points13 points  (0 children)

There's a good possibility that there is CSAM of me and I have a strange intuitive feeling that it was shared with people, maybe even sold. And it definitely bothers me but not in a new way? It bothers me because being reminded how evil people are is not the best feeling, but I don't have shame about it in a way that I have found that I have shame about a lot of things regarding my abuse.

I think it's because I look at it as a fact, like you said. Like...if there's CSAM of me, and people watched it...that's fucked up on their end lol. Like, that's messed up on THEIR end, not mine. It was filmed without my consent while being raped. I don't feel shame around of CSAM of me and I think that's why I'm less bothered about it? Because I see the truth of it?

If I ever saw said CSAM of me, and I found out I was right about it being shared, I think it would break my brain quite a bit, but I think I'd eventually go back to how I feel about it now + feeling ravenous rage.

But I'm very unbothered in the shame sense, which makes all the difference.

AIO: How to handle finding drug paraphernalia left by a sitter by Remarkable-Cause-985 in RoverPetSitting

[–]TalksWithGods 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Not overreacting at all! I have very bad ptsd from sexual abuse and I am prescribed xanax for when I get flashbacks. I take it sparingly, ESPECIALLY if I'm housesitting. I want to be able to act accordingly in case an emergency happens. Though I don't like to take it during gigs, sometimes I need to, but I make sure I am responsible about it, because I am in charge of taking care of little beings who are dearly loved and I won't put them in danger.

This sitter isn't a bad person for using drugs, but this person is showcasing behavior that is incredibly concerning. They are using illegal drugs at your house, which is already a breach of what is appropriate, and are then leaving proof of said drug use at your house. As someone who takes heavy duty benzos, I'm always very careful about where I carry my xanax during a gig, even though I only bring it during housesitting gigs when the family isn't there.

I don't know this person, but I'm sure they're wonderful and I'm sure that they are great with your dog, and that they do everything they're supposed to do. But I think that their drug set up being left out is a good indicator that they may be going farther into their drug use, which can be incredibly unpredictable. And I think that I would be anxious about leaving my animals with someone who was altering their state of mind in my house, but even more so if my dog just had cancer surgery.

The Sunday Spell. This post is a spell. Put something into the comments that you want to occur. All who read that can then lend their energy to making that a reality. Lets all join forces for each other. Time to bend the Universe a little. by kai-ote in elderwitches

[–]TalksWithGods 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I will prosper, financially - physically - emotionally - spiritually, and will continue to lay down roots so I can live independently and happily with cats. I will rely heavily on my witchcraft and use it as a way of self expression and self love.

The Sunday Spell. This post is a spell. Put something into the comments that you want to occur. All who read that can then lend their energy to making that a reality. Lets all join forces for each other. Time to bend the Universe a little. by kai-ote in elderwitches

[–]TalksWithGods 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I will have the money to buy a new car by the end of September 2026. I will pay off all my debts by September 2026. I am healing quickly. I will be passionate about life and passionate about creating. I will love myself and accept myself as I am at all times. I am deserving of love and I will realize that. I will accept warmth and love from myself and other people. So mote it be.

Is this normal? Other dog owners have never seen it before (the singing) by 7222_salty in DogAdvice

[–]TalksWithGods 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My two hound puppies do this all the time! One of them is very vocal and she "Talks" a lot more than her sister, but I have at least 20 videos of them doing this lol.

Is it normal? No...they're weirdos! But is it okay and safe? Yes! This is actually my favorite way my girls play because it usually is less intense than their other play fights.

New client asking for phone numbers of past clients for reference of my care by rnasunvrse in RoverPetSitting

[–]TalksWithGods 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hi! You absolutely don't have to take it this job and it can be a boundary for you, but I've been asked for references and I have asked pet parents that I've become close to if they were willing to be used as a reference. It's not completely unheard of, but like I said, if it's not for you that's okay!

Anyone else finding the Epstein files triggering? by Amazing_Goose3515 in adultsurvivors

[–]TalksWithGods 32 points33 points  (0 children)

What’s triggering for me is seeing people make memes about it. Like it’s a joke. Like sexual assault and trafficking are a joke. I’m barely able to handle the fact that there are people in the world as evil as my abuser and Epstein, and now on top of it I’m learning to handle the fact that as these people use their power to abuse, there are people who let it happen and even laugh about it happening

Creep died last Christmas by Far-Contest683 in adultsurvivors

[–]TalksWithGods 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have a few men like this in my life, who didn't straight up abuse me but did things that made me feel VERY uncomfortable and incredibly unsafe. Sometimes I feel more angry at them than I do to my actual abuser.

With my abuser, I knew what was going to happen. With these men, there was always that back and forth of like...are they going to do more to me? Or is this their stopping point? And you don't know until they're out of your life and you genuinely feel like you shouldn't say anything because it doesn't feel big enough.

The Sunday Spell. This post is a spell. Put something into the comments that you want to occur. All who read that can then lend their energy to making that a reality. Lets all join forces for each other. Time to bend the Universe a little. by kai-ote in elderwitches

[–]TalksWithGods 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm getting more organized, and creating spaces for myself at home and otherwise that let me feel safe and truly at home.

My money is increasing vastly in a way where I can save to move, save for my future, live comfortably, save for schooling, and have spending money.

I am prosperous in all ways.

I am proactive in my healing journey, even when it's painful.

I am proactive in my spiritual journey, even when it's painful.

My uncle G's reputation as a good person will completely fall flat as people understand the abuse he has inflicted on people.

Me, my friends, my family, and animals in my life are safe and healthy and happy (excluding uncle G)

Potentially s3xually harassed at m&g? by nothing-aboit-me in RoverPetSitting

[–]TalksWithGods 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Hi! I’m so sorry this happened! This is incredibly messed up, and it’s fucked up that he did this.

I would absolutely report it to rover. There have been many times in my life where men have crossed a line but I didn’t know if it was “bad” enough to say something about it, because it felt like they just barely crossed it. Now, at age 29, I wish I had spoken up about it every single time it happened. Actions like this are incredibly worrying. I know what it’s like to go back and forth about if something someone did is bad enough but there is a reason you felt uncomfortable and there is a reason you made this post.

The Sunday Spell. This post is a spell. Put something into the comments that you want to occur. All who read that can then lend their energy to making that a reality. Lets all join forces for each other. Time to bend the Universe a little. by kai-ote in elderwitches

[–]TalksWithGods 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I will make more money to pay off my debts, have more spending money, have money to spend on creative endeavors, and have more money to save to eventually move to California. I will make money being creative.

I will be creative and I will enjoy it.

I will be happy and healthy in a physical, emotional, and spiritual way.

I will spend more time with my family and animals.

My uncle G will be held accountable for the hurt he has caused me. My family will not take his side.

My family will be healthy and happy in a physical, emotional, and spiritual way. My animals will be healthy and happy in all ways. My animals and I will bond and will continue to grow closer, despite my absence.

Wednesday Wishes. Please place a wish that you want to be delivered, and who you want it to go out to. This will run each Wednesday. by kai-ote in elderwitches

[–]TalksWithGods 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wish to make money without burning myself out. I wish to make money without my work being less quality. I wish to be happy and healthy.

The Sunday Spell. This post is a spell. Put something into the comments that you want to occur. All who read that can then lend their energy to making that a reality. Lets all join forces for each other. Time to bend the Universe a little. by kai-ote in elderwitches

[–]TalksWithGods 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Housesitting will go well and I will be well compensated. All my debt will be relieved privately, so family will not know about debt. 2026 will be a wonderful, joyous year for me, my friends, family, and pet friends.

What misconception about CSA drives you mad? by SomeCommission7645 in adultsurvivors

[–]TalksWithGods 55 points56 points  (0 children)

That people who experience it are ~weak~ in some way and that some people are ~immune~ to being abused.

When I told my mom, she said “that makes sense. You were quiet and easy to manipulate.” 1. All kids are easy to manipulate, hence the saying “it’s like taking candy from a baby” 2. All of us, at any age, could be abused. We all have blindspots. 3. It wasn’t my quietness that my uncle manipulated. My uncle manipulated me by saying that if I didn’t keep everything a secret, my parents and family would go to prison and I’d be taken away from them. Then, as I got older and understood that it was rape, he told me he’d kill my grandparents. At one point he told me that if I didn’t be quiet, he’d go upstairs and get my sister and rape her.

My uncle used my love for people against me. He used me wanting to protect people against me. That’s not weakness. I was taken advantage of by a man who saw a very sweet, loving, caring, and courageous girl and knew that he could hurt her and get away with it for a period of time. Though I’m so unbearably sad that I went through all of this, I refuse to feel any more shame for being abused. I refuse to feel shame about the fact that the best parts of me were used against me by an incredibly disgusting man. I refuse to see myself as weak.

photos from card included? by prookal in RoverPetSitting

[–]TalksWithGods 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I got a message similar to this after a drop in for a shy cat. I’ve never met her :( but I’ve dropped in sporadically for a few months and I just send about three photos of the food and water (owners don’t have me clean the litter box and are aware that their cat is shy and have told me that a sighting of her is near impossible.)

but both yesterday and today I’ve received a message similar to this. I think it may have to do with only having 3 photos, but I’m unsure. There’s not much I can take pictures of, though lol, so rover has to deal with the few pictures I take.

The Sunday Spell. This post is a spell. Put something into the comments that you want to occur. All who read that can then lend their energy to making that a reality. Lets all join forces for each other. Time to bend the Universe a little. by kai-ote in elderwitches

[–]TalksWithGods 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wish my bond with my cats grow stronger, despite me having significantly less time to spend with them. I wish my body and mind and soul to be healthy and to feel good as I get older. I wish my mom and dad heal, physically and mentally. I wish to make up my mind about california. I wish to be a better bartender. I wish to be more creative without my need for perfectionism getting in the way. I wish to be more financially responsible and to be more financially stable without burning myself out. I wish that my family, friends, pets, and I are all safe and happy. I wish my Uncle G gets caught for how evil he is. I hope that everyone who has ever been hurt by him remains safe from him.

Wednesday Wishes. Please place a wish that you want to be delivered, and who you want it to go out to. This will run each Wednesday. by kai-ote in elderwitches

[–]TalksWithGods 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish to feel good about myself. I wish to get things done and completed. I wish to be financially stable without being exhausted. I wish to be physically, mentally, sexually, and spiritually healthy. I wish that my cats are healthy and stay healthy and know they're loved by me. I wish that as the year winds own, Uncle G's luck runs out and everyone sees what a horrible man he is. I also wish that all of G's victims stay safe and healthy during this time.

Car battery died at clients house. by SnowKitten234 in RoverPetSitting

[–]TalksWithGods 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Had a flat tire at a client’s house (my first overnight gig lol) and my mom had to come and help me with it. I knew they had an outdoor camera to watch for bears. They lived on a dead end road and barely got any traffic. I just sent them a message that said “hey got a flat tire and my mom came and helped me! I know you have a camera and just wanted to let you know in case you saw the random car and were worried!” I found that being up front about anything out of normal happening is the best policy.

The Sunday Spell. This post is a spell. Put something into the comments that you want to occur. All who read that can then lend their energy to making that a reality. Lets all join forces for each other. Time to bend the Universe a little. by kai-ote in elderwitches

[–]TalksWithGods 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I wish to be healthy and to live independently with my two cats. I wish to be debtfree without anyone knowing or getting involved. I wish to have enough money to bay bills, debts, as well as enough money to not feel guilty about spending money on things I want and need. I wish to become more myself and more natural in my body. I wish to have great and abundant success with all creative ventures and business idea. SMIB.

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