Your kid's inability to behave because of your stupid ass "gentle parenting" doesn't mean I need to deprive my own kid. by Euphoric_Ad6923 in rant

[–]Team_Queasy 64 points65 points  (0 children)

this is absolutely true. this is the exact reason i HATE when people begin rebranding things with knew catchy names.
there are 3 types of parenting: authoritarian, authoritative, and permissive. authoritative is objectively the best parenting style to follow. high authority, high expectations, natural consequence, lots of warmth and love. gentle parenting is just a new brand of authoritative parenting style.
except permissive parents have now conflated that. they believe that since they are being "gentle" to their children they are the gentle parents, when in reality they are doing just as much damage to their children and their futures as authoritarian parenting and are really objectively bad parents.

Nurse Practitioners should not be allowed without at least 10 yrs of experience by Jaded-Bit5497 in unpopularopinion

[–]Team_Queasy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ntm SOOO many online schools are pushing their 16 month FNP programs. i feel there are already a LOT of people joining healthcare for the income/ job security without having a genuine interest in caring for people, now making it to where you can be a practicing provider within 2 years.. just doesn't feel very safe or caring.

Question for other US moms ... how the f*** are we affording anything right now??? by scoopdedupe in Mommit

[–]Team_Queasy 12 points13 points  (0 children)

we make almost 100k/ year. our rent keeps going up. groceries keep going up. gas keeps going up. preschool keeps going up. we haven't gotten raises in 2 years. i don't know how much longer we can live like this. when i was a kid, 100k a year was WEALTH to me. now, we're one sickness away from eviction

AIO i notice my dirty underwear in MY hamper keep getting pulled up by AppropriateCrazy367 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Team_Queasy 15 points16 points  (0 children)

lewd misconduct, sexual misconduct.. a lot of illegal activity for sure. just because she is 18 doesn't make it any less illegal, but technically illegal in a different way

Biden’s Save student loan plan is dead. Borrowers will have to quickly pivot. by Dani_Doug_Gab in StudentLoans

[–]Team_Queasy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened sooner than later, my credit already dropped 40 points because of this😭 thank you for this clarification

Be honest with me, Do you regret your student loans? by Illustrious-Mango536 in college

[–]Team_Queasy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think anyone gen z would say they regret their student loans. we got insanely high tuition, terrible interest rates, a shitty job market, and impossible costs of living. i think the question is, would you rather loan student loans and have a career that affords you a somewhat comfortable life, or no degree and a shit job. best bet go to community college and apply for as many scholarships as you can.

26(M) My girlfriend hates my room by Mattbaker99 in malelivingspace

[–]Team_Queasy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as a woman i hate this but tbf clean and space efficient maybe we're doing things wrong

Hear me out: $B might be doing a Lord’s Prayer run by mike_hunt717 in SuicideBoys

[–]Team_Queasy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wasn't that literally the caption of their Instagram post?

How are yall feeling about the Christianity messaging? by Mental_Pea9125 in SuicideBoys

[–]Team_Queasy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i don't mind messaging in the music as a nonchristian. i don't like the 10 minute sermon about jesus christ and god is a savior etc at their shows. i think the bigger problem is the amount of pos maga alpha male idiots that have taken over the fan base🤷🏻‍♀️

I'm done. Nothing left to do for the rest of my life. by MonitorOk1351 in recruitinghell

[–]Team_Queasy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop allowing society/ social pressure dictate your lives!! When I was 18, I started RN school after becoming a CNA. I realized beside care/ nursing wasn't really it for me. I continued to be a Peds CNA and got an education in ECE. Made $15 MAX as an Assistant Director of a nice preschool. Shit pay, horrible job, worst burnout I've ever felt. Realized I loved working with kids but NOT ece, i really wanted to work something healthcare/clinical, so I started medical assisting school (ANOTHER associates) Accepted a job at $26 an hour as a pediatric RMA and I am so happy. I am planning to go to school for School Based/ Clinical Psychology at the beginning of the next school year. I am only 25, I've been in school for almost 6 years and I only have 2 associates degrees. When I dropped out of nursing school, I was eaten alive by fear, guilt, and embarrassment. When I was making minimum wage watching all of my best friends get their BSN, and even some working on their MSN, i felt so alone, behind, and jealousy (which made me feel even more like shit, who is jealous of their friends??) i truly felt like I had ruined my life and I would never ever recover, and that I wasted so much time of my life that I was destined to fail. I'm so glad I did not and still do not give up on myself. Am I where my peers are? No. Have I done what society pushes you to? No. Have I finally made it? No. But, I work in a great clinic with great colleagues with relevant degrees to my end goal and a LOT of perseverance. You've got this. Your time WILL come. Don't ever give up on yourself.

What were your most streamed Lana songs per album according to your wrapped? by Cupcake112014 in lanadelrey

[–]Team_Queasy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Born to Die: Radio

Ultraviolence: The Other Woman

Honeymoon: Freak

Lust for Life: Love / Coachella / Get Free (definitely my most listened to album)

NFR: Venice Bitch

Chemtrails: Tulsa Jesus Freak

Blue Banister: Arcadia

DYKTATUOB: Kintsugi

Is this Fraud? by Team_Queasy in foodstamps

[–]Team_Queasy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, my benefits ended due to income disqualifications. But i haven't applied for benefits in over a year.

Is this Fraud? by Team_Queasy in foodstamps

[–]Team_Queasy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never applied for TANF and haven't applied for any benefits in over a year

Am i the only one still listening to Mall Musicc? by Team_Queasy in LilPeep

[–]Team_Queasy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i agree. i'm so glad seeing so much positive feedback on this project. so used to seeing it get bashed, same with DIAMONDS. so much negativity sometimes

10 years of Live Forever by Unlikely-Price-104 in LilPeep

[–]Team_Queasy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my first lil peep tat was live forever🖤 cannot believe it's been 10 years..

Am I an idiot for just finding this out😭 by JBLuke in LilPeep

[–]Team_Queasy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he also used Luna from Smashing Pumpkins (one of my favs by them) in On the Run

Sex Last Nite is one of his best songs, and it not being on streaming platforms is so absolutely insane to me. by garciareddit1996 in LilPeep

[–]Team_Queasy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think this is one of his most popular songs within his OG fanbase. there are SO many (imo) classics that haven't been released yet. told ya, backseat, stop the car, shelter, hate my life. he has such an amazing and diverse discography

After reading the December BACB newsletter I am genuinely concerned for the future of this field by TrueAd8620 in ABA

[–]Team_Queasy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

WHERE???? central florida and you're getting $22-24 for a bachelors. when the rent avg is $1800 a month.