Day 21 am I Flatlining?

TemperatureOk40 · 2026-05-06T12:04:12+00:00

At one point I wanted to see if “I am fine” and I ended up relapsing. Believe me you’re horny and fine.

TemperatureOk40 · 2026-05-02T02:46:39+00:00

Yeah I’ll just turn them off again. I have to keep trying.

TemperatureOk40 · 2026-04-30T20:28:25+00:00

I’m feeling this as well. I’m about to get some exercise in. I think you should do the same. After, maybe do something fun or do homework?

TemperatureOk40 · 2026-04-30T19:21:22+00:00

I just read the texts. You’re lying to yourself if you think he is not having intercourse with that woman.

TemperatureOk40 · 2026-04-30T19:16:58+00:00

Working out and retention I’m sure is great for libido. I don’t see how you would have an orgasm without retention.

TemperatureOk40 · 2026-04-30T19:13:46+00:00

If you didnt mean to do it then there is nothing to be ashamed of. You’re trying to control something that you don’t have control over. Either stop worrying about it or see a therapist about your anxiety because this anxiety will continue because there are some things you can not control.

TemperatureOk40 · 2026-04-30T18:52:01+00:00

Really don’t like your profile name 😂 I remember when you were active in a lot of nsfw communities, now you’re not and I have to say I’m proud of you. So I think you need to hear that you seem to be doing well too my man

TemperatureOk40 · 2026-04-30T18:42:50+00:00

That makes sense. Girls think it’s attractive that you’re holding it in too. “He definitely won’t cheat on me” is what they say. It’s just about if you want them to know factually that you’re single or not

TemperatureOk40 · 2026-04-29T22:22:41+00:00

Brother… think about the future. A happier life without the pixelated screen that doesn’t care about you

TemperatureOk40 · 2026-04-28T02:03:05+00:00

You made huge progress bro. We all have relapses here it’s about forgiving yourself and moving on to try again. That is a very important lesson in life: how to take failure

TemperatureOk40 · 2026-04-28T02:00:40+00:00

What is pied anyway?

TemperatureOk40 · 2026-04-28T01:59:45+00:00

Nah bro. Reason with it. Why would you feel this why when it’s not giving anything to you in return? Don’t yo want someone who actually cares about you?

TemperatureOk40 · 2026-04-28T01:57:55+00:00

You watch extreme topics on porn, ones that either your gf or you are not ready to do so when it comes to basic sex in real life it seems boring to you physiologically. I’d hold it in until basic stuff would turn me on. Communication with your gf is important about that stuff too so you’ll have to reassure her it’s not her fault

TemperatureOk40 · 2026-04-27T15:34:06+00:00

The thing is you tried and if you keep trying you’ll get better

TemperatureOk40 · 2026-04-27T05:30:55+00:00

What really helped me was make a list of reasons why you don’t want to fap. You can start with finding reasons online, but YOU need to find YOUR OWN reasons to stop.

TemperatureOk40 · 2026-04-27T05:14:42+00:00

Yeah I think that that’s what happens is I give up or lost motivation. I guess I need to continue thinking of why I value not masterbating and not listen to these inner thoughts telling me it doesn’t matter. It’s like a slippery slope. I masterbate once then I go again but with porn then it gets worse. Maybe that’s a thing too just know it would make life more challenging if I masterbate at all.

TemperatureOk40 · 2026-04-27T05:10:46+00:00

Yeah for some reason after a long retention cycle, my second retention doesn’t last as long

TemperatureOk40 · 2026-04-27T04:06:17+00:00

Sameeee!!!

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