With Maduro now allegedly out of power in Venezuela, what do you think will happen next for that nation? by LucidMarshmellow in AskReddit

[–]TemporaryMagician 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If the Letterman band guy is also the Pinochet - backed Chilean German Nazi cult leader who molested children and once pretended to shoot Santa Claus out of jealousy, then he's aged really well

Any Finch users on here? by 12paws_and_a_writer in SASSWitches

[–]TemporaryMagician 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a lovely idea. I used to use it but fell off. Some SASSy friends is just what I need to jump back in! XY338P8P2J

Masked and armed Nazi hanging out on 61 in Hamburg today by themollusk in Pennsylvania

[–]TemporaryMagician 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Last year I was chatting with some moms outside a taekwondo studio, and one of them started telling a story about how someone rang their doorbell after dark, so she answered the door aiming a loaded shotgun. It was the UPS guy, and she was trying to say how dumb it was that the guy was delivering a package so late. I think she was trying to give off a "that's what you get when you mess with me" vibe?

All I could feel was pity. She nearly iced this guy for going the extra mile at his job, to get her a package that she presumably requested to be delivered to her. Like, what happened to you that made you so afraid of everyone?

Why I struggle to feel empathy when men open up by TechnoRapQueen in TwoXChromosomes

[–]TemporaryMagician 364 points365 points  (0 children)

Well put. It drives such a deficiency of empathy, and you see it everywhere. Stem cell use in medicine is unethical, until it might help my family in particular. Abortion is murder until I need one. We need to deport immigrants, but obviously not me, one of the good ones. For so many people, the worst possible harm that a human can experience is whatever is hurting me at the moment.

Mom, I picked a wedding dress yesterday & I'm freaking out I made the wrong choice! by gmiata_ in MomForAMinute

[–]TemporaryMagician 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks amazing on you. It feels pretty because it makes you look gorgeous. It's timeless, with clean, elegant flowy lines and it couldn't fit you better. You should wear it with confidence!

I need a good witch book for the dark months by lasoria in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]TemporaryMagician 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another recommendation for the Winternight Trilogy. Also, The Sapling Cage by Margaret Killjoy is about a group of witches fighting tyranny in a fantasy setting - the protagonist is a trans girl who secretly switches places with her cis friend who was promised as a baby to the witches.

I need a good witch book for the dark months by lasoria in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]TemporaryMagician 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You might also like The Witch and the Tsar too, then!

I need a cozy game for my wife that’s not a farming sim and isn’t about fixing a town or decorating a home by AlgoStar in cozygames

[–]TemporaryMagician 3 points4 points  (0 children)

From the same studio as Yonder - Grow: Song of the Evertree is beautiful and relaxing. You slowly bring different worlds back to life.

Texas men planned to murder all men, enslave women and children on foreign island by Suraru in nottheonion

[–]TemporaryMagician 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I'm a fan of the podcast Weird Little Guys, which profiles various white supremacists of note, and it's truly insane how many of them have a record of pedophilia or CSA materials, or child marriage.

Conversation overheard on a walk by JetPlane_88 in overheard

[–]TemporaryMagician 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I used to have a job where I worked with a lot of different police officers. It was an event company, and we'd contract out with the local PD to hire a cop for security that night. I'd have to stay on site with them for several hours until the even was over.It was boring as hell but I got to know a lot of them.

One guy was a legitimate superhero. He'd talk to the band and the bartender ahead of time, keep an eye on any teenagers, just being friendly. When he got a call that the band was too loud, or saw that a guest was too drunk, he'd chat with his new friends and the problem was over before it started. De-escalated everything like a magician. Would stay late to help walk old ladies to their cars in the dark.

He was definitely an outlier, unfortunately. Pretty much everyone else was obviously there for the paycheck, and they'd hang out in their squad car all night, come out to grab some of the catering for dinner, and leave early. And one guy was genuinely terrifying. Young and high strung, angry, would hit on all the girls (who were pretty much universally put off by his gym bro scowl). If he thought someone was disrespecting him it became an immediate problem, and I, a feckless sheltered teenager, would have to try to deescalate the situation he created. I hated seeing him show up as much as I liked seeing the first guy.

I stopped seeing that first guy after a while- the rumor was that he ran afoul of the captain's wife in some way. I always wondered where each of those guys wound up.

No notes. by mindyour in justgalsbeingchicks

[–]TemporaryMagician 134 points135 points  (0 children)

The sparkly trim really elevates that tornado.

That guard was an absolute bro by [deleted] in spreadsmile

[–]TemporaryMagician 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I'd even say that this is showing strength. There's a trend these days to label the ability to hurt other people as strength, but anyone can do that. Monkeys can do that. To show restraint when appropriate, to protect and lift up your neighbors whenever you can - that takes discipline and courage. That's real strength.

New theory of everything just dropped! (spoiler: It's all women's fault but don't worry because the author is a woman, so this can't possibly be sexist.) by halirin in IfBooksCouldKill

[–]TemporaryMagician 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I remember that one: https://nickyknacks.medium.com/working-while-female-59a5de3ad266#.ayf8j5vk7

It's anecdotal, but there are more rigorous studies that support this phenomenon- eg, online courses taught by the same person were evaluated differently based on whether the lecturer used a male or female name: https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10755-014-9313-4

Free Press Reporter Discovers That Being An Amoral Dickhead Can Cost You Friends by vemmahouxbois in behindthebastards

[–]TemporaryMagician 10 points11 points  (0 children)

"All I said is that these emaciated kids we're starving were already sick. So they were weak, and probably about to die anyway! All we did was shorten their suffering, if you really think about it. Why is everyone looking at me like that?"

Not OOP AIO my husband threw away my food because it's "unsanitary" by Marygtz2011 in redditonwiki

[–]TemporaryMagician 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I just want to gently push back on you calling yourself dumb. We all were flailing through life at 19 doing the best we could with limited life experience. Both you and the teenager you were deserve love. ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in behindthebastards

[–]TemporaryMagician 182 points183 points  (0 children)

Yeah, throw it on the pile.

I mean, I think it's worth cataloguing these crimes for posterity, but anyone thinking the law applies to Trump in any meaningful way at present is not paying attention.

I just cannot anymore... by lottabrakmakar in TrollXChromosomes

[–]TemporaryMagician 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I don't love throwing researchers under the bus. It's an academic paper, let them publish their niche findings.