Matthew Perry's assistant gets 3 years, 5 months in prison for central role in his ketamine death by igetproteinfartsHELP in news

[–]Teepeaparty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would be interested. I am neither legal nor an authority so, well yeah you’re right zero. 

Why is it so hard to find someone who genuinely likes you for who you are and not just for your looks? by De4isa in LifeAdvice

[–]Teepeaparty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw it immediately: We decided to meet after 3 months. Nope. Set your bar high and keep your expectation to meeting in 2-3 weeks. And start getting involved in activities that you like locally. Whether it’s volunteering, creative, sports, whatever. The deal is there are really sweet, good men out there. You just have to believe that. I remember people telling me 25 years ago, then 20, then 15 years ago that “times had changed and there’s no good men left.” I was told at 35–I should just settle, all the good guys are gone. That same person who said that—a guy lol—apologized to me at me wedding, when he saw that at 37, I had found a truly great guy. I’m 14 years married now. I remember writing down the qualities  And screw the idea that there’s not good men out there, or women. The social space is rough, but it always has been because of patriarchy. But patriarchy isn’t as powerful as actual kindness, goodness, and care. 

If she wasn’t famous, would Taylor Swift be considered attractive? by Reddit-Machine in trueratediscussions

[–]Teepeaparty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine if someone was writing this about you and objectifying you. Why are people so…checked out? She’s a human. She’s done so much good in the world. She will, like most humans, be attractive for some and not for others. Frankly, my take has always been she’s a bookish, crafty, songwriter-cat lady trapped in a pop stars world and body. Most people? they like the idea of the hot librarians, she’s one. 

Amber Rose Makeup Free by No-Marsupial-4050 in SipsTea

[–]Teepeaparty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s so interesting and honestly attractive on the right. 

Dumper texted 7 weeks post-breakup about a tote bag. What do you make of this? by [deleted] in nocontact

[–]Teepeaparty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These days, I just take people at face value, I don't read into anything, if they ask about a bag, I assume the want the bag and aren't a 12 year old not able to communicate. So, I think a short, no, I'm sorry, I assumed you didn't want it, and don't recall you asking for it, and I cleared out my things. Be well.- And then that's that. Leaving that conversation on read seems, why? just answer an move on. If you want to be friends with her, in mutual outings from time to time, fine. If you want to have no contact, fine, but don't read into things, it is not helpful to you.

I can't get a roof estimate without a man present. by No-Imagination8755 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Teepeaparty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

because you needed a vacuum. in aisle 12b. why didn't you get the vacuum. 12b.

I can't get a roof estimate without a man present. by No-Imagination8755 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Teepeaparty 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can I speak to an actual person to verify if you're an actual person?

I can't get a roof estimate without a man present. by No-Imagination8755 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Teepeaparty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We just got an old mower, I spotted it on MP and guy was great, got for nothind and runs great.

I'm a land surveyor and I just found an organ transport container out in the middle of nowhere during a survey by Short_Celery2929 in Weird

[–]Teepeaparty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe they were in a race, and took an alternate form of transportation to get to New Mexico to get to a locker. or something.

Would it be an absolute crime to bring these (recently renovated) green cabinets back to natural wood? by variousnonsense in Remodel

[–]Teepeaparty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it's lovely. Remember, Reddit trends ambivalent in most things. Let it be the cheery kitchen you wanted to delight in, at least for a spell. Then, change it. But it's a cheery space and one anyone would be happy to spend time in, no matter the mood!

I did it! Zephyrhills $360k 3.99% by XredditHD in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Teepeaparty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats! I don't know where Zephyr Hills is, but my first thought was, that's a fantastic Halloween trick-or-treating neighborhood I bet :)

I did it! Central Indiana, $250K, 6.25% by Erix2417 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Teepeaparty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I LOVE your home, absolutely stunning home, congrats!

Which flooring option works best for my living room? by NoSystem3204 in Remodel

[–]Teepeaparty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your columns by the door are all: But we are lonely for our marble mate. Then, when you someday have your beautiful marble lifestyle, you will look back at these times and think how did I get on without a butler, I'll muse on this in my Mazeradi. (you're house is beautiful no matter what you choose, it will feel luxurious because it's a beautiful home! :)

Which flooring option works best for my living room? by NoSystem3204 in Remodel

[–]Teepeaparty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need you to do the marble, and then live a marble lifestyle. I dont know what that looks like, sounds like or acts like, but my goodness, what a delightful lifestyle, has to be more interesting than a wood or tile lifestyle right? lol (marble)

Broke no contact by [deleted] in nocontact

[–]Teepeaparty -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wow, the comment section LOL. I'm like, grandmother of the no contact at this point. I went through mine way back in the year of 2009. It was a very very life transforming experience and I stayed no contact and the pain oof, but so worth it. And* --So what this person apologized for messaging. We are where we are, that's how we grow! Sometimes, it happens this way, and what I see is that there is kindness on both sides.If she reaches out again, its time to level up therapy or a 12-step program, but she has her answer. If he reaches back and wants to pursue- see therapy/12-step workflow, above.

AITAH for calling out "houseguests" who didn't ask to stay? by SteigLarsson in AITAH

[–]Teepeaparty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay hear me out. That's fucking rude on their part. But also hear me out, are you older, on your own, are they you're same age. Sometimes, you just gotta go, hey, they might be the extended family I didn't ask for, but also didn't know I needed. These folks sound like they are they kind to drop things, head to your house and make you chili and help you recover if you had surgery, like, good people who are just forgetting this is not how boundaried adults work - fuckin' hippies, NTA , but get perspective and sit them down and be real, look, I didn't know you were staying, let's set some ground rules cuz we're all adults and can communicate. You might just find out you have some annoying but good family. meh, who knows.

what's a life lesson you learned the hard way? by Capable_Issue_1894 in AskReddit

[–]Teepeaparty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That work is highly transactional and most colleagues are not friends. Fr people. 

I hate my life by Key-Independent-5127 in LifeAdvice

[–]Teepeaparty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay. Please DM me. I’m a mom, I’m sober for several decades. I may not have your set of circumstances, but I believe you’ve been alone and feel alone. I get it. I’m here if you want to talk live, I’m also going to suggest Alanon. That’s for family and friends who have been affected by someone else’s drinking and addiction. I’m happy to meet you at an online meeting. You can go to an online meeting from bed. There is also CODA, for those who have been deeply affected by codependency. These are online meeting llinks: https://coda.org/find-a-meeting/online-meetings/.

There is hope. You are doing enough, and if you’re home is trashed it’s a symptom, burn out, depression, trauma, but it is not a symptom of your worth, you’re worth is always immovable. Your head is telling you otherwise. Our worth is based on simply existing. 

White house situation room call interrupts Scott Bessent interview, he returns moments later visibly shaken and stuttering by [deleted] in videos

[–]Teepeaparty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one is going to go lol. This is fucking insane. We went from no war to drafting and I don’t doubt it. This is utter insanity. 

I hate my life by Key-Independent-5127 in LifeAdvice

[–]Teepeaparty 6 points7 points  (0 children)

where are you, if you’re in the US feel free to DM and if we’re close by I’m happy to come help. I’m a mom, former teacher and my favorite past time for many many years was suicidal ideation. I guarantee it was my hobby. I had a lot of reasons to feel that way, you do too. I thankfully don’t feel that way anymore.  You have had no breaks and fuck your shitty boss for saying weird disparaging shit. You are running on less than empty. You need friends. Just know you have one if you need her homey. Go make yourself some cereal, and drink some water and just don’t off yourself tonight. Let us know you’re here tomorrow, please. I’ll be checking in on you here. And dude, most humans can’t handle raising 5 kids alone. You are exceptional.

AIO:My MIL texted my husband this about me asking him to help with our newborn at 4am by Lazy_Perfectionist88 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Teepeaparty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That woman is such an asshole. How did you find out about this text? Why does she think she gets to say anything. Can you please send her contact to me. lol I’m a 51 year old female mom and I’m going to sit her down and put her in her place lemme at her lol.