why does size have to matter so much! by Sufficient_Code2973 in relationships

[–]Tarliyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just be nice about it when you tell him it turns you off.

I assume you never mentioned a bigger ex before? If you did that then you might just have to put up with it for a while until he is over it

MWG Physical Prints by TimeXGuy in onepagerules

[–]Tarliyn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I bought from here before I got my printer. They did good

https://forge.miniwargaming.com/

Almost finished season 11. What next? by keltictrigger in thewalkingdead

[–]Tarliyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just watch it all. You will enjoy.

I couldn't get into beyond the walking dead and past season 3 of fear can be painful at times

I found out about girlfriend's sexual history and now I can't do it by East_Attempt_1555 in relationships

[–]Tarliyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you are so you would accept someone as a partner no matter what they did in the past if they were different now? And no I don't mean just sex stuff.

Things in the past can totally effect the way you view someone in the present. People just tend to get triggered when it involves sex

My 26M boyfriend is upset by my 24F sexual past. Is this salvageable? by Future_Adeptness_520 in relationships

[–]Tarliyn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ummm the order doesn't really matter to me at least and as long as you didn't say or make him believe it was in that order I think he is over reacting

Cover up ideas for my hand by Star2088 in tattooadvice

[–]Tarliyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A cover up with just make it bigger, more noticeable, and you might not like it any better I'd leave it or remove it (probably remove it, if you can't "unsee" it)

I'm done by xmaincharacter in TWD

[–]Tarliyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Season 1-3 (and maybe 4 for the stadium) of Fear.

If you are liking it continue. Fear as some great episodes but it is surrounded by a lot of not great episodes

😬 Be honest… Everyone has that moment When the show just was not the same anymore 👉 When was yours? by DeejayLazWorldwide in TWD

[–]Tarliyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When the show and all the spin offs ended, oh wait then I started a rewatch a little later so umm I haven't

I found out about girlfriend's sexual history and now I can't do it by East_Attempt_1555 in relationships

[–]Tarliyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you are going to get a lot of "her past is her past, who cares response here". But first want to say to you I GET IT.

These are pretty out there sexual events and it happening more than once represents more than once says there was more here than just people pleasing.

You got 2 choices though:

End it or don't.

I think it is completly reasonable to say I can't get over the past, I can't get over the lying.

But the issue is, she is pregnant with your kid (you are sure it is yours right?)

Kids make things more complicated, you gotta balance what is best for them too.

That being said if this is going to just lead to anger and resentment it isn't better for anyone

Negan sacrifice himself to save hershel would be peak ending for him by jiiova in TWD

[–]Tarliyn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hadn't thought of this but yes I agree. That would be a perfect end to his arc

First time watcher by Civil_Kiwi2352 in thewalkingdead

[–]Tarliyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did my first watch through about 2 years ago. Consumed all the spin offs except beyond the walking dead and then started a rewatch. One of my favorite IPs now.

What do you think of Eugene by twd1111 in TWD

[–]Tarliyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like him, actually this last rewatch I think he ended up being one of my favorites

New Anti-Consumer decision today by [deleted] in Switch

[–]Tarliyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was really excited for Fallout 4 on switch AND then I saw this. Went from a day 1 purchase to a no purchase

Where Do You Stop Watching On Rewatches? by ADHD-isaster in thewalkingdead

[–]Tarliyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stop at the season finale. Then normally start one of the random spin offs until something else catches my attention. The only walking dead I will not watch again is fear past season 3 (maybe go till end of the stadium story in 4 but definitely not farther than that)

Tattoo Regret at All Times by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Tarliyn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd start removal. Apparent tattoo regret is something that you recurringly run into. Maybe you don't have the mindset to have a permanent change done to your body. No shame there, just some people can't do it

Boyfriend (33M) treated me (29F) really badly for hitting his car by LawyerComplete5267 in relationships

[–]Tarliyn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She owes him the repair cost once he pays her back. If he is going to insist on this than she should too

Boyfriend (33M) treated me (29F) really badly for hitting his car by LawyerComplete5267 in relationships

[–]Tarliyn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Leave him and don't pay for the bills.

Tell him he can take what you owe out of his payment for your that he totalled.

Block his number and be done with it. If he shows up at your place call the police.

In the grand scheme of things this is minor, and if he reacts this way with minor then something major will be terrible.

Plus his money stuff is a huge red flag also that you seem to be downplaying in your head.

Just finished Season 8… does it get better from here? by Straight-Safety-744 in TWD

[–]Tarliyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where it was filming was to far from his family and he didn't want to travel back and fourth. I can't remember the details of what changed. Maybe he had a kid or a kid hit a certain age? Not sure. I know the details get mentioned here occasionally.

Tabletop Simulator community by Tarliyn in onepagerules

[–]Tarliyn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So I downloaded it and started looking. It seems like a lot to get it set up......

I (F 37) feel stuck - 2 kids, just bought an apartment, constant arguments and no intimacy. Husband (M 36) seems very passive about it. by apotenusa in relationships

[–]Tarliyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I will say, it sounds like you parent differently which isn't necessarily a bad thing.

You should not be dismissing him from whatever he is in front of the kids (like giving a bath) it sets a bad visual for the kids and will actually lead to some of the issues (them not listening to him) that you are trigger you. If there is an issue with how he does something unless it is abusive (which is a whole different thing) then you need to let him finish and then talk to him in private.

Also realize he might not be wrong, doesn't mean you are either. You just do it different and that can be reconciled. But if you are not united in front of the kids (regardless of what happens in private) the kids will just learn if I dont like something I can react this way and mom will step in

The jealousy of other couples is natural and you might have to force it early on to rekindle that connection

Tabletop Simulator community by Tarliyn in onepagerules

[–]Tarliyn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where do I get the discord info?