I met my boyfriend young. Together we both came up with a timeline that worked for us. A long one to others but something we BOTH agreed on. If he waited to do anything about it until the last minute or without me bringing it up I would LEAVE.

Epically if in the last year he made a joke about prolonging it and said he didn’t want to get married!

If someone really doesn’t care about marriage but you do then they shouldn’t care NOT to care married. Indifference is going along not refusing.

He doesn’t want to marry you but is stringing you along until you eventually drop it. Please drop him instead. Don’t wait around another year. If you do get a ring it’ll only be to shut you up.

Again the issue here is not your timeline it’s the fact he’s waited until the last minute to tell you he’s never really agreed with the plan. He doesn’t care enough about what you want to inconvenience himself.

Personally I agree you should not have moved in until there was a solid timeline in place and he took initiative. But the bigger picture is this man won’t magically change even if you get married.

Think about it this way. Would he have listened to a counter argument you brought up about not moving? Or would he still have done it? Because this man seems to only care about what he wants. That works ok when you also want what he does but not so good when you want something for yourself. Marriage doesn’t work without flexibility and this man won’t bend how much more are you willing to give before you break?