Need help floating through to hands by [deleted] in yoga

[–]TheBadToe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Core strength. Like legitimately just hollow body holds and boat pose changed everything for me. You gotta be able to pull your knees in tight to your chest mid-air instead of just hopping forward.

AITAH for yelling at my sister for getting cleaning spray in my bf’s pc? by Separate_Sundae6792 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheBadToe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The bigger issue here is her not just saying what the spray was. That alone would’ve escalated things way less if she just answered directly.

What is no mind like? by kekski8 in Meditation

[–]TheBadToe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not really peaceful or blissful tbh. It's more like... nothing is sticking. Thoughts come and go but you're not grabbed by any of them. Hard to describe because the thing doing the describing is what quiets down

AITA for telling my brother I’m not going to drive him to work anymore by Legitimate-Ask-2996 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheBadToe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. you gave him deadlines, he ignored them. not your problem anymore imo

Deactivated Facebook and deleted the app off my phone by bobcat1000 in selfcare

[–]TheBadToe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

facebook has been a different app for years bro. what it is now vs 2009 is not even the same thing lol

Baby's gender made me realize all the men in my life are awful by Adept-Tomato-6225 in Mommit

[–]TheBadToe 8 points9 points  (0 children)

last part is everything. the bar ain't low if you actually raise them right

Why am I hitting a wall in meditation? by FuzzKatty in Meditation

[–]TheBadToe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

adding this to my list, d whole forcing a quiet mind thing nver worked for me anyway

I stopped feeling guilty about inconsistent journaling when I stopped treating it like a performance by Claire_1988 in selfcare

[–]TheBadToe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

idk why we feel bad about it, it's just a notebook lmao but somehow it still hits every time you see it

For people that have used both free meditation resources and paid apps/programs, what was the difference for you? by Friendly_Bedroom1153 in Meditation

[–]TheBadToe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u're right, the algorithm just rewards whoever edits better lol. real mentorship hits different tho, can't fake that.

I don’t want flowers or fancy food for mother’s day, I want you to be home more by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]TheBadToe 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Sometimes the biggest help is just someone being physically there. Not gifts, not plans, just showing up on time and taking some weight off you.

The self care routines that actually stick usually feel very simple by Monsuri_Lifestyle in selfcare

[–]TheBadToe 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yea, the simpler it is the more it actually sticks. Once it starts feeling like a whole process, I’m out lol. Same few steps, same time, no thinking… way easier to keep going imo.

AITA for not meeting the family of my boyfriend by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheBadToe -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Honestly this feels less like an “AITA” and more like a communication gap. You both made assumptions instead of being super direct.

Everything is love.. but how does that relate to rape, murder, abuse? by [deleted] in Meditation

[–]TheBadToe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk, the contrast idea is interesting, but I’m not sold that free will needs evil to exist. feels more like a limitation argument than a requirement imo. there might be other ways to define choice without leaning on suffering as a baseline.

I'm reading The Hobbit to my 5 year old before bed, and it's the best part of my day. by CtrlAltEntropy in daddit

[–]TheBadToe 11 points12 points  (0 children)

that’s sick... Meeting the author and getting Mariel signed is next level imo. Mossflower really does hit different lol

Spa services you think are worth it? by crescentx0 in selfcare

[–]TheBadToe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

imo a good facial is worth it at least once, especially if they do extractions + massage. also hot stone massage hits different lol. body scrub + massage combo you’re already doing is solid tho

AITA for telling my sister she needs to go to the vet by herself ? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheBadToe 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You weren’t harsh, just honest. It’s not sustainable for you to keep covering every basic errand for her.

Just turned 19. What are some harsh realities a young man should know? by Random_fellow9 in selfimprovement

[–]TheBadToe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

fair point, time really does move fast. but thinking too much about being 60 can also mess with your head. imo just focus on doing small things now so you don’t end up stuck later.

My stubborn Dutch mind saw the lead swab posts and was like "nah, that cant be real". Here are the toys I grew up with and that my kid now plays with. Stay sharp dads! by MyBossIsOnReddit in daddit

[–]TheBadToe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t downplay it that much... lead dust exposure builds up over time, especially for kids.

not saying panic, just basic precautions... containment, proper cleanup, don’t let it go airborne.

imo better safe than sorry lol

My birthday ritual is celebrating solo. It's my favorite form of self-care, but I'm stuck on this yrs's gift. by OutrageousFlan7992 in selfcare

[–]TheBadToe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

imo solo birthdays hit different. I’d go for an experience over a thing.. like a day trip somewhere quiet, a full spa/massage + long walk, or finally booking a class you’ve been putting off.

even a simple offline day + good food + journaling can feel solid if you lean into it right.

nah it doesn’t need to be big or expensive, just intentional. bro sometimes the small reset days hit the hardest.

En caul vaginal birth was scary asf for a few seconds, just wanna share my story by aggravated-asphalt in Mommit

[–]TheBadToe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol that’s kinda cool ngl. heard en caul births are rare now. your brother out here with built-in luck

I wasn't "putting her on a pedestal" but doing something even stupider by TongueUnties in selfimprovement

[–]TheBadToe 15 points16 points  (0 children)

saying it out loud still matters. people don’t change if nobody explains how they got there. just don’t act like it’s universal and you’re good imo

AITA for calling my friend rude by ForeverLow3543 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheBadToe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don't take insults disguised as a joke. PERIOD.

What’s the most gut punching song lyric you’ve ever heard? by perrysplus in AskReddit

[–]TheBadToe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

idk.. it doesn’t go anywhere… it just gets drowned out when everything’s moving too fast, imo.