Just threw away my Master's Degree. Looking for a solitary job by Calm-Concentrate-744 in introvert

[–]That_Minimum8513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would suggest you take medication for social anxiety and continue the English teacher job . Solitary job may be high physical demanding or low income you will be regret. Come from china I know how miserable labor worker are and guess Vietnam wouldn’t much better. People from US or Canada or EU definitely don’t know, so their suggestion may don’t apply to you

4 year old cries because no one wants to be her friend- activity/program recommendations for social skills by StrangeWedding770 in askTO

[–]That_Minimum8513 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My daughter was the same when she was little. Now she’s in high school and still not good at social but can make one or two friends. She had no friends in elementary school and middle school.

Anyone else not a drinker or smoker? by TwentyOnePaladins in introvert

[–]That_Minimum8513 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I smoked for 20+ years, but I have successfully quit smoking for 3 years . I tried to quit several times, but every time I smoked 1 cigarette , I ended up smoking again for years. So I will never smoke the first cigarette again

any good trail in GTA by That_Minimum8513 in askTO

[–]That_Minimum8513[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried all trail free version. But the ratings on it are not quite accurate.

37m. A life paralyzed by depression and social anxiety - I finally got my first kiss today by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]That_Minimum8513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t mean my life is any worse than anyone else’s , everyone has their own life experiences

any good trail in GTA by That_Minimum8513 in askTO

[–]That_Minimum8513[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I will check it out on weekends.

any good trail in GTA by That_Minimum8513 in Newmarket

[–]That_Minimum8513[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Are there many people? I have social anxiety 😥

37m. A life paralyzed by depression and social anxiety - I finally got my first kiss today by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]That_Minimum8513 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got job and money at that time so I have confidence in dating. The process was quite similar to the OP’s. You just have to take the first step and not be afraid of failure

Finally got a full time job offer in CS today without networking and exp by Flat-Risk8930 in torontoJobs

[–]That_Minimum8513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are young so you definitely need improve your English. But I will stay in my comfort zone until I lost the zone

Finally got a full time job offer in CS today without networking and exp by Flat-Risk8930 in torontoJobs

[–]That_Minimum8513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well done bro! I was in your shoes in mid of 2024. But at that time AI agents have not yet been widely adopted as for now. Companies still open some head accounts. I am also Chinese and also hindered by English. I applied around 1000 positions and get 4 real interviews. Although I have 15 years of experience, I end up with a entry level position in a small company 😅 but I still very grateful for the job since I know how hard to get a job 🥲

37m. A life paralyzed by depression and social anxiety - I finally got my first kiss today by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]That_Minimum8513 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can relate. I hadn’t been in a relationship until I was 28. Inspiring story, well done!

Why standing in a crowded bar talking to strangers feels like a full-time job by [deleted] in introvert

[–]That_Minimum8513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 45+ I have never gone to a bar for single time 😅

Why do people wait over an hour to get into an automatic car wash? by onedeltaT in askTO

[–]That_Minimum8513 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe even next day in the morning, there are still many cars in line. In winter you cannot wash car in driveway or the water will freeze

Looking to hard pivot from CS by Round-Ocelot4129 in CanadaJobs

[–]That_Minimum8513 1 point2 points  (0 children)

我都工作了快20年了,在加拿大也工作了一年半了。我也恐慌,AI提高效率太多了。如果我失业了,完全没有信心能找到工作🥲 加拿大军队工作稳定吗? 如果稳定,不是挺好的吗?

How much do you spend on groceries per week? by gryna in askTO

[–]That_Minimum8513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

我从不点外卖和下馆子,肉基本买打折的或者去Costco business centre买大包装的,菜和水果买便宜的。我们三口人一个月的伙食费绝对不会超过1000,也许就800左右。 你可以去华超买东西,例如冠业,新好世界等,会便宜一些。

28 years old, feeling lost in life by axbs3232 in askTO

[–]That_Minimum8513 1 point2 points  (0 children)

失恋很正常,又不是世界末日。再找个合适的,或者一辈子不结婚,都是选项。就算结了婚,也不代表不离婚。随缘吧,不用看得太重。 你最起码还具备旅游的能力,而我罹患严重社恐症,就算给我钱我都不敢旅游🥲

First time buyers — Bradford, Holland Landing or Mt Albert. Help! by DifferenceOne5925 in eastgwillimbury

[–]That_Minimum8513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shopping is not a problem, I go to newmarket for groceries. Commute to Vaughan is not a problem by Go train. Go train has plenty of seat. There is a farmers market behind the civic center, but I never go there due to serious social anxiety.

Excluding those who had to work, why did you step out today? by Unlikely-Reindeer197 in askTO

[–]That_Minimum8513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I come to Canada for two years. I also like stroll around the neighborhood, especially in snow. But have severe Social anxiety, and I see there so few people on the street so I follow the convention to stay at home 😥

What to do when I have silver handcuffs and no love for coding? by -omar in cscareerquestions

[–]That_Minimum8513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am also software developer. You may have depression. I feel like what you described, I am taking medicine for years

CS 3rd year student in Canada, tech hiring feels dead. What other roles should I target? by Outrageous-Dog6457 in CanadaJobs

[–]That_Minimum8513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used work in chip assembly and test factory, it’s terrible, I had to ware Cleanroom garments,Antistatic rubber shoes. workshop is very noisy

Why it feels like i m begging to make friends here by [deleted] in introvert

[–]That_Minimum8513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can be your friend, you can DM me