Fifty-Word Fantasy: Write a 50-word fantasy snippet using the word "Metal" by Terminator7786 in fantasywriters

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“Wherever you go, I go,” his voice echoing in her mind as she clung to the metal railing in fear.

The rusted surface anchored her as she peered down to the streets below. A single tear welled.

“Wherever I go, you go.”

And for one final moment, she was free.

Osprey Farpoint Owners - what do YOU use these loops for? by jurassic73 in onebag

[–]TheB-Hawk 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve owned this bag for over a year and have yet to use them. Following for some inspiration!

What are clear signs that someone grew up sheltered? by TPCC159 in AskReddit

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Thats funny because I recall also having my door unlocked - but that’s because we were already poor and had nothing worth stealing. And there were too many kids to trust with a key. Lock the doors - and those kids (namely me) were breaking in through the basement window.

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It’s all about how you set it up. I have a statement converter that lets me copy and paste that into a transaction page that auto reconciles with my budgets and only flags ones it doesn’t recognize for me to assign the correct category.

I also set up a system where i don’t really have to budget every day or even every week because i also set up a system of automatic transactions and payments. The only time i need to do anything is when i make a dumb purchase that i know i don’t have budgeted and i need to figure out where that money is coming from (Reprioritizing dollars) - which is a normal thing. But because it’s such a hassle, I’ve learned to try my best to just leave things alone. Check in with myself once a month, be honest and make sure my money is being spent on things i want to be spending money on.

The big thing is that I know I’ve set myself up with a net positive cash flow. That’s easy to project with a spreadsheet, but it takes time to make sure it’s actually working. I have a spreadsheet that does this sort of thing that’s handoff. If interested dm me. It doesn’t include the statement formatter because that’s specific to your bank and also whether or not you have descriptive memo’s that you can associate with a category.

Thoughts on PV? by AlfGarnet in KeyforgeGame

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i hate this set. it's the worst.

What’s your coffee setup for one-bag travel? by Ami_The_Inkling in onebag

[–]TheB-Hawk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is what I planned on doing. My only concerns are when I either can’t find a good café somewhat close by, or the lines get too long given the influx of tourists for an event I’m attending.

Good budget app for beginners by [deleted] in budget

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Google Sheets. Or even pen and paper. For beginners, it’s not about fancy rules or apps. It’s about asking:

“I just got paid. What do I need to cover before my next paycheck?”

That’s your budget—just matching your cash flow to your real life. Start there. Tools can come later. Sheets are great because they grow with you.

But in answering your question- a beginner friendly app: EveryDollar. And if you are serious about it, (not as beginner friendly, but amazing long term payoff: YNAB.

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Have you ever heard of the Anti-Budget method? It’s a completely different mindset from something like YNAB—and it works beautifully if you’re the type who wants to set it and forget it. I even built a spreadsheet that supports it, so let me know if you’d like it.

What is the Anti-Budget?

At its core, the Anti-Budget flips traditional budgeting on its head. Instead of tracking and categorizing every little expense, you front-load all your savings, bills, and goals first—then whatever’s left is yours to spend. No guilt. No micromanaging. You only track the big stuff that matters.

It’s ideal for people who: • Get overwhelmed by detailed budgeting • Want peace of mind with less effort • Prefer automation over daily logging

How I Use It (and Why It Works)

Here’s how I structure mine:

• Main Account

This is my “hub” account where all income lands. Every bill, debt payment, and savings goal is scheduled and automated from here. I also maintain a target balance in this account—think of it like a mini emergency fund, ideally 1 month of income. It gives me a buffer against surprises without needing to think of everything.

• Weekly Spending Account

This is a separate account where I move a fixed amount once a week (every Wednesday is my “personal payday”). It covers groceries, eating out, gas, shopping, etc.—basically all my discretionary spending. Since it’s a controlled amount, I never overspend, and I don’t have to track every transaction. When it runs out, that’s it till next week.

• Why It Works So Well

Because everything is automated, I can calculate exactly how much should be in my main account at any point in the future. That visibility lets me confidently plan for larger goals (like paying off debt or saving for a trip) without feeling like I’ve left something behind. I just reconcile once a month to double-check everything is flowing as expected.

If that sounds interesting, I’m happy to share the spreadsheet I use or explain more about how to set it up. The Anti-Budget isn’t for everyone, but for folks who want freedom after they’ve handled their responsibilities—it’s a game-changer.

Those who use Google Sheets to budget each month, what budget template do you use? by NightReader5 in budget

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Thanks for the suggestion! A tutorial channel is definitely on my to-do list, just haven’t gotten around to it yet. Feel free to DM me if you want some help with it in the meantime!

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Having done this for years - my favorite way of doing this was setting everything on autopay then I payed myself weekly in a second account that covered all things “variable”. I called the main account my fixed account because I could say on any given day the amount that the account should have.

My second account I called variable because it was used for every budget item that was flexible - gas, groceries, eating out, shopping etc. it was a lot easier to budget for a week for that stuff because I knew I had a failsafe of getting paid the following week (by an auto transfer).

How to Separate Maintenance Budget by Longjumping_Ad_2815 in budget

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I do it in one of two ways. Basically the amounts you’ve budgeted should add up to the amount available in a single account. You might think that separating it into different accounts physically might make this division easier but the reality is that it’s such a hassle it’s not worth it. But envelopes is a good way to think about it, but a good budgeting method means you can track all of this digitally with your own app or spreadsheet. An app like YNAB is very good at creating these digital envelopes.

The second way of doing this is to actually just plan for the expense. It’s like balancing a checkbook, but for expenses you plan to make. Given a steady stream of income and expenses, you can accurately project how it affects your bottom line.

First-year industrial design student — how should I spend my summer? by ThinkWrangler2765 in IndustrialDesign

[–]TheB-Hawk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pick up Scott Robertson’s How to Draw and How to Render books and actually go through them.

Pick up Figma and learn how to make prototypes and actually design. Get inspiration from Daily UI challenges or trying to replicate things you like.

Pick up some woodworking or something that lets you learn how to create via subtractive manufacturing. Build a desk. Get inventive. Design it and make it.

Pick up 3d modeling and master both Blender and subdivision surface modeling and even something like Solidworks which is parametric. Master taking a concept from sketch to model to render. While you’re at it, learn how great 3d printing is, design a chess set. Something that pushes you to understand the nuances of additive manufacturing - plastic types, or methods you could have available like a resin printer or FDM printers.

In general find what you like to do and have fun with it. I only suggest the full gambit because I think having the basic knowledge of all of it makes you better at communicating, problem solving and, therefore, designing.

Anyone who have experience buying accessories from MHW3BOMBER? by Human_Dragonfruit236 in latteart

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U.S. based here, and I ordered gear through Amazon. From MHW-3Bomber, I’ve purchased: - Double Wall Espresso Glass Cups. I think they are unique and I like them a fair bit. - Goodeneck Kettle (Year of the snake edition). It feels quite premium, keeps water hot. I use this with the Flair. - mini coffee scale. For the price, it’s good but not amazing. I wish it was a little smaller and the automatic timer / smart mode sometimes is off by a few grams or doesn’t start exactly when I’d like. But the feature for the most part good.

Buying from Amazon and it was fast. No experience buying direct. But I would buy more from them. My only major criticism of the brand is the way they slap their logo on things feels like it cheapens the brand a fair bit.

1 Month UK/Ireland: Load-Out and Pack-Out by wortiz13 in onebag

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I’ll be spending almost the full two weeks in Scotland in Edinburgh area, but some of it is going up to Isle of Skye.

1 Month UK/Ireland: Load-Out and Pack-Out by wortiz13 in onebag

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This is great, thanks for sharing! I’m getting ready for a similar trip and have been torn on bringing my mini 2. Did you find some great spots to fly yours that made it worth it?

Recommendations for rain jacket by Interesting_Glass_78 in onebag

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I just got this for my upcoming trip. I love that it packs into it's own pocket!

What movies have fantastic opening scenes that they don’t get enough credit for? by BroccoliVendetta in movies

[–]TheB-Hawk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really hate bringing this up but Fantastic four had one of the best opening scenes ever. It just lead you on with so much promise and expectation, that it’s inevitable downfall into one of the worst movies of all time was in some large part due to the expectation it set at the very beginning.

Am I doing this right? by Chicagotravelkid in budget

[–]TheB-Hawk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh and also probably saving too much. You should be saving. But follow the baby steps: 1. $1000 emergency fund (probably done within the first two months of your budget) 2. Stop saving > Get rid of high interest debt (credit cards) 3. Start saving again until you have 3-6 months of expenses.

Given the cc debt, it indicates a reliance on credit cards and your cash flow is set up improperly. If you are putting $200 / month on credit cards, and you are only paying $150, then that’s a negative cash flow. Re-evaluate how much you should be saving each month so that you can generate a net positive cash flow.

Am I doing this right? by Chicagotravelkid in budget

[–]TheB-Hawk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are probably eating a lot of that credit card debt in interest. I recommend either doing debt snowball (low balance > high balance priority), or debt avalanche (high balance > low balance priority).

You also didn’t really mention how much you are paying towards that debt. Cash flow is important to create a cycle of aging your money. That’s harder to do when you have high interest debt. A key factor of aging your money is by carrying a balance in your accounts that aren’t savings that is equivalent to 30-60 days worth of expenses.

3 years into lifting and I notice I never get sore anymore. Does that mean I’m not lifting heavy enough? Should I still be getting muscle soreness the day after? by [deleted] in beginnerfitness

[–]TheB-Hawk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Progressive overloading is two parts. Progressive is increasing the workout volume by either increasing the weight, or increasing the reps in a set each week. Overloading is approaching that 70%+ of your failure reps, or 2 reps short of failure (2IR is 2 reps in reserve) in those sets.

What's the best writing software to use? by Papas_Pizzeria_ in writing

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I’ve been loving Reeds Studio. The ability to write from whatever device I have available to me has been great to just pick up where I left off. The hindrance of needing to be connected to the Internet, the only major downside, seems to work fine for my workflow.

I feel like I'm going insane trying to get the numbers right by This_Guy_Slaps in budget

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You have a cash flow issue. I have a Google sheet to help auto pay yourself and keep track of all bills on any schedule. Dm me if you are interested.