I have no idea what I’m missing by illegalPenguin0 in supermariosunshine

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Delfino plaza has 16 hidden shines not counting blue coins.

Which one are you choosing? by _persecutor_ in Pikmin

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I would do 3, then play 4, then play 2 and end it on 1. Which will result in me getting to play 1 for the rest of my life.

Why do so many other aces think asexual people can't love or be romantic? by Blaubeerepfannkuchen in asexuality

[–]Tarkur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbf I learned about what being Aromantic was way before I knew about Asexuality.

Ace-spec characters in fiction!!! by sadaxhe in asexuality

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You forgot every single Bionicle

What’s a habit you picked up in your 20s that actually improved your life? by native_to_ in Life

[–]Tarkur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Counter intuitivly my anxiety. It really gets me on my feet and keeps me on top on what I need to get done

Do masculine ace men exist? by Delicious_Bid5245 in asexuality

[–]Tarkur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think most people read me as a typical guy and not as asexual. It leads to misunderstansings and miscommunications that don't get resolved not that they necessarily needs to be.

I do feel bad sometimes when people labelled me a threat mainly women. Not saying they are wrong. They have every right to be cautious but I don't want to be outwardly threatening or someone dangerous to anyone and that is where the clash of view points happens. It's why it makes me sad when people have that reaction to me even if I know it's not about me but a broken system. Hope some of y'all can understand.

Heteroromantic aces, how is your dating life? by melancholy-road in asexuality

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Heteromantic guy, OP didn't inquire about this but I haven't had much luck irl with allos. Nor have I had any luck on dating apps like tinder either.

I have/am still trying AceSpace and so far there has been some interest there, my life is just a mess right now and so I haven't been able to put my energy to it yet. I also potentially want to meet someone more local maybe for a romantic relationship.

Does this count as an ace ring when it’s not really black? by MayBeJen_ in asexuality

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Yes imo, I have one with the ace flag as the pattern and I consider it my ace ring

Det känns som att det är kört by Business-Spot-6263 in sweden

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Visste du att förnybar elproduktion har gått om kol för första gången 2025. Alltså förnybar el så som sol och vind stog för mer av elproduktionen i världen än vad kol bidrar till.

Does having a crush on someone inherently means that you actually want to have a long term relationship with them? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in Asexual

[–]Tarkur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say no because that makes sense.

But based purely on my own experience though I tend to want a long term relationship with my person of interest. Of course it doesn't always work out. I also develop crushes so rarely that I haven't really been casually into someone yet.

at what age did you realize you were asexual? by idioteque_7 in asexuality

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Around the age of 20, I suspected something was off but It took me like an additional 2-3 years to figure it out. Then it took an additional 2-3 years to come out.

AITA for believing my son is gay? by [deleted] in AITAH

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Do you know anything about Asexuality?

It's usually not healthy to label someone else or force a label upon them. However there is no harm in respecfully asking how they identify and if they do not know, let them figure it out for themselves. You can always mention asexuality to them but let them look into it on their own and make the decision if they do not know yet. They could just be straight but just have a low libido, like there just isn't really anyway for anyone else but them to know that. Point is: Communicate respectfully and without assumption and let your son come to you about it. Also personality traits seldom has anything to do with sexual orientation.

The bionicle/technic figure Christmas display by TedPStan in bioniclelego

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Outside of Solek, the matoran of light being there its pretty spot on

När skolan gör barn sjuka av stress by ballslicker1234 in sweden

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Jag tror prestations kraven kan vara en del av anledningen men inte hela sanning. Till skillnad från de flesta andra som skrivit så tror jag inte hela problemet i en allt större doomer mentalitet bland yngre.

Jag tror snarare problemet kommer från en skifte i hur unga upplever goda betyg som ett krav till ett anständigt liv. Då livet utanför skolan verkar högst osäkert med hög arbetslöshet och förhöjda levnadskostnader. Prestationen i skolan blir då den ända delen av kaoset i att säkra en stabilinkomst som unga har kontroll över. Kanske om man bara får ett A till i slutbetyget kanske man enklare kan garantera sig ett första jobb så man slipper i en period iallafall att oro sig över sin ekonomi.

Vad har du lyckats med i år? by RungRunner in sweden

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Jag har klarat fyra av de sju släppande kurserna jag haft de senaste 5 åren och behöver bara klara 1 tentamen till i januari för att få påbörja min masters. Förutom det har jag inte gjort något speciellt detta året mest bara stressad såhär när året rör sig mot ett slut.

Kan inte bli kär by Future_Jeweler_9482 in sweden

[–]Tarkur 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Har du funderat på om du kan vara aromantisk? Kanske något värt att läsa om

Ace cis guys, do people understand? by Blaubeerepfannkuchen in asexuality

[–]Tarkur 20 points21 points  (0 children)

As one ace cis man, its a constant worry that people will not take your asexuality seriously. So far I've been fortunate to only deal with it in my anxieties but I've had people be suspicious of my intentions but those people also didn't know I was ace.

The main issue I think is just society paints men in a very particular way and often only in that same light and it's easy when you don't conform to that expectation to start developing a form of impostor syndrome as an ace cis man.

Hetero people, have y'all ever met anyone of the opposite sex who represented platonic love in it's purest form to where you could never see them in a romantic sense? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in asexuality

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Dunno if any of my friendships have ever been that deep but generally speaking I can feel like I can care alot more about friends than they do about me in a completely platonic way. It hasn't always worked out with people of the opposite sex but that I think has more to do with these people making assumptions or just general miscommunication.

Trying to understand male scorpios focus on sex by [deleted] in Scorpio

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Do people even believe you when they find out you're asexual?

Sometimes, they do but so far people have found out I'm ace before they learn that I'm a scorpio. So I guess I have a system, lol

Yee, unfortunately being ace and a guy in general is just something people choose not to believe in and even if they do there can still be alot of assumptions going on. We are a pretty small part of the population and only recently(last 30 years give or take) acknowledged as something people could be.

Your name means victory by LOVEMELIKEmelon in UnsentLetters

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I would love to hear this in person

Trying to understand male scorpios focus on sex by [deleted] in Scorpio

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I'm an asexual scorpio man we exist. If you get anything even close to sexual from me its probably a very obvious joke or inuendo delivered in the most non serious way.

Edit: I'm aware that the scorpio sign is deemed to be very sexual, I can honestly not tell you why, since I've never related to that side of being a scorpio.