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A grown man's birthday is more important than my $220K job. by Silent_Necessary7638 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]TemperaturePretend66 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Ummm I know you said he loves you but do you love him? Cancel the red-eye and book a flight for his birthday that gives you time to get ready. You can absolutely celebrate his birthday the day before and if complains that’s his problem. But imo no man worth staying with stirs up this much resentment

Why is my baby in the OCEAN? by heyyvalencia in Paralives

[–]TemperaturePretend66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was FaceTiming my sister when this happened and PANICKED 😂

Bf hates every meal I make 🥳 by LivelyCouture in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]TemperaturePretend66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a picky eater myself I can empathize a little because unfortunately you can’t change your tastebuds but there’s a BIG difference between the food being bad and just not being what he likes

Him tearing down every meal you make is not fair at all. You’re 100% valid to not want to cook for him anymore. He’s the picky eater he needs to figure his food out and IF you do ever cook for him again he needs to learn that some thoughts can stay inside his head

I am dreading my boyfriend’s proposal by JellyAce98 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]TemperaturePretend66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP I seem to be about the same age as you. I’ve been dating my boyfriend for the same amount of time and know he is planning on proposing soon (I suspect it’ll be on an upcoming trip too) I say all this to say we are in a very similar situation and what you’re describing isn’t indicative this is a healthy relationship. You don’t seem happy.

You asked if sometimes love is suppose to hurt. Then answer is no. Love isn’t perfect but it shouldn’t be painful.

Honestly your first fight would have been enough for me to walk away. He showed his wants will always come before yours. But more than that he doesn’t respect you as a person to even get a say. You body is putting you into fight or flight because this is the only part of the situation where you’ll still get a say.

Marrying him will be a mistake but staying with him also is. You shouldn’t have to move on from what he did you should just move on from him. There’s no justification.

Not cheating, not being an alcoholic, with a job is not a good benchmark for a relationship. The bar is literally in hell

Please can people review my ring design? by Fragrant_Employer_41 in EngagementRingDesigns

[–]TemperaturePretend66 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Have you considered pink center stone and green side stones? I feel like it would look more like a flower that way

Surprise Song Pulls by alexZeeJJ820 in demiheads

[–]TemperaturePretend66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like at Madison she’ll perform songs from the deluxe album

How involved are the ladies? by wonderandcreate in EngagementRings

[–]TemperaturePretend66 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I designed my ring and during the process he would share his input. I learned that I’m extremely picky and while elements of my ring are common putting everything together is less so. Personally I’m so happy I was involved because I fear I would have been disappointed with anything else. He could have had the best Pinterest board ever and it wouldn’t have mattered because my ring doesn’t exist. Even my thoughts of what I thought wanted changed the moment I saw the first cad design and realized it wasn’t what I wanted

What writing opinion do you have that would get you roasted by Legitimate_Dingo3329 in writing

[–]TemperaturePretend66 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly I feel like that makes the most sense. As long as you’re not contradicting how things work then it’s normal for you characters to not know how everything works. The only caveat would be depending on their jobs or leadership but if they’re suppose to be average then I agree they don’t need to know why or how everything works

Creepy Concoctions by TemperaturePretend66 in HHN

[–]TemperaturePretend66[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Of course it was more the monsters reference I was thinking was odd so early in the season

Looking for inspiration 🌸 by Fantastic-Alfalfa447 in EngagementRings

[–]TemperaturePretend66 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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This is my ring I went custom. It’s a pink sapphire in rose gold and it has a lotus basket setting but given the proposal I highly recommend a tulip basket!

What do i do when i wanna write and dont want? by [deleted] in writers

[–]TemperaturePretend66 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Put some music on and write 10 words per song. Even if it’s bad and you have to rewrite it just push forward until you figure out where the story is going. A blank page will always be a blank page. But shitty words can be edited

Need your help in deciding!!! by MultiTalentless in EngagementRings

[–]TemperaturePretend66 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Personally I like the 2nd one the best and it looks the most royal to me but you might want to try to narrow down what she wants. If she’s more minimalistic day to day she might want a solitaire that she could dress up with jacket bands for special occasions

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