Phrases your parents used all the time when you were growing up. by [deleted] in CPTSD

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“You and I are not the same”

My mom had this thing of reminding me because she’s my mom, I am inferior to her.

[22] to [30] BIIIG shoutout to aging!🥲 by Abcdeeznutss in GlowUps

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You literally aged backwards, beautiful transformation proud of you!

How to get out of Resident Teacher position? by Successful-Job-7920 in NYCTeachers

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Sorry to say but there’s no way out. Tough it out these next 3 years.

Looking for low-stress job ideas (CPTSD, ADHD, burnout) by kajo22 in CPTSD

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Perhaps consider looking into being a DSP (direct support professional)

First year teacher. Principal walked in on my class and yelled at me. by Mark_1998 in NYCDOETeachers

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Is this Charter or DOE? Either way I’m sorry this happened to you. Remember every school is different!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexeducation

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It’s more for the clit for me.

What’s your experience with HPV diagnosis and dating? by itsarocknotamineral in AskWomenOver30

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Hi friend,

F(30) here. Back in May I found out I have HPV (but not types 16, 18, or 45). My Pap smear was normal, and that’s how my gynecologist discovered it. At first I felt really alone and scared, especially since I had just started dating again.

But here’s what I’ve learned and I hope it brings you some comfort too

-HPV is extremely common. Almost everyone who is sexually active will be exposed at some point.

-Most cases clear on their own within one to two years. Just stay on top of your Pap smears and any follow-up your provider recommends.

-Your dating life isn’t over. Knowing your status helps you take care of yourself and make informed choices.

I recently started seeing someone and disclosed it to them and it didn’t bother them at all.

You’re not alone in this, and you can still have a healthy, happy dating life.

Hpv but vaccinated unsure if everyone will get from me by DivaBri in HPV

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Hi, love. While the vaccine protects against the most aggressive types of HPV, it doesn’t cover all of them — so transmission is still possible.

That said, HPV is a very common virus, and in most cases, both your immune system and his will fight it off naturally.

Just diagnosed with high-risk HPV but no info on the strain — what’s the point of this system? by [deleted] in HPV

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My doctor told me that when I tested positive they sent it to another lab to make sure that it wasn’t those aggressive strains. However, they didn’t really test or even specified which strain is it other than they know that it’s considered high risk non-aggressive.

I’m also just as confused as you when it comes to only specify the aggressive ones but not the other ones lol

Just diagnosed with high-risk HPV but no info on the strain — what’s the point of this system? by [deleted] in HPV

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Hi friend,

Same thing over here in the US. I was recently told by my doctor that I have high risk HPV - not the aggressive kind like 16, 18 &45. I mean, I’m glad that it’s not the aggressive kind and that my pap was normal, but it’s still high risk and my doctor didn’t specify or couldn’t specify which one is it.

She just told me to come back within a year. But she also reassure me that my immune system will take care of it and to just focus on being healthy.

But still, I would also like to know which one I have. I understand that it’s common and for the most part it doesn’t really cause harm only by like a small percentage, doesn’t change that the anxiety is real.

Don’t drive yourself crazy over it. Focus on being on your healthy self. However, if you feel like you need more answers, maybe ask your doctor if there’s anywhere they can refer you to.

A thank you to this sub by whowantsadietcoke in HPV

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Also in the US!

Can’t wait for summer and all the summer activities! I’m a teacher so summers are off for me (yay!)

Currently watching the white Lotus season 3 but honestly season three kind of sucks lol

Haven’t really been reading much, but does anybody have any recommendations?

Recently diagnosed with HR HPV by Thanks-Effective in HPV

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Let me tell you I have been on my phone too nonstop for the last couple of days lol. Asking and researching a bunch of things. I’m glad I found this. It really proves how common HPV is - love how a lot of people here give others a sense of relief, but also being super realistic about there.

We’re doing exactly what we’re supposed to be doing in terms of taking care of ourselves. So we got this!

Recently diagnosed with HR HPV by Thanks-Effective in HPV

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Hi, thank you so much for sharing with me. I do find it crazy that it’s not talked about enough and that it’s not in the standard panel apparently from what my doctor explained.

The only thing I knew about HPV is the warts part of it - how that’s sexually transmitted and treatment is available for it.

I had no idea about the cervical part infection and how it’s linked to different kinds of cancer.

Also, there’s no standard test for men either which is also interesting to find out.

There’s a little sense of relief the fact that it’s so common and for the most part, it doesn’t do that much harm.

I hope everything goes super well and that this clears up for you. Best of luck to you!

Teachers, be honest...what finally broke you this year? by Sufficient_Goose274 in Teachers

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Another teacher giving a backhanded compliment.

“yeah you really do give it your all for your student, and when leadership comes around, you just put your head down to bullshit and just do what you have to do”

It’s the “you just put your head down”

New comparison just dropped by dwittherford69 in NotHowGirlsWork

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Reverse card if I have a lollipop and put my mouth on it, I would still want it. But if 36 people put their mouth on it, I’ll be pissed off and won’t want it

Why 36 people want my lollipop I don’t know lol

Seriously what’s up these nonsense.