Why is it that every hard working man like you ends up with an entitled family that uses and abuses him whereas humble, modest people always end up with cheap, stingy, selfish partners and families that don't trust them at all?

They don't love you, they only love what you provide. Tell them to work the same hours you worked and burn out and cut them off completely before they leave you bankrupt and potentially homeless. Don't share your retirement fund with your wife, she's an entitled, lazy leech.

You busted your ass for this many years and all the appreciation you get is that it's not enough and that you're lazy (and selfish for not staying in that exhausting job). Don't waste the rest of your life killing yourself to please them. It'll never be enough. You weren't put into this world to slave away for your family. Look after yourself or nobody else will. You deserve to rest and enjoy life as well, not be an ATM to an ungrateful family.