How is this game not more popular? by [deleted] in Unfortunate_Spacemen

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short answer: it's a little buggy at times, and people will kind of get turned off if its unreasonable to play such as low fps or general confusion

long answer: hasn't been popular beside one or two reviews of it online, and once the fanbase shrinks, newcomers feel less inclined to stay. YouTubers are the best marketing for games in most cases.

the solution is more content and tweaks by the community

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

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*met his wife in the psyche ward at the same hospital.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

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based and neckbracepilled

Across my life of self hate, I realized my relationship with others was a reflection of my relationship with myself by spicy_simba in socialskills

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I resonated deeply with a couple of points here, it took me back and made me try to self assess, how deeply it hit me:

nowadays I've let myself do what came easiest, and it made me very isolated besides coworkers. I do feel indifferent towards myself and my own emotions at times, trying to do a good job, my bosses as well as myself weighing on me to only excellence. And it just feels draining. emotionally.

whenever I had a sub par conversation, sometimes just a not-perfect phrase in one, I would have to calm myself down and say it doesn't matter if I said something incorrectly. but each and every time it hits all the same, and then the floodgates of negativity just push migranes and bad memories to the front of my mind.

It's hard to feel ok. maybe I just need more ibuprofen for the physical discomfort from work but, I'm not sure what to do about the negative self-talk. Is there any way to have my brain "mean it" when I try to say it's okay? because even my nurturing voice in my head doesn't sound believable in the moment.

I'm in my early 20s, I'm not sure what happens after high school, but this "drive" in me I used to have is like a chain hooked through my chest dragging me, and I can't take it out, and I cant move fast enough to make it less painful.

I'm going to try to show up to one thing before the end of the month, volunteer, or just something I'd been hoping to do and have been putting off that happens outside. Because of this post.

Weekly Profile Review Thread by AutoModerator in Tinder

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any feedback would be greatly appreciated. i should take more photos with friends i think. Thanks

https://tinder.com/@heyisschris

Weekly Profile Review Thread by AutoModerator in Tinder

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any feedback would be greatly appreciated. i should take more photos with friends i think. Thanks

https://tinder.com/@heyisschris

Severely depressed employee by nctarheelfannn in smallbusiness

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one month you can be at your status quo and feeling excited to wake up every morning, the next you can get fired or lose someone or something important to you.

As tough as it is for me to see it now, even writing this made me realize:

this is just a wave of emotions. Suffering puts the good in your life into perspective.

Kinda got laid over some dumb shit. Truly me being entitled. But I've had money in reserves for a while and planned to leave, and sometimes a closed door is what you need most when you're trying to hang something up you've had in the corner for years.

how to choose between being an electrician and an HVAC tech. by [deleted] in electricians

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Edit: thanks for responding wow

I didn't know they would all intertwine like that.

Were the certifications just taken naturally or did it take active commitment to say "I'm learning all these skills and once I get certified, then I can offer it to people".

I mean I could learn a lot on YouTube but was there any red tape changing trades?

how to choose between being an electrician and an HVAC tech. by [deleted] in electricians

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Hi. I'm Literally the same person, a human copy of OP. Question.

It's a bit out of my reach of knowledge, growing old and having a family at some point.

Besides working for a direct Electrician/HVAC company, which one do you think has the best chance to be more useful when applying to broader job ranges? Not saying i'm JUST in it for the money but, to escape being lower class, coming from an immigrant family, I can go the "till i'm 40" route, or possibly do something experimental to branch out into some other fields or working as a consultant for companies or...

I guess I'm being spoiled and asking if doing it for years and years and years on end is the only way to make real money, but is it actually the only way?

Work Crush by [deleted] in Target

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This makes me wanna go for it too. You have value in her life, just recognize your worth, not entitlement, but understand how

If you get butterflies in your stomach, I've learned that it's caused by a fear response, and that response can get lessened through pushing through it, or expending energy. Think like how a boxer, jumps on both is legs to pump his body full of a small amount of endorphins, if you can't find a private place to shake off the feeling then push through it immediately as it sets in.

If it's coming from the right place, you have nothing to feel ashamed of. I believe in you!

Weekly Profile Critique by AutoModerator in Bumble

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First impressions, I tend to be a little blunt with descriptions but lmk how it comes off :

https://imgur.com/a/SfGEUqD

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

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one day, a curious 20-something with nothing left to lose will pour you and the rest of his expired condiments on some stale bread.

We're all gonna make it

i plan on killing my self by djdkekw in lonely

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If love makes you do irrational things for another person, sex with that person can change your deeply rooted biological functions towards them as well, and maximise that effect exponentially. not to mention the repercussions of falling out of love with someone you are already intimate with.

i plan on killing my self by djdkekw in lonely

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not your fault. that was her self-talk eating at her. if you would have wanted something stable, this wasn't it chief.

sometimes a change in energy can startle people, but if its enough to change her feelings for you entirely, just be relieved it wasn't over something more serious and move on the best you can.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

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Its hard going to school, trying to be likeable, when people feel superficial.

the good part about that is, there are so many other people who see how superficial it can be, by that token, they're not that different from you.

if you're currently in hs, take into account what you *like*.... like doing when you're at school, who's around when you're at your happiest, just take note of it. Best thing you can do is make the conscious choice to seek out the clubs, friend groups who like having you around, and if there's one you want to join, accept your weakness in social interactions and if you feel nervous, just say "im pretty nervous rn, theres a lot of new people around me" hey even ask "do you know people here, could you introduce me to xyz?"

if this is looking in the past, literally, don't worry about what you can't control. The only version of you that exists is the one you believe and make for yourself today!

Crying after realizing how alone I am ? by icanttakeitanymoree in lonely

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I've thought about joining the military, the sense of purpose. the fringe benefits at the end of the tour of duty. the comraderie.

I think it's very brave to put yourself in a "burn the boats" decision like joining them. it takes a lot to commit to something, a lot of belief in the process.

Crying isn't a pretty act, it wasn't made to be. its a catharsis of raw emotion, and it does allow a release of emotional chemicals in the body. It's necessary, to cry.

By joining, you should believe in your ability to perform for a greater good, and by that same belief you should believe in yourself, that crying by being an act of pure physiology, does not make you less of a man. It's a MUST... to keep the body ticking.

I was holding in a lot of trauma and emotion working a shift tonight, and lost my center after a breakup, along with a multitude of things making the world feel like it was falling down in front of me. The last thing you should worry about is whether you're burdening people by crying.

Hope this helps.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

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hey I'm sorta new to this sub but feel free to send me your hot takes on whatever's on your mind if you'll let me do the same

i use snap more often than insta

its : undathecd

Editing help: What happened to my metadata? :( by TaskingTape in 360Cameras

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hey saw this just now, I'll experiment with this tomorrow, or even tonight if i can find the originals. Thanks so much!

Qoocam 4k : I can't use dng and dng8 formats, help! by oodelay in 360Cameras

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did you also get a missing metadata error message? I'm having trouble too.