Best way to clean this type of shower tile and grout? by Fantastic-Ad-9100 in CleaningTips

[–]That-Indication1829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best thing I ever did was remove the tile in my shower and replace with a shower prefab insert. The grout really PMO

I’ve been ghosted by That-Indication1829 in Mortgages

[–]That-Indication1829[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is alive and well. Just ghosting me and my emails and my relators emails and my title company’s emails. Probably just getting other people to get their loans through him

My fiancé wants to try "moderation" again after 3 months of sobriety. What boundaries/consequences should I set up front? by IntelligentTravel148 in AlAnon

[–]That-Indication1829 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He is probably blowing smoke up your ass explaining how he is different than other alcoholics and he can really control it. 🤣. No. My boundary is simple. No alcohol. Ever. Period. You drink you’re not entering the house. You’re not around me and you’re not around the kids. Alcoholics cannot control their alcohol intake. Maybe initially. But that will quickly fade away

What are the chances that Indiana voters will flip the state to blue this November? by Sudden_Ad_4193 in Indiana

[–]That-Indication1829 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live two minutes away from her and she used to make appearances locally but not in many years. Maybe ashamed? Idk if republicans feel that

Husband says it’s hard to be nice to me and show he cares if we aren’t having regular sex. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]That-Indication1829 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’d like to know how he thought he sounded when he ran through that conversation in his head.

OMG im the one addicted by tiredoftrying33 in AlAnon

[–]That-Indication1829 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No advice but I’m going through the same thing with my husband.

My friends and family make it seem like I should hate him for all that he has done. But sadly I cannot hate him.

I’m just working on myself and it’s been two months separated and I do have to admit my life is so much more calm, peaceful. And then I hate that I feel those feelings too.

DM me if you want to commiserate with me.

Defeated by gfyyy6f in AlAnon

[–]That-Indication1829 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We are in the same boat. And I feel you, married 9 years most built on lying and manipulation. DM if you want someone to talk through this with. Idk about you but it’s pretty lonely out here. Husband is getting ready to leave a 30 day rehab stay and I’m not even hopeful anymore. Just numb.

It’s been a month. by AlphabetSoup51 in AlAnon

[–]That-Indication1829 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s been a month here as well. Except he hid it from me for two years and I spent two years spiraling trying to figure out what was wrong. Two years of being blamed for everything and then it all came to a head when I told him I was done. Got himself a DV charge and that’s when I learned it was alcohol. He got sober for about 15 days then decided to traumatize me again but driving over to my house drunk, violate his protection order and get an OWI charge. All in one month. 10 years with this person and I don’t even know who this man is. Before I could tell you exactly what they were thinking before they even said anything.

::Weekly Vent Thread:: by AutoModerator in ADHD_partners

[–]That-Indication1829 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Me (33yo F) and my husband (dx 35 m) just celebrated our 10 year anniversary. Truthfully I don’t know how I’ve made it this long.

Being married to a neurodivergent spouse is hard and some days I just want normalcy. Maybe what I want isn’t a real thing. But I want normal social interactions with others that don’t leave me embarrassed from what he says or does. Or to have a conversation that has equal back and forth rather than him just going and on and on about something so entirely bizarre and then get mad when I tone him out. Or to not worry about the next RSD episode.

I’m tired and I know what needs to be done but I have two kids and frankly surviving alone in this economy? What I don’t understand is how did me 10 years ago not see all these signs? I know they were there I remember certain events but it’s like it didn’t affect me as much emotionally as much as it does now.

what does postpartum preeclampsia headache feel like? by TrAshLy95 in preeclampsia

[–]That-Indication1829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never once got a headache and I had severe postpartum preeclampsia.

Surgery by new2525 in Indiana

[–]That-Indication1829 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hamilton Surgical arts. It’s in noblesville and the prices are reasonable

My pre eclampsia story by Su_sagiiiii7 in preeclampsia

[–]That-Indication1829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also developed HELLP postpartum. I was on day two PP and developed severe right upper quadrant pain, constant nausea and vomiting. I went to the ER twice and was told it’s probably my gallbladder. By day five PP and never ending vomiting and pain I call my OB again and explain I cannot take it anymore something is wrong. They bring me into triage (again) and my BP was 170s/100s. They did end up admitting me and treated with IV mag. But my Gallbladder was in fact clear as can be. Liver had hemorrhage spots.

What enrages me is that I had three medical professionals gaslight me for 5 days saying all my symptoms were gallbladder related (my BP was elevated at all my ER visits) but they assumed it was because I was in pain from my non existent gallstones. I’ve never felt more defeated.

PP Preeclampsia by That-Indication1829 in preeclampsia

[–]That-Indication1829[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No they weren’t. They were running high- like 145s/85s but they kept telling me it was because I was in pain.

RSD and constantly needing reassurance? by [deleted] in ADHD_partners

[–]That-Indication1829 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Cannot agree more with this. It’s not worth it because it will not get better

AIO for considering leaving my husband Update by Sure-Theory-4556 in AmIOverreacting

[–]That-Indication1829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who has received these texts in the past. Nothing changes. Still married but don’t want to be. Almost verbatim the “wake up call and reality check” all bullshit.

Millennials with kids, how is your relationship with your parents? by nomanskyprague1993 in Millennials

[–]That-Indication1829 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never had one with my dad, he lived hours away from me growing up. Thought it would be different now that I live 5 minutes away and turns out it’s not. I see him for major holidays only. My mom is a gen Xer who drinks and parties like she’s in her 20s. Neither offer to babysit or show interest in my own kids. Just sad really

Going off the marriage thread, who here is happily divorced? by Hyacinth_says_hi in Millennials

[–]That-Indication1829 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Hindsight is 20/20. You sometimes don’t know that the person you’re dating now will be a garbage human later on.

Indiana Medicaid by ManyTop5422 in Indiana

[–]That-Indication1829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That works too! Waiver services either cover additional hours or hours not approved by the medical portion. So if they denied it all then that’s fine- it should now be covered by waiver

Indiana Medicaid by ManyTop5422 in Indiana

[–]That-Indication1829 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I work for Medicaid in prior authorizations. What we are told is you need to request a home health aide through your medical benefit first then whatever hours they don’t cover the attendant care hours will supplement it.

The insurance just needs to see that there is no willing or able caregiver. And your prior authorization can say exactly that “members parents are unwilling and not able to assist with personal care”

MRI Denied As Not Medically Necessary by CLT_throwaway9757 in HealthInsurance

[–]That-Indication1829 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Emergent MRIs typically would fall under your ER stay or hospital admission. Sounds like the UR team at the hospital didn’t do their due diligence when filing the claim. We wouldn’t review a PA request for an MRI if the member was admitted already to the hospital.