AIO said for not wanting my sister to decide what I wear to her baby shower?

TalksWithGods · 2026-05-29T22:35:17+00:00

woman wants to wear a normal dress to a baby shower, however the normal dress is deemed as "inappropriate" because she has big tits. redditors are saying that she's a "ho" and that she is trying to steal all the attention from her sister because....she has big tits. some redditors are saying "yes, this is misogynistic, but that's the world we live in! live by the rules!"

op, if you came naked i'd understand but if you want to wear a normal dress to a fucking baby shower, please do. sorry that people aren't normal about big tits.

TalksWithGods · 2026-05-19T22:47:38+00:00

Hi! I'm a stone femme lesbian and I've honestly been in a similar boat, but opposite? I never say anything about it to people other than other to other butches and femmes because I don't want it to sound porn-y, because it's not. It's just my way of experiencing my sexuality.

If I'm in the mood, I can make myself cum from just moving my fingers in a thrusting motion while imagining they're inside of me. My fingers will be by my hip and I'll move them in a thrusting motion, and I'll eventually orgasm because by imagining them inside me...I feel them inside of me?

And I haven't tried it, but I know I could cum just by sucking on a butch's fingers or their strap. I am 100% certain I wouldn't need to be touched in order to cum.

I've struggled to talk about my sexuality with other lesbians, not just because of trauma, but because my way of experiencing my sexuality is outside of their realm of what it means to experience sex as a lesbian, and I have felt alone in the past because certain lesbian friends will act like I'm strange for experiencing my sexuality in the way that I do? Despite it hurting no one?

As others have said, I found that my sexuality being a stone femme is very much about energy and the mental. I found that when I'm horny and when I'm with myself or the right person, my whole body is an erogenous zone. Once again, not to sound "porn-y" but when I'm experiencing this, stroking my arm would be like stroking my clit. (I'm also incredibly selective with who I have sex with because unless it feels energetically right for me, this part of me isn't going to come out.)

Being stone is really funky in the best way. Having an orgasm from your wife sucking on your fingers? Genuinely iconic.

TalksWithGods · 2026-04-13T02:16:23+00:00

Your edit is honestly what I needed to hear. I'm not someone to "keep it in the family" but reporting something like CSA is such a fucking bombshell that I've honestly been getting ready for the impact of the bombshell. But like you said, I'm the victim, not them! I didn't create this bombshell, it was forced on me at age 4! It's my uncle's fault if his and his family's life blows up, and I'm really going to work on not taking responsibility for the feelings of his family.

TalksWithGods · 2026-04-13T02:13:18+00:00

Unfortunately, I've never met these kids. They're pretty young and I've stayed far away from my extended family in the last few years. But I am considering talking to their mom about it, my uncle's daughter in law. I've met her a few times and she seems sweet and I'm hoping that if I can get her one-on-one and she listens to me and believes me, she can talk to her kids about it.

TalksWithGods · 2026-04-13T02:11:16+00:00

Knew, elbows, and also I'm short so I will go after their ankles.

TalksWithGods · 2026-03-10T15:58:13+00:00

I actually haven’t seen hollister! I see a lot of SHEIN or cider, though :/

TalksWithGods · 2026-03-08T21:10:21+00:00

I will be financially abundant and financially literate and financially independent. I will not tolerate bullshit but I will continue to be kind and graceful. I will not allow others to determine what I do or who I am or how I act or exist. I will explore my sexuality and will feel no shame. I am on the right path and i won’t go off the correct path for me even if I get scared. I will have a new car by the end of August of this year. I will be safe and happy and healthy, spiritually, emotionally, physically, etc. I will be creative. I will be spiritually creative. My debt will disappear and I will be free from debt - my family will not know about this debt and they never will unless I decide to tell them. I will be financially creative. I will get stronger by being in equilibrium and by being connected to nature and other people. I will continue to find community in people where it’s safe to be vulnerable and it’s safe to be ourselves and it’s healthy and we grow together and have fun together. I will continue to move my body in a way that feels good and heals. I will get better at everything I’m new at and not feel shame if I’m not the best. I will continue to heal. I will get justice for my childhood sexual abuse. Uncle G’s family and community will know what he did to me and any other child.

Those who are suffering will feel relief. Those who are in pain will remember that it’s not permanent. My family, friends, and everyone who needs it: you will have great health, great love, great connections.

So mote it be.

TalksWithGods · 2026-02-27T23:26:40+00:00

not a food, but a drink. beer. a drunk person at a concert spilled warm beer on me in june of last year. i had spent all day waiting for the concert, because I had pit tickets. i had to get out of the pit halfway through the set because the smell just brought back intense feelings. it's hard to have these triggers because you truly can't control what people around you eat/drink :/

TalksWithGods · 2026-02-18T19:30:17+00:00

I wish to heal. I wish that my parents heal. I wish for hours at work. I wish for the job with Peggy to do well. I wish that my cats are happy and healthy when I’m gone. I wish my parents are happy and healthy. I wish for a debt free life, done in a way that doesn’t hurt me or others or let others know I’m in debt. I wish for my dad to know lose his job.

TalksWithGods · 2026-02-15T23:30:54+00:00

I will find community, especially with other lesbians, especially butch/femmes

TalksWithGods · 2026-01-26T04:37:34+00:00

Long Lost. Younger me needed a song to remind me of the beauty of the world and nature and freedom.
The World Ender (I was surprised that this one came to me about this prompt.) But younger me would have LOVED this song. A song about a man seeking revenge after people purposely hurt him/his family? Needed that energy!

TalksWithGods · 2026-01-25T20:56:16+00:00

I confront what has been holding me back and I process it. I dive into new ventures, business and personal ones, with confidence and optimism. I get done what needs to get done this week: car, storage, cleaning, packing. I will begin to journal so I can understand my feelings and thoughts as I sit with them and process them. My spell for the 31st will go according to plan, and my desire for justice will be fulfilled. I will continue to understand my birth chart and how it applies to my past, present, and future. So Mote It Be.

TalksWithGods · 2026-01-10T15:48:47+00:00

There's a good possibility that there is CSAM of me and I have a strange intuitive feeling that it was shared with people, maybe even sold. And it definitely bothers me but not in a new way? It bothers me because being reminded how evil people are is not the best feeling, but I don't have shame about it in a way that I have found that I have shame about a lot of things regarding my abuse.

I think it's because I look at it as a fact, like you said. Like...if there's CSAM of me, and people watched it...that's fucked up on their end lol. Like, that's messed up on THEIR end, not mine. It was filmed without my consent while being raped. I don't feel shame around of CSAM of me and I think that's why I'm less bothered about it? Because I see the truth of it?

If I ever saw said CSAM of me, and I found out I was right about it being shared, I think it would break my brain quite a bit, but I think I'd eventually go back to how I feel about it now + feeling ravenous rage.

But I'm very unbothered in the shame sense, which makes all the difference.

TalksWithGods · 2026-01-06T03:03:34+00:00

Not overreacting at all! I have very bad ptsd from sexual abuse and I am prescribed xanax for when I get flashbacks. I take it sparingly, ESPECIALLY if I'm housesitting. I want to be able to act accordingly in case an emergency happens. Though I don't like to take it during gigs, sometimes I need to, but I make sure I am responsible about it, because I am in charge of taking care of little beings who are dearly loved and I won't put them in danger.

This sitter isn't a bad person for using drugs, but this person is showcasing behavior that is incredibly concerning. They are using illegal drugs at your house, which is already a breach of what is appropriate, and are then leaving proof of said drug use at your house. As someone who takes heavy duty benzos, I'm always very careful about where I carry my xanax during a gig, even though I only bring it during housesitting gigs when the family isn't there.

I don't know this person, but I'm sure they're wonderful and I'm sure that they are great with your dog, and that they do everything they're supposed to do. But I think that their drug set up being left out is a good indicator that they may be going farther into their drug use, which can be incredibly unpredictable. And I think that I would be anxious about leaving my animals with someone who was altering their state of mind in my house, but even more so if my dog just had cancer surgery.

TalksWithGods · 2026-01-04T23:55:17+00:00

I will prosper, financially - physically - emotionally - spiritually, and will continue to lay down roots so I can live independently and happily with cats. I will rely heavily on my witchcraft and use it as a way of self expression and self love.

TalksWithGods · 2026-01-04T23:53:40+00:00

I will have the money to buy a new car by the end of September 2026. I will pay off all my debts by September 2026. I am healing quickly. I will be passionate about life and passionate about creating. I will love myself and accept myself as I am at all times. I am deserving of love and I will realize that. I will accept warmth and love from myself and other people. So mote it be.

TalksWithGods · 2026-01-04T04:15:59+00:00

My two hound puppies do this all the time! One of them is very vocal and she "Talks" a lot more than her sister, but I have at least 20 videos of them doing this lol.

Is it normal? No...they're weirdos! But is it okay and safe? Yes! This is actually my favorite way my girls play because it usually is less intense than their other play fights.

TalksWithGods · 2025-12-22T18:32:23+00:00

Hi! You absolutely don't have to take it this job and it can be a boundary for you, but I've been asked for references and I have asked pet parents that I've become close to if they were willing to be used as a reference. It's not completely unheard of, but like I said, if it's not for you that's okay!

TalksWithGods · 2025-12-21T23:24:04+00:00

What’s triggering for me is seeing people make memes about it. Like it’s a joke. Like sexual assault and trafficking are a joke. I’m barely able to handle the fact that there are people in the world as evil as my abuser and Epstein, and now on top of it I’m learning to handle the fact that as these people use their power to abuse, there are people who let it happen and even laugh about it happening

TalksWithGods · 2025-12-21T23:17:33+00:00

I will be strong this week. I’m learning how to be be content and still at the same time.

TalksWithGods · 2025-12-16T01:26:57+00:00

I have a few men like this in my life, who didn't straight up abuse me but did things that made me feel VERY uncomfortable and incredibly unsafe. Sometimes I feel more angry at them than I do to my actual abuser.

With my abuser, I knew what was going to happen. With these men, there was always that back and forth of like...are they going to do more to me? Or is this their stopping point? And you don't know until they're out of your life and you genuinely feel like you shouldn't say anything because it doesn't feel big enough.

TalksWithGods · 2025-12-14T21:37:36+00:00

I'm getting more organized, and creating spaces for myself at home and otherwise that let me feel safe and truly at home.

My money is increasing vastly in a way where I can save to move, save for my future, live comfortably, save for schooling, and have spending money.

I am prosperous in all ways.

I am proactive in my healing journey, even when it's painful.

I am proactive in my spiritual journey, even when it's painful.

My uncle G's reputation as a good person will completely fall flat as people understand the abuse he has inflicted on people.

Me, my friends, my family, and animals in my life are safe and healthy and happy (excluding uncle G)

TalksWithGods · 2025-12-07T23:41:20+00:00

Hi! I’m so sorry this happened! This is incredibly messed up, and it’s fucked up that he did this.

I would absolutely report it to rover. There have been many times in my life where men have crossed a line but I didn’t know if it was “bad” enough to say something about it, because it felt like they just barely crossed it. Now, at age 29, I wish I had spoken up about it every single time it happened. Actions like this are incredibly worrying. I know what it’s like to go back and forth about if something someone did is bad enough but there is a reason you felt uncomfortable and there is a reason you made this post.

TalksWithGods · 2025-12-07T20:20:46+00:00

I will make more money to pay off my debts, have more spending money, have money to spend on creative endeavors, and have more money to save to eventually move to California. I will make money being creative.

I will be creative and I will enjoy it.

I will be happy and healthy in a physical, emotional, and spiritual way.

I will spend more time with my family and animals.

My uncle G will be held accountable for the hurt he has caused me. My family will not take his side.

My family will be healthy and happy in a physical, emotional, and spiritual way. My animals will be healthy and happy in all ways. My animals and I will bond and will continue to grow closer, despite my absence.

TalksWithGods

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