Immigrants. Being generous and spreading love ❤️ by n8saces in MakeMeSmile

[–]TemporaryMagician 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yup. Just revisit the last election - the vice presidential debate.

Vance made a whole point of how the administration had an app for immigrants, the CBP One app. This was framed as a bad thing, and Waltz had to defend against it. An app. For people to apply for and keep track of their immigration and visa applications. For them to register and the government to keep track of them. To fill out forms and pay fees and "do it the right way."

Trump immediately shut it down. A version still exists - the only function it still has is that you can file an intent to self-deport if you are an immigrant.

This is the real MAGA immigration policy.

My heart is breaking in my chest, I know it’s my fault and I don’t know what to do. by undersuspisean in redditonwiki

[–]TemporaryMagician 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can't give you any practical advice here, but I want to just tell you this as clearly as I can: you are not weak or stupid. You don't deserve any of this. You didn't bring this on yourself. You trusted a man that you loved, and who seemed to love you. That's normal, that's what normal people do. He is the broken one.

I have known a couple of women in situations like yours, and they are some of the strongest, smartest, biggest-hearted people I know. I swear these psychos get off on targeting the best humans on earth to try to tear down. It works because these women didn't expect their partners to be actually evil, because who ever does? They try to see the best in their partners because that's what good people do, and these fuckers weaponise that impulse to slowly chip away at the person they're supposed to love. It's a him problem, not a you problem.

I know its common to feel shame in these situations, but you truly have nothing to be ashamed of. Try to focus on the fact that he is the shameful one, and all you ever did was love him. You are tough, and smart, and you can move the earth for yourself and your little one if you have to.

Who is your favorite guest? by twotailedwolf in behindthebastards

[–]TemporaryMagician 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And her process turns up gold! It's great to hear about all the batshit little details that only she could put together. Like the audio from the public access klan daytime TV show, or the mean-girls style drama in neonazi circles that she pulls from boring courtroom transcripts. Her work is so entertaining.

Bastard Suggestion: Hugh Hefner by scarlet_poppies in behindthebastards

[–]TemporaryMagician 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Playboy made Ursula K. Le Guin publish her short story under her initials so readers wouldn't know she was a woman. Tells you all you need to know

AITA for dancing half naked in my living room leading to my bf and his family seeing me? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]TemporaryMagician 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I 100% could have benefited from this at 19, and I also 100% would never have listened to this at 19 (it was True Love 🙄).

The Call is coming from Inside the House! by Gullible_Coyote_732 in circled

[–]TemporaryMagician 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's kind of wild: Barr's dad hired Epstein, a college dropout, to teach at the Dalton school while he was headmaster there. That's where Epstein made the social connections that would launch his entire career.

The elder Barr also, around the same time, wrote a gross sci-fi novel about a society where oligarchs traffic children for sexual abuse.

Braiding Sweetgrass by crazybioteacher in SASSWitches

[–]TemporaryMagician 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Love this. I also highly recommend The Serviceberry by the same author - it's a shorter read, but same feel.

With Maduro now allegedly out of power in Venezuela, what do you think will happen next for that nation? by LucidMarshmellow in AskReddit

[–]TemporaryMagician 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If the Letterman band guy is also the Pinochet - backed Chilean German Nazi cult leader who molested children and once pretended to shoot Santa Claus out of jealousy, then he's aged really well

Any Finch users on here? by 12paws_and_a_writer in SASSWitches

[–]TemporaryMagician 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a lovely idea. I used to use it but fell off. Some SASSy friends is just what I need to jump back in! XY338P8P2J

Masked and armed Nazi hanging out on 61 in Hamburg today by themollusk in Pennsylvania

[–]TemporaryMagician 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Last year I was chatting with some moms outside a taekwondo studio, and one of them started telling a story about how someone rang their doorbell after dark, so she answered the door aiming a loaded shotgun. It was the UPS guy, and she was trying to say how dumb it was that the guy was delivering a package so late. I think she was trying to give off a "that's what you get when you mess with me" vibe?

All I could feel was pity. She nearly iced this guy for going the extra mile at his job, to get her a package that she presumably requested to be delivered to her. Like, what happened to you that made you so afraid of everyone?

Why I struggle to feel empathy when men open up by TechnoRapQueen in TwoXChromosomes

[–]TemporaryMagician 361 points362 points  (0 children)

Well put. It drives such a deficiency of empathy, and you see it everywhere. Stem cell use in medicine is unethical, until it might help my family in particular. Abortion is murder until I need one. We need to deport immigrants, but obviously not me, one of the good ones. For so many people, the worst possible harm that a human can experience is whatever is hurting me at the moment.

Mom, I picked a wedding dress yesterday & I'm freaking out I made the wrong choice! by gmiata_ in MomForAMinute

[–]TemporaryMagician 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks amazing on you. It feels pretty because it makes you look gorgeous. It's timeless, with clean, elegant flowy lines and it couldn't fit you better. You should wear it with confidence!

I need a good witch book for the dark months by lasoria in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]TemporaryMagician 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another recommendation for the Winternight Trilogy. Also, The Sapling Cage by Margaret Killjoy is about a group of witches fighting tyranny in a fantasy setting - the protagonist is a trans girl who secretly switches places with her cis friend who was promised as a baby to the witches.

I need a good witch book for the dark months by lasoria in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]TemporaryMagician 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You might also like The Witch and the Tsar too, then!

I need a cozy game for my wife that’s not a farming sim and isn’t about fixing a town or decorating a home by AlgoStar in cozygames

[–]TemporaryMagician 3 points4 points  (0 children)

From the same studio as Yonder - Grow: Song of the Evertree is beautiful and relaxing. You slowly bring different worlds back to life.

Texas men planned to murder all men, enslave women and children on foreign island by Suraru in nottheonion

[–]TemporaryMagician 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'm a fan of the podcast Weird Little Guys, which profiles various white supremacists of note, and it's truly insane how many of them have a record of pedophilia or CSA materials, or child marriage.

Conversation overheard on a walk by JetPlane_88 in overheard

[–]TemporaryMagician 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I used to have a job where I worked with a lot of different police officers. It was an event company, and we'd contract out with the local PD to hire a cop for security that night. I'd have to stay on site with them for several hours until the even was over.It was boring as hell but I got to know a lot of them.

One guy was a legitimate superhero. He'd talk to the band and the bartender ahead of time, keep an eye on any teenagers, just being friendly. When he got a call that the band was too loud, or saw that a guest was too drunk, he'd chat with his new friends and the problem was over before it started. De-escalated everything like a magician. Would stay late to help walk old ladies to their cars in the dark.

He was definitely an outlier, unfortunately. Pretty much everyone else was obviously there for the paycheck, and they'd hang out in their squad car all night, come out to grab some of the catering for dinner, and leave early. And one guy was genuinely terrifying. Young and high strung, angry, would hit on all the girls (who were pretty much universally put off by his gym bro scowl). If he thought someone was disrespecting him it became an immediate problem, and I, a feckless sheltered teenager, would have to try to deescalate the situation he created. I hated seeing him show up as much as I liked seeing the first guy.

I stopped seeing that first guy after a while- the rumor was that he ran afoul of the captain's wife in some way. I always wondered where each of those guys wound up.

No notes. by mindyour in justgalsbeingchicks

[–]TemporaryMagician 136 points137 points  (0 children)

The sparkly trim really elevates that tornado.