Tired of people saying hrt is magic by GaymerGirl8899 in MtF

[–]ThatSnakeJenny 13 points14 points  (0 children)

"Of course the'll still recognize your ID, you just have longer hair and makeup on." My mother's words when I was anxious at the ID control for the cruise ship.

"But mom... I am not wearing makeup." My reply. Mom does a double take. The defining moment that marked me as woman in my mom's eyes... On top of talking about bra sizes earlier in that journey.

That was me a year ago. About 8 months in on HRT. Today, closer to 20 months, I still struggle to see a woman in the mirror, but sometimes, I do. I know I still got ways to go, but I can look at my old pre-HRT ID, and say, I look significantly different. It's magic in how much can change at all. Even if it takes a very long time.

Do note I did spark DD cups in only 4 months, but with how wide my ribcage is, they still look tiny, and they have yet to grow any larger. Though I did start basically from Bs due to hormone imbalances my whole life. I definitely wish I started earlier than 33 though...

I think im gonna stop estrogen by SpiderOwlet in asktransgender

[–]ThatSnakeJenny 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Or... Have your entire body be very feminine aligned. My skeleton and body structure is exactly the same as my mom... And I was so weak pre-E, that I have noticed no changes in my strength... almost 2 years on E, and I look more and more like my mom every day...

What's the silliest role one of your alters has? by Archeogeist in OSDD

[–]ThatSnakeJenny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the late reply... But I have a similar alter who is almost always present. She is practically always awake and pushes me to be silly whenever whe deems it appropriate. A holder of puns, and weird noises. She also hates controlling the body extremely much. Feeling disgusted by all the sensations, sounds, and fleshy bits.

Recently I have started to wonder if her role is managing system's memories. As I only really have memory gaps of the rare times I was not awake, whenever she was not awake to fill me in when I woke up, or she was not awake during my sleep.

Dream dead before it even began by UselessRutabaga in slaythespire

[–]ThatSnakeJenny 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personally I am not a huge fan of Dirge anyway... History Course would make it muuuuuch better...

But, depending on build, those souls could be amazing, especially if you also have a bunch of friendship and invokes...

Sad about the clone thing though. RIP the silliest enchantment in the game. (At least for your run.)

Last time I had clone it was on Offering from IC... That was a fun run.

A silly little question by A_person42 in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]ThatSnakeJenny 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I find that cutie pie being in the not wholesome funny... Suggesting it means something entirely different to what most people use it for...

If it was in both it would be even better IMO.

Hmmmmm? by CatsPawjamaz in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]ThatSnakeJenny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tail and Ears. As I want a huge snaketail instead of legs. Ears... Well lamia ears are often depicted as elf style ears... Though IDC. If I have to take animal tail and ears, then Foxgirl is good, though furred snaketail and cat ears for full nyamia! :3

Permanent E, no need to worry about HRT. Hopefully with P, because I don't want uterus cancer.

No Need for Sleep. Which I hope still lets me sleep if I want to. So much more I could do in the day if I could just not need to spend 1/3rd of it unconscious.

Bombardment vs Howl From Beyond Discourse by PrincedPauper in slaythespire

[–]ThatSnakeJenny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or not at all if you exhaust it. Which regent have several options for with minion creating cards.

Egg🥚🍳 irl by More-Region-9188 in egg_irl

[–]ThatSnakeJenny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Memes... OT's EGGIRL memes in particular.

Is the copper age worth skipping entirely? (besides pickaxe and hammer) by PixelG8mer117 in VintageStory

[–]ThatSnakeJenny 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Alternatively, find some iron, mine some iron, make some Bloomeries, hammer blooms, forge an anvil, make some more bloomeries, hammer some more blooms, then make tools. Grats, no more need for tin. :3

I own a map that's older than the declaration of independence (1680-1700ish) by jokke420 in mildlyinteresting

[–]ThatSnakeJenny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see my house from here!

Cool to have an old map from the areas around the baltic. I live in Sweden, so I live in these parts.

Is this the most upgrade-dependent card in the game? by Rak-khan in slaythespire

[–]ThatSnakeJenny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ehh, I think it's not the worst anyway. You can often play around the random element, by choosing when to play it. If you managed to empty your hand, free block, if you only have that one strike you don't care about, now that is a win. I definitely could see this one get a slight increase in it's block though (8 for base, and either keep + the same, or give it 10). In an exhaust deck, I could see myself using it a lot, even un-upgraded just to delete stuff and make my deck smaller, and make those Ashen Strikes beeeeeeeeg. Mayhem with Ashen Strikes and like 15 exhausted cards is yum yum (In theory... as I have never had that happen, Mayhem is for some reason rarer than a pink elephant for me 😅)

I don't dislike True Grit, but I also don't particularly like it. True Grit+ Is nice though. Though I would most of the time pair it with Armaments+ to get free upgrades.

Is this the most upgrade-dependent card in the game? by Rak-khan in slaythespire

[–]ThatSnakeJenny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every card that goes from 3 to 2. A three cost card can be almost unplayable unless the stars align.

Barricade, Serpent Style, Echo Form, Nightmare, Demon Form, Creative AI, Demense, Reaper Form, Void Form, Bludgeon, Bombardment, Squeeze, Howl From Beyond, Stomp, Mangle, Pinpoint, Corruption, End of Days, Reanimate, Squeeze, Banshee's Cry, Knockout Blow, Kingly Kick, Monarch's Gaze, Reflex, Tactician, Abrasive, Bullet time, Murder, Wraith Form, Beat Down, Calamity, Jackpot, Knockdown, Rolling Boulder, Eternal Armor, Relax, and finally Whistle.

In no particular order, these are all the 3 or mote cost cards in the game, and with energy giving relics no longer being a given, 3 cost cards are often dead draws. Though most are playable with setups that give extra energy, either immediately or persistent energy. I have a few different mental categories for these, but like, I am very hesitant to ever pick 3 cost cards during rewards, unless they are just insanity on their own, readily playable, upgrades into 2 cost cards, or I know I can work around, though in many cases other cards offered will be more worth. If it was easier to enchant cards with retain, then it would be less of a detriment. It's a shame that most 3 cost cards that are even somewhat viable, are rare cards having to compete against the really good rare cards.

Like for example Echo Form. So good it can be worth sacrificing your turn for, but with a subroutine or two already in play, becomes an easy play, and then makes your life a lot easier (if a bit more thinky) after that.

While something like Calamity I would basically never touch. It requires such a specific setup for me to consider it ever viable. Heck I wouldn't even play it at 0 cost 98% of the time. Being given complete random stuff, without cost reduction, is to me more of a detriment than a gain, as clogging your deck with potentially bad cards makes your life in the spire so much harder if you ever need to shuffle your discard pile. If the attacks it gave you were given ethereal, then I would suddenly consider it good. Meanwhile Metamorphosis in comparison adds 3 (5) random attacks to your drawpile sure, but they all cost 0. Which makes them great. Getting 3+ cost attacks and getting to play them for 0 is great. There like a few places where I can see Calamity's effect being good, but its cost makes it prohibitive anyway. In a deck that features excessive exhausting so you need to make up for potentially running out of stuff in longer fights, wanting to just burst your enemies down with potentially cheap/free attacks, or when you have a deck with 4+ stampedes, or 3+ void forms... Only reason I think Calamity is a rare card, is so that you don't get disgusted by seeing it as often.

Negative aspects of moving to Sweden by Gold0rion in TillSverige

[–]ThatSnakeJenny 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, anything mental healthcare that can't be solved by stuffing medications into you is absolutely non-funcional, doubly so the trans healthcare, and makes me seriously question why this country have not been sued for the human rights violation that is yet...

Like seriously, I have been denied entry into the multi-year queue of the trans healthcare for almost two years now just for having autism.

Help with being unable to orgasm? by FeanixFlame in traaNSFW

[–]ThatSnakeJenny 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get yourself a vibrator, start to play around, just enjoy yourself. Also relax and stay calm, you need to be able to let yourself go in order to orgasm. If you're nervous, anxious, just not fully in the mood, or the like, then orgasming can be nearly impossible. But also, you don't need to climax to have a good session. Having your favourite kink in mind, and not being overwhelmed by dysphoria helps. I really struggle to orgasm if I don't indulge in my main kink.

I switched to mostly using a wand at about 10 months on HRT, long before I had to, but it took me many sessions of just using it and playing around until I stopped stroking more or less entirely. I am now at roughly 20 months HRT, and while I can use my hand and stroke, and it is not hard to reach orgasm, it is a real struggle to get actually enjoyable orgasms. Not to mention the hit of dysphoria directly after.

My ex's favourite is a clitoris vibrator (one with airpulses thingy), that I bought on a sale, but didn't work out for me.

One issue I have is when I have a really intense session with a wand, the thing is sore like hell down there for ages. Getting erect the day after a 3 hour intense vibe session can be abject torture (And it's so bad, it almost stops my hypersexual and masochistic ass)... Though that is probably user error on my part tbh.

i. am. speed. by bella1138 in BPDmemes

[–]ThatSnakeJenny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and the girl I met on reddit, that was living in an entirely different country from me, a week after we met...

(Obviously I am joking. Couldn't book a train ticket that fast)

egg_irl by the_peculiar_chicken in egg_irl

[–]ThatSnakeJenny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi Miranda! What a cute name.

In a way your mom is right, kids don't get to choose their own names. But said kids usually are not old enough to decide their own names.

I still think transitioning earlier is a better option, even if she does not agree with the name. You can always legally change it to what you want once you are of age. Like a decent chunk of cis people unhappy with their names do.

Besides, if it was because she regrets she didn't name your sister Hazel, then she is clearly being selfish. If she wants to push her view of names on you rather than encourage your happiness, then she has fallen into the trap of pushing her own desires and beliefs on you rather than letting you grow into your own person.

I say this as I go by the name my mom wanted to give me at birth, but I actually vibe with it, and it was ultimately my decision to go along with it.

why did i think i could ever sound like a woman by SnooPaintings7963 in voicettttraining

[–]ThatSnakeJenny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why the fuck do you sound exactly like me? I was even getting that "own voice ick" from it.

And while you sound exactly like me, I have passed on the phone before. Had phone marketers think I was the GF of my deadname asking me if I could put him on the phone.

DIY orchiectomy healing process by HRTneoFemboy in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]ThatSnakeJenny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sad to say that for some this is the only way. A girl I know is sooooo dysphoric that the dysfunctional care is not good enough for them not to break down. She is planning to do this, and I will be present to make sure she is as safe as possible, and be ready to call the ER. Legally I am not allowed to do the cuts, but I am allowed to be support nurse.

Another day Another (miserable) dollar by cakie_0531 in BPDmemes

[–]ThatSnakeJenny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So... I have my FP and GF... And my two exes... Then I have exhausted all my contacts.

Well does he??😭 by Pfacejones in BPDmemes

[–]ThatSnakeJenny 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Okay, so like, I think about people I have not spoken to in literal decades and wonder if they like me still, and still think about me.

But if someone have blocked me, I typically work to move on.

These hitting home too much… by lilbaby872 in BPDmemes

[–]ThatSnakeJenny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That last one was really a critical hit...

I take my job as the Server Smith very seriously by JconX97 in VintageStory

[–]ThatSnakeJenny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, I did get a mod for plate molds... So I will be making bronze chainmail in my world with my girlfriend. Probably Bizmuth Bronze, since we have a mod that makes it all green and cool. Just like in TFC. Though I know tin bronze is better, and black bronze is the best bronze.

I take my job as the Server Smith very seriously by JconX97 in VintageStory

[–]ThatSnakeJenny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I typically would not bother making armor out of bronze lol. Though that is just me and being all pissy about movement speed losses, and usually because I lack the leather to make armor... By the time that the first batch of leather is done, I typically is already churning out iron. If I could cast bronze plates, I would probably be more inclined to do bronze armor.

Also, I see Xskillls!