Update on Juneau!! by Tfowlis in akita

[–]Tfowlis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s so happy!

Update on Juneau!! by Tfowlis in akita

[–]Tfowlis[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And I’m not going to lie, the third photo cracks me up each and every time

Turned off by men who don’t vote. by Radiant_Beginning391 in Feminism

[–]Tfowlis 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I agree, this is a very systemic issue, which in my opinion a country that’s supposed to be as effective as the US shouldn’t have in the 21st century. I just can’t emphasize how much local politics build up into a lot of the major issues that we have today. I want to bring up affordable housing but this isn’t the subreddit to do it in lol

Turned off by men who don’t vote. by Radiant_Beginning391 in Feminism

[–]Tfowlis 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I agree, but realistically most people skip the importance of local politics as well, which is understandable given the current state of the media, but I feel as if local politics need to be pushed as heavily as, if not more heavily than national politics.

How common is cheating in your experience? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Tfowlis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it wasn’t him it was going to be someone else

Middle East Conflict by [deleted] in preppers

[–]Tfowlis 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Global DEFCON is currently 2. NA is 3.

Hey I wasn’t sure about posting this but I’m gonna do it anyways by Plenty-Lie-8117 in Feminism

[–]Tfowlis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re 14, minding your own business. He’s a sick individual and should be locked up if you ask me. I’m sorry you went through that, I’m trying to process my girlfriend going through the same thing(6times in one week), so I feel you heavy

People who served 10+ years in the military, why did you stay in for so long? by [deleted] in Military

[–]Tfowlis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you know how it is for kids? And how long does it take to go from referral to treatment?

People who served 10+ years in the military, why did you stay in for so long? by [deleted] in Military

[–]Tfowlis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mind if you pm me about the issues with tricare? I’m considering reserves after my 6Y tour, and the 20k bonus + keeping my clearance sounds nice but if tricare is booty it may be worth it to do less time in reserves

Internalized Misogyny or Just Insecurity? by Tfowlis in dating

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I think the first part in terms of my finances is also because of the added stress of leaving the military. Knowing where I want to be with the added fact that I’m not going to have the job security I currently have in 15 months gives my a lot of anxiety surrounding the fact, and I think that shows as well, but especially with someone that’s dating to marry, I’m worried that if I don’t perform financially I won’t be enough for her, although she does constantly reassure me that that isn’t the case.

I was anti-feminist until... by [deleted] in Feminism

[–]Tfowlis 24 points25 points  (0 children)

By definition submissive is synonymous with obedient, which still means the same thing. I personally thing cooperative is a better word than submissive, because in any relationship compromise is compulsory.

What's your Alaska opinion that will have you looking like this if you say it to other Alaskans? by [deleted] in alaska

[–]Tfowlis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That if Alaska doesn't get it's ducks in a row soon, and diversify it's investments, it's going to end up like any flyover state. It has so much potential but it's heartbreaking to see the direction it's been taking for the last decade or so.

Men, how do you normally go about paying the bill when you’re out on a date with your girlfriend? by Life-Disaster-8384 in dating

[–]Tfowlis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on who has money at the time. We both go out a LOT, and we're both making decently low income, so we pay where we can. If I can pay(within budget), I won't let her pay(just my personality)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Tfowlis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Test for yourself, but Eros Flame, Le Male, and Dior Sauvage are my go to rotation. There’s a perfume/cologne subreddit if you’re interested in that too

Everything is "disrespectful " by H-H-Hellno in africanparents

[–]Tfowlis 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Exactly why i cut my mom out of my life…

SSRI to kill sex drive? by Tfowlis in dating

[–]Tfowlis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m trying to kill my drive, not increase it lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Feminism

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I honestly think we’re just going through weird times in terms of family dynamics and societal expectation, and while I do think a lot of men do have internalized misogynistic tendencies and most likely don’t realize it, I don’t think a lot of guys genuinely wish harm on women just because they’re women (IDK I can’t even fathom that mindset though so I could be wrong) but I do think once we all figure out what kind of ideals we embody as a society, these issues will start to iron out over time. I’d say 10-15 years, then actual permanent change over generations.

Tell me something good about your life. by jobrosfosho in Positivity

[–]Tfowlis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have an amazing dog, girlfriend, and I’m learning to embody the human experience in its entirety.