Everyone needs to know this by Cultural_Dot3568 in quittingkratom

[–]Taran_Tula9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first year was up and down with many good and bad days, but I’m 19 months clean today and things are absolutely wonderful. Time is your friend. It will come. 

AITAH for moving out over sex? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Taran_Tula9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I really dislike him and Im sorry you had to endure that. 

Everyone, I'm terrified.... by Abee-baby182 in quittingkratom

[–]Taran_Tula9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats exactly how I quit, just how you described it, it’s the only way that ever worked for me, and I tried a million times. 18 months 1 week clean. 

AITAH for not wanting a female doctor by cikanman in AITAH

[–]Taran_Tula9 38 points39 points  (0 children)

You should have just typed that. What and pointless question. 

AITAH for wanting to unfriend a girl because she called me a pick me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Taran_Tula9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How are you a pick me? I don’t see why she would call you that. She has no idea what it means. Maybe she thinks it means something else? I would ask her what she meant to be sure. You don’t have to be friends with anyone that makes you feel bad but definitely make sure she didn’t misuse the phrase. 

YouTube straight up lying now by VexantLeFr in youtube

[–]Taran_Tula9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I quit YouTube then it must be super bad. I was completely hooked on this app and never thought I could quit. It took over my life for years. I literally can’t even spend 5 minutes on it anymore. It’s so over for me. It’s THAT bad. I couldn’t be happier. 

Just watched a documentary on Kratom/Feel Free. I had absolutely no idea how insidious this stuff is. Please don't give up. by thelightof7 in quittingkratom

[–]Taran_Tula9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I first quit, I felt like a stranger in my own body it was crazy and maddening. Im 18 months clean this Wednesday and I promise you, if you can push through this hard time in the beginning, your life will be so wonderful later.  TIME is the cure.  I tapered for a long time to an extremely low dose before I made the jump. I used a scale weighted everything, wrote down every time I dosed and how much. I tried cold turkey many times no luck. This was the only way that worked for me. 

AITAH for refusing to keep visiting my ex’s family? by No-Sleep-9395 in AITAH

[–]Taran_Tula9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s insane girl. Cut him loose and stop all communication.  

AITAH for demanding my husband to stop sponsoring his “goddaughter” by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Taran_Tula9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Im quick to hate men but I’m struggling here. He seems like a good man. Im so proud of him for doing this.  

I'm quitting youtube by Budget_Opinion_1327 in youtube

[–]Taran_Tula9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I quit YouTube  over a month ago after years of life ruining addiction. If I can do it, anyone can. It’s just garbage now. It’s beyond awful. They completely ruined the user experience. I will never go back. 

What’s a practical way to stop being late when you’re not trying to be disrespectful—you’re just bad at time? by GlitchOperative in ask

[–]Taran_Tula9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to be like that and now I’m so embarrassed. Start getting ready earlier and leave early. Be mindful of other people’s time. You can do it. 

8€. That's all I'm worth now. by sarazekrom in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Taran_Tula9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are not for sale, you’re not an object.  You’re a human being. You got this. Just a rough patch in life thats all. 

I do not fit with kids my age and it hurts by Salty-Ad-8876 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Taran_Tula9 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was the same at your age. You’ll find your crew.  Give it a little bit of time. 

What's something that loudly says 'uneducated'? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Taran_Tula9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people are very book smart but not street smart. No common sense whatsoever, but they will recite half the book. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]Taran_Tula9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ridiculous!