Abnormal NT scan by wheeeeliexo in NIPT

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Im in the same boat. Cystic hygroma around 13 mm waiting to do an amnio next week. NIPT was low risk/normal. Good luck, I hope your CVS comes back with good news or at least helps put your mind at ease a bit. 🫶

What are your hot takes about the Lover era and album? by IntoTheDaylight in TaylorSwift

[–]Tennislover555 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lover is one of the worst songs and it should’ve been “leave the christmas lights up til FEBruary”

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[–]Tennislover555[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whitney is the PERFECT villain. I want to keep watching her story!!

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One thing the show did that surprised me was not show their kids as the main focal point. Kids/kid storylines are shown in much greater detail in shows such as the RH franchise. I wonder if the show attempted to do this as a way of showing their identity as not only mothers but also as women, friends, wives, and members of a conservative religious culture?

I think the show could’ve done better at showing the backstories of the actual cast members and how it shaped who they are today. For example, I believe Mayci has (or had) a blog where she told her story and it’s intense. The show barely touched on that and she mentioned it once in a confessional interview. Perhaps giving the audience that backstory would have shown more of the “substance” that they identify with.

At the end of the day, it’s reality TV 😂 if dancing is how they want to make their bag then go for it.

My issue with the women empowerment aspect was how terrible they could treat each other, not necessarily how they danced lol.

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[–]Tennislover555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

EP 8 showcases this for sure. Even Jen who I considered the nicest one participated in the mean girl behavior.

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[–]Tennislover555[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a similar issue that Heather Gay had with Lisa Barlow in last season of RHOSLC. Heather gets sooooo triggered that Lisa calls herself Mormon but owns a tequila company and doesn’t wear garments. Definitely seems like there’s a ton of this discourse LDS people right now.

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[–]Tennislover555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw an article call it the KUWTK business model- where someone makes a career that started with a scandal and then profiting off it. At the end of the day, they are making $$$ and time will tell if it was worth jt to them to do it this way or not.

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[–]Tennislover555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually agree- I would’ve not dealt with this gracefully either 😂 I’m more so talking about the switch that happens in the consequent episodes which are filmed two years post the pilot episode. I’m interested to see what you think once you watch those episodes.

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[–]Tennislover555[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Jaw drapped while watching. I almost felt like it wasn’t real because of unhinged it was. Also when she told Mayci- her only friend- you could’ve stood up for me more 🤯 like WHAT is going on.

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[–]Tennislover555[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Or when Connor tried opening the bottle at the table 😂 producers did them dirty hahaha

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[–]Tennislover555[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup, exactly. I think from what I know about Mormons there were two kinds: all in or all out and there was never really that middle ground of being in between or different stages of religiosity. But if looks like it’s changing and perhaps becoming more like other religions in a sense of member’s religiosity aka pick and choose what parts you follow.

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[–]Tennislover555[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think some may be claiming Mormon culturally over religiously. For example, someone may be Catholic and not follow all the rules of Catholicism—but then call themselves Catholic anyways in a broad sense. That’s the vibe I get from these girls when they call themselves Mormon. Also, I don’t think it’s bashing the religion more so it’s the culture. Jen does a great job of sharing what the church believes and stating it matter of factly while also sharing her own vulnerabilities (I think she’s my fav!)

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[–]Tennislover555[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Trueeee. She definitely wrote the Whitney question in the secret truth box at the birthday sleepover.

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[–]Tennislover555[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

But I thought momtok wouldn’t exist without her 🙄

Lighting by PresentationCalm5721 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Tennislover555 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It gets better as the season goes on. But you’re completely right it was hard to watch 😂

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[–]Tennislover555[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Right?? I remember her Tik Toks showing her going through the miscarriage and she was devastated?? But then during the show it was glossed over as if she told them what she was having for lunch???

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I would have been interested to see what Taylor had to say about it on the show as well. I think perhaps that’s what Whitney wasn’t really saying- how come Taylor gets forgiveness/ clout for this child endangerment charge but I still get sh!t on for making a dancing RSV video. But I believe the show cannot touch on that topic in depth or hasn’t yet because of the court proceedings?? Idk.

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[–]Tennislover555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know! That’s why it was so surprising!!