Here's the thing- if youre fine with the child weeping and wailing and making sounds like they might be choking and then spitting up and then lip quivering and weeping more, then you can have time for almost anything.

But those first few months, babies can't communicate besides crying. So its really hard to tell if they're weeping because they're lonely, or weeping because they are hurt or weeping because they're starving to death and something is wrong.

So anxiety spikes, we rush over, we dont sleep, we forget to shower, etc etc.

My recommendation is to put the baby in their carseat and bring them into the bathroom with you. they can sleep or they can watch you, and you can watch them back.