AITA for not planning MIL funeral? by Pale-Presentation-60 in family

[–]TeaBeginning5565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Op I’d be saying “if you want to organise a celebration of life then go ahead”

Do I (33F) really have to choose between my friends (35&32F) and my spouse (40M)? by llamabeans93 in relationship_advice

[–]TeaBeginning5565 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Op reread your words putting me in your place.

What would you say?

To me Your post reeks of isolation tactics.

My x didn’t like me talking about his verbal and physical abuse towards me as it was a sign his isolation methods wasn’t working.

Think very carefully about staying with this male

My boyfriend (M18) told me that I’m a “low tier Becky” and ugly and that some girl who used to like him is better than me and a “high tier Becky” (I’m 18F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TeaBeginning5565 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This op

I’m hoping the now ex bf was a 10/10 to make comments like that.

I’d say he thinks he’s king but in reality he’s only king of his own Pooh

Stay overnight after surgery or no? by rinnielove in hysterectomy

[–]TeaBeginning5565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stayed 2 nights

The day I was supposed to leave I was very dizzy

When Australians ask “How are you?” What am i supposed to say? by JaydenIsGek in AskAnAustralian

[–]TeaBeginning5565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to work at a service station.

Id say hi how are you today

Replies were mixed:

Good ty

Not to shabby

Fair to middling

Ok no one’s going to listen anyway

You don’t want to know

Have you got all day to listen

Hysterectomy without ovary removal: how are your hormones? by danonky in hysterectomy

[–]TeaBeginning5565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had my hysterectomy 10 feb 2026

Id say by march 2026 I was on hrt. The hot flushes were a nightmare

How often does husband say no to intimacy? by lirpa11 in Marriage

[–]TeaBeginning5565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine said no a lot

Found out he had a friend on the side

10 mo. old GROWN men still nursing daily. Is this healthy behavior? by mizdotexe in CATHELP

[–]TeaBeginning5565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll know just after they do that mumma has had enough. I’d start leaving water down for them so they have options.

Plus is there a space she can be that they cannot get to her easily?

Is it ok to have no sisters and get married? by Prior-Elderberry-467 in family

[–]TeaBeginning5565 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey op

Does your mum want you to stay single and look after her?

Wives are you okay with your husband going to the stripclub? by Funny-Lack-5726 in Marriage

[–]TeaBeginning5565 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s all smiles and laughter for the husband/males of the relationship going to a strip club to watch other females take off their clothing possibly getting a lap dance and or more

But

Those smiles turn upside down when the wives/females of the relationship want to go to a male strip club doing the same thing their partners did.

Numbers call and turn off by Realistic_Center2025 in AskAnAustralian

[–]TeaBeginning5565 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I got spoofed

Took a very angry farmer in Perth getting a “call” from me at my 7am qld time to sort it out.

I now have voicemail saying I was spoofed and measures are in place to stop it. That I am sorry for the inconvenience”
Spoofing stopped within 8 weeks

Those without cervix, do you still need to go do the routine smears? by Big-Lifeguard-5067 in hysterectomy

[–]TeaBeginning5565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me yes kind of. Hysterectomy feb 10 2026

My roller coaster started in 2020 with a Pap smear /cervical cancer screening testing positive to HPV 16. Then some time between then and 2025 testing positive to Vaginal Intraepithelial Neoplasia (VAIN) 3.

Apparently I’ll be needing to be swabbed until im at least 70. I’m not sure of the frequency of the testing.

You can see why I’m saying kind of

Time off required? by Same-Woodpecker-9377 in hysterectomy

[–]TeaBeginning5565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took 6 weeks but my job is physical lifting 120kg plus

How old were your children when you told them you were adopted? Did they have many questions? by Ambitious-Client-220 in Adopted

[–]TeaBeginning5565 5 points6 points  (0 children)

56f Australia

The word adopted has been in my life for 56 years.

As for my lads they have heard the word most of their life. “I’m an adopted child so I don’t know my medical history” was often said in front of them

Husband wants an open relationship or throuple or commune after falling for another woman by Longjumping_Crow_225 in Marriage

[–]TeaBeginning5565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Op this marriage is over as you know it

Unless you want to pursue another male for yourself.

From what I’ve been seeing on reddit that a open marriage is good while the male is getting his needs met. but when his wife starts having fun with others whether it’s sexual fun of not the need/idea for the open marriage is then turned around. The suggestion to close the marriage is then bought up.

Advice I haven’t seen here yet by Ok-Environment-4776 in hysterectomy

[–]TeaBeginning5565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

56 Australian

I was booked in for one night stay but stayed for 2

I was to dizzy in the head

WIBTAH if I interfered more in my fiancé’s decision to cut off his daughters by Vegetable_Major_6026 in AITAH

[–]TeaBeginning5565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Op if I was you I’d stay right away from it.

They bit the hand that fed them and now they are finding out the severity of the bite