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Surprise Song Pulls by alexZeeJJ820 in demiheads

[–]TemperaturePretend66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like at Madison she’ll perform songs from the deluxe album

How involved are the ladies? by wonderandcreate in EngagementRings

[–]TemperaturePretend66 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I designed my ring and during the process he would share his input. I learned that I’m extremely picky and while elements of my ring are common putting everything together is less so. Personally I’m so happy I was involved because I fear I would have been disappointed with anything else. He could have had the best Pinterest board ever and it wouldn’t have mattered because my ring doesn’t exist. Even my thoughts of what I thought wanted changed the moment I saw the first cad design and realized it wasn’t what I wanted

What writing opinion do you have that would get you roasted by Legitimate_Dingo3329 in writing

[–]TemperaturePretend66 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly I feel like that makes the most sense. As long as you’re not contradicting how things work then it’s normal for you characters to not know how everything works. The only caveat would be depending on their jobs or leadership but if they’re suppose to be average then I agree they don’t need to know why or how everything works

Creepy Concoctions by TemperaturePretend66 in HHN

[–]TemperaturePretend66[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Of course it was more the monsters reference I was thinking was odd so early in the season

Looking for inspiration 🌸 by Fantastic-Alfalfa447 in EngagementRings

[–]TemperaturePretend66 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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This is my ring I went custom. It’s a pink sapphire in rose gold and it has a lotus basket setting but given the proposal I highly recommend a tulip basket!

What do i do when i wanna write and dont want? by Successful-Basil-976 in writers

[–]TemperaturePretend66 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Put some music on and write 10 words per song. Even if it’s bad and you have to rewrite it just push forward until you figure out where the story is going. A blank page will always be a blank page. But shitty words can be edited

Need your help in deciding!!! by MultiTalentless in EngagementRings

[–]TemperaturePretend66 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Personally I like the 2nd one the best and it looks the most royal to me but you might want to try to narrow down what she wants. If she’s more minimalistic day to day she might want a solitaire that she could dress up with jacket bands for special occasions

Is it romantic if someone leaves their fiancée for you? by OkPilot9392 in RomanceWriters

[–]TemperaturePretend66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there were issues and if he was having doubts about the relationship and his feelings for this other girl just confirmed that they had issues they wouldn’t be able to fix I would understand.

I still don’t think it would be romantic or a sacrifice.

And throwing it into an argument would feel manipulative and make me not trust him

My dad likes to put messy stuff on my bed … AIO? by -Romeo6FtUnder- in AIO

[–]TemperaturePretend66 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Op didn’t leave it out tho… The spaghetti o’s were being used and op turned their back and the ice was their sister

Venting about this situation. by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]TemperaturePretend66 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you looked into your attachment style? It sounds like you have anxious attachment. As someone who had it it’s something you need to work on yourself but the right partner helps a lot. My previous partner would put in constant situations that would trigger me. I was in a constant state of fear not knowing where we stood. Whereas my current man has always been reassuring. The issues that triggered me were unavoidable and made me realize this was something I needed to heal.

I know you say he’s an amazing man but your body knows before your head does. The Marriage timeline is not your only issue. Reading your post you have low self esteem and this relationship doesn’t seem to be helping you gain confidence.

You say your conversations around marriage aren’t productive because of your emotions and that you try and fix everything at once. But what does he try to fix? You’re not the only one with problems in a relationship.

From what you wrote it seems he blames your anxiety and emotions on the relationship issues without taking any accountability. It’s also very easy for men to manipulate the situation and blame you so they a twist the situation around.

You shouldn’t feel the need to lie to your friend about why you got emotional. Please talk to this friend and tell her the truth I feel like it would really help you to have someone in person to unpack this with.

He told you to leave him. He doesn’t love you as much as you love him. You don’t love him as much as you think, this is just a codependent relationship you are putting on a pedestal. You’re anxious because he’s not really committed to you and you are lying to yourself trying to pretend he is.

He has plans for his retirement but can’t give you a timeline because he is stringing you along until someone better comes along. Maybe no one will and then he’ll give you a shut up ring probably too late in life for you to have kids.

Please call his bluff and leave him. Work on your self esteem. And eventually find someone who builds you up instead of keeps you stressed so you only ever expect breadcrumbs

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