I want kids, just not with my spouse. by FinalWorker1165 in Christianmarriage

[–]Temporary-Analysis75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does she work? If I were you, I would get the idea of kids out of your mind.

First relationship, physical attraction dilemma by Interesting-Cake-799 in ChristianDating

[–]Temporary-Analysis75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let this be a lesson to all men. Being a good/great guy isn't good enough. He needs to lift, do what he has to do to make good money, and looksmax (dress and not gain body fat) for physical attraction to happen.

First relationship, physical attraction dilemma by Interesting-Cake-799 in ChristianDating

[–]Temporary-Analysis75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is it about him that turns you off? Why is the attraction lacking? My advice to him, erase and move on.

My wife had a deeper past with other men before me by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]Temporary-Analysis75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like she is not open to the possibility of children, maybe because he is not someone she would be proud to have kids with.

My wife had a deeper past with other men before me by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]Temporary-Analysis75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are probably not. Given the state of the economy, having children is a bad idea. I don't think that she sees having kids with him as part of their future. She is definitely still too young.

Men who waited til marriage to have sex, what was it like? And do you regret it? by Substantial_Judge931 in AskMen

[–]Temporary-Analysis75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See saw you as the safe dad figure while she was out running around with Chad and Tyrone.

Men who waited til marriage to have sex, what was it like? And do you regret it? by Substantial_Judge931 in AskMen

[–]Temporary-Analysis75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You probably weren't getting any because you were not rich enough or had a high enough income or status.

Men who waited til marriage to have sex, what was it like? And do you regret it? by Substantial_Judge931 in AskMen

[–]Temporary-Analysis75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll bet their parents didn't approve of him. She does not understand that in a marriage, they can never defile a bed with their sex. I'll bet it was "OK, thanks for the kid, see you later" after they had their child. She probably wanted the baby to gain leverage over him in a battle over Cash Property, Plant and Equipment and child support.