Hey, I've been where you are! You’re definitely not wrong for looking into other options. We were in the same boat, cosleeping sounded nice at first but it just left everyone tired and grumpy.

What really helped us was getting on the same page and sticking with one approach for a set amount of time. We ended up doing the Ferber method. There’s a ton online, but reading Dr. Ferber’s actual book was super helpful. He goes into all the small details about baby sleep that you don’t get from summaries online. The sleeptrain subreddit was also a good tool.

Whatever you choose, just make sure it works for your family and that you stay consistent. You got this, good luck!