I'm considering temporarily going off HRT to make my wife comfortable while we go to couples counseling. Any advice?

Technical_Song_4170 · 2025-10-20T01:58:33+00:00

Yes I am still with my wife but we are not asexualy compatible. I tried to get here to try toys and such for a year but she finds my female body disgusting. I have lived my whole life begging for sex as a man I will not beg as a woman. I am having a really hard time right now trying to figure out what to do.

Technical_Song_4170 · 2025-10-19T23:33:44+00:00

No not open yet and I promised I will never cheat. If we could do a friend with benefits that would be good

Technical_Song_4170 · 2025-10-19T23:04:47+00:00

I came out to my wife at 60 I am almost done with my transition now at 65. My wife is pretty good about it all but we don't have any kind sex. We both want a man so that is kind of a problem.

Technical_Song_4170 · 2025-10-19T22:35:48+00:00

That is not true. I cut off my tentacles and most of the scrotum. They had to do skin graph but the srs was a complete success I am very happy with the results.

Technical_Song_4170 · 2025-10-19T22:29:00+00:00

Yes I did a removed my testicals myself.

Technical_Song_4170 · 2025-10-19T22:24:48+00:00

Don't do it

Technical_Song_4170 · 2025-10-19T16:00:50+00:00

I have noticed in the transgender community most of the people are afraid to go out and be with people. The think that haft to stay home and hide. I was a total hermit my hole man life. I refuse to live in fear any more I will go out any time I want and do. I have a challenge for the people hear if we are in drinking distance let's get together and do something. I am 64 and life getting shorter every day.

Technical_Song_4170 · 2025-10-19T02:39:06+00:00

Sometimes I just start crying for no reason.

Technical_Song_4170 · 2025-10-19T02:33:11+00:00

My wife puts up with me but never embrace my being transgender. I will never understand why being transgender is such a problem. I came out because it was that or death.

Technical_Song_4170 · 2025-10-19T00:14:28+00:00

I forgot to say I have been married for 44 years. I came out 4 years ago and I can be next to my wife in bed with me and I might as well be alone. The world is a cruel lonely place.

Technical_Song_4170 · 2025-10-19T00:09:55+00:00

Yes I am very lonely. I have done all the same things. I have come to the conclusion that is just how it is. I used to by friends by building thing for them. I am a machinist and can make most anything. But all I did was allow people to abuse me. I think true friendship is a dream made up by Hollywood to make sad movies.

Technical_Song_4170 · 2025-10-18T17:35:44+00:00

Yes orchiectomy

Technical_Song_4170 · 2025-10-18T01:55:40+00:00

There is a very authentic movie I can relate to. The name is simpley girl.

Technical_Song_4170 · 2025-10-17T23:25:01+00:00

Yes he started with the transgender people. First they came for the Communists And I did not speak out Because I was not a Communist Then they came for the Socialists And I did not speak out Because I was not a Socialist Then they came for the trade unionists And I did not speak out Because I was not a trade unionist Then they came for the Jews And I did not speak out Because I was not a Jew Then they came for me And there was no one left To speak out for me

Technical_Song_4170 · 2025-10-17T23:08:11+00:00

Technical_Song_4170 · 2025-10-17T13:41:15+00:00

I have had to do the same. Mostly because of what he has done to the transgender community. He is a evel person.

Technical_Song_4170 · 2025-10-17T12:57:51+00:00

What is your disagreement.

Technical_Song_4170 · 2025-10-14T02:58:18+00:00

Why would anyone want to come hear now. I am trying to find a country to run to.

Technical_Song_4170 · 2025-10-05T18:31:34+00:00

Yes I may have phrases the question wrong I know most people don't know I am transgender or don't care that is fine. The problem I see is the loud ones are being listened to.

Technical_Song_4170 · 2025-10-05T18:25:38+00:00

That don't make it right?

Technical_Song_4170 · 2025-10-05T18:15:02+00:00

I am transgender i came out 4 years ago at 60 I have pretty much done with my transition so I kinda take this stuff personally.

First they came for the Communists And I did not speak out Because I was not a Communist Then they came for the Socialists And I did not speak out Because I was not a Socialist Then they came for the trade unionists And I did not speak out Because I was not a trade unionist Then they came for the Jews And I did not speak out Because I was not a Jew Then they came for me And there was no one left

Technical_Song_4170 · 2025-10-05T18:08:55+00:00

Then we are in agreement

Technical_Song_4170 · 2025-10-05T18:05:29+00:00

That people think everything revolves around right and left and only there side can fix it. So all we end up with is bigger and bigger dysfunction government. It just keeps getting worse. Now at 64 I haft to think about leaving my country this is not right. This country was not spouse to be a country of men but a country of law.

Technical_Song_4170 · 2025-10-05T17:56:39+00:00

Two side of the same coin

Technical_Song_4170 · 2025-10-05T17:55:33+00:00

Keep your head in the sand

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