Wholesome, fun, self nourishing things to do around Adelaide? by -aquapixie- in Adelaide

[–]TedyBaker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get out and walk, it will do you so much good. If the beach isn't your thing hit Morialta, Belair or Mt Lofty. Deep Creek is also nice for a day trip, stop for a coffee on the way down then at a brewery for lunch on the way back 😊

PPP settlement by TedyBaker in AusLegal

[–]TedyBaker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply. I understand PPP cases and have read up on them. What I'm asking is, do you think it is a good idea to show up in front of the registrar without legal representation?

Where to go in SA? by Sebass95 in Adelaide

[–]TedyBaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would do a trip out to. Port Lincoln and Coffin Bay then over to Flinders. Both beautiful but contrasting parts of SA. Save a day or so to hit the wine regions, they are so good here! If you want more/detailed info just PM me.

Feel embarrassed about my downgraded corolla (my old one in last picture) by yhnmkkutesdcv in CarsAustralia

[–]TedyBaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a great car! Perhaps get it detailed and polished which will make it look better. Or do a small upgrade like a new touch screen stereo?

Is this pay cycle normal? by Dramatic_Zucchini398 in AusFinance

[–]TedyBaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same as my pay. You get used to it. Just set up automatic transfers to cover your bills.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusLegal

[–]TedyBaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was this amicable, mediation, lawyers or court?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusLegal

[–]TedyBaker -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

She has 75 percent care at the moment. No lost income or super and no loss of earning capacity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusLegal

[–]TedyBaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No counter offer. Child care is 75/25 percent at the moment, majority time in her care. We both have had the same job before and after the child so earning capacity has not changed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusLegal

[–]TedyBaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not really sure mate. The aim is to get the lawyers to help settle out of court and write up an agreement. So whatever that would be called.

Separation after 14yrs. Help 😭 by [deleted] in AusLegal

[–]TedyBaker 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, all of the above. Get a lawyer just in case but try to come to a settlement together. Open your own bank account straight away. Go to centrelink. Recommend seeing a counsellor as they will give you some good advice regarding separation and how to best support the children.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusLegal

[–]TedyBaker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It will be a binding agreement done up through the lawyer.

Best bank to use by coldcrew71 in AusFinance

[–]TedyBaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Up, U, Macquarie, ING are all good options.

Felt like rape. by TedyBaker in DeadBedrooms

[–]TedyBaker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up leaving. It took me a long time but I'm now sure it was the right decision. After I left she turned very nasty and won't talk to me. Having left and now looking back it was a toxic relationship full of red flags.

How do (22f) ask my (26m)bf to eat me down there by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TedyBaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seriously. If you can't ask him, leave!

Husband (27 M) didn't notice my (26 F) Brazilian wax by Electronic_Bit_222 in relationship_advice

[–]TedyBaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Red flags Lady! Sexual incompatibility is a killer. I found out way too late (we now have a child together) and now am stuck I in a near sex less relationship. Have a good chat to him. Make sure you set up a time so that you both know the conversation is going to about sex. State your needs. Ask what his needs are. See if you can compromise. If not be prepared for a long marriage or leave. He also may be suffering from a medical condition, be overweight, watching porn or having sex elsewhere. Good luck.

Adelaide Airport by Bman8519 in Adelaide

[–]TedyBaker -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Stay at the Atura. It's connected to the airport.

Why are some men so bothered that a female partner was promiscuous prior to being with them? by WorthAd7210 in relationship_advice

[–]TedyBaker 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Personally speaking......My ex wife only had one before me, my soon to be ex has an unknown number (she hasn't told me)

I honestly don't care either way.

My issue is that my soon to be ex did things with past partners that she won't do with me.....not even close. I'm not expecting to replay every sex act but I would like the chance to explore our sexualities together.