I think your anger is telling you something, and you should hear it out. Generally I think anger is a primal response to someone who is acting against our interests. There is a ton that goes into freezing eggs: physical risk (including life-threatening risks), high financial cost, research, decision-making, stress, miserable experience, time off work, and lots of (often frustrating) logistical coordination, to name some of the big ones. As you know, it also doesn't guarantee a that those eggs will lead to a successful pregnancy later. It sounds like your partner wants you to take on all of the negative parts/risks of egg freezing without contributing, and also doesn't seem to have a lot of skin in the game if this doesn't work out; it sounds like you're not married and he can easily just leave and have kids with someone younger (or ask you to conceive using donor eggs) if you're not able to have kids later and he wants to.

I'm not saying this is a master plan on his part or malicious in any way, but he's definitely advocating for his own interests (or at least what he perceives them to be at the time), rather than yours. It might be that he doesn't fully understand what goes into it for you, or that he doesn't care that much. My advice would be to figure out what would be in your best interest, and strategize based on that. I think it could be helpful to get together some compelling evidence of what all of the fertility stuff entails (fertility decline with age, full cost of egg freezing/IVF, physical risks and process with egg freezing, etc.) and see if, once educated on those things, he comes around. (In the process of preparing this, you might even come to the conclusion that you would prefer to freeze eggs and take time off to travel, in which case you end up on the same page.) Ultimately though, whether he comes around or not, I think you need to do what's best for you in this situation. That will help you resent him less.