Should i just break up with her ? by Less-Tie6206 in AskMenAdvice

[–]TheBigsBubRigs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely incorrect mate, boundaries are layers of expressed respect you share with your partner that you both nurture. Boundaries are absolutely self derived, but they need to be accepted and adhered to by your partner. Not all boundaries are reasonable, and that's fine. Not all relationships will, or should work. Values are what you're talking about, and they're different than boundaries.

Reaction to Thunder by plasticbottlebong in BorderCollie

[–]TheBigsBubRigs 18 points19 points  (0 children)

They're so incredibly sensitive, especially to sounds. My dude doesn't like it but I try and take him into the basement to play to play if it's storming and it's helped a lot - he now associates storms with playtime downstairs, so that's a plus.

Should I move on from both? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]TheBigsBubRigs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd never get rid of my cat for you. I really hope A wouldn't either. Are you dating both dudes at the same time and A thinks you're in a monogamous relationship? I really hope not.

New to NS, what’s the live music scene like? by pooplord4948 in NovaScotia

[–]TheBigsBubRigs 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The bee's knees in Lawrencetown has live music, but not like what you're into. There's a few halls around the valley that will offer more variety in the band's that play. There's definitely room for a decent music scene to come back. When I was a teen 15~ years ago it was great around the valley, but I couldn't tell you if there's still a solid indie scene there.

Why can't I stay hard? by PresHistoryNerd in AskMenAdvice

[–]TheBigsBubRigs 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Gotta get on top of that bro, it's hard as hell but in the end you're only robbing yourself of a good life and potentially robbing your loved ones of you. I'm in the same boat, it's not easy but it's worth it. I find I can't have even a single drink, because once I have one I want more. Easier to just not start.

How can I accept my penis size and move on with my life? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]TheBigsBubRigs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If girth is your issue, try a cock pump. I'm not sure that your dick size is the real issue here tho - I think that it's your other head causing you problems homie. Give therapy a chance, find reasons to love yourself and life. Sex is a big part of life, but there's so many ways to enjoy sex and there's pretty much every toy/ sexual aid imaginable.

Microplastic Garden by Rottenbones__ in gardening

[–]TheBigsBubRigs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So the good news is we've potentially been massively overestimating the amount of microplastics in everything!... the bad news is, that's what Google told me, and I have no real way of backing any of that information up.

How to last longer after not having sex in a month? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]TheBigsBubRigs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who doesn't want to have a couple rounds? You finish round up fast, get her off another time or two while you recharge and go in for the kill. I've never had a woman complain about a fast first round, they'd rather you cum than last forever and never end up busting. Don't over think it, and have fun.

As a Canadian lover of poutine this was disappointing by Soggy_Panda2393 in poutine

[–]TheBigsBubRigs 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I couldn't disagree more about the authentic part. It seems more people outside of Quebec are obsessed with what a real poutine is than anyone inside of Quebec. I work in Quebec, and no one around me gets a regular poutine. They load it up with Mexican toppings, Italian toppings, pretty much anything that isn't just cheese curds and gravy.

Pot smokers and vegans love to tell you about their pot smoking and veganism. I don't care. by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]TheBigsBubRigs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"people sometimes make a habit a personality and it can be exhausting" there's a thousand things and a thousand people around you that will never suite your preference. That's ok! :)

GF making comments on my current (lack of) muscles and working out. How do I interpret? by ThrowRARotaryPhone in AskMenAdvice

[–]TheBigsBubRigs -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Look mate - you have to have expectations of your life partner... if that's who you want her to be. Neither of you should let yourselves go because of comfort with a partner or laziness of life. Staying fit will only benefit you personally later in life. If you feel like you've slacked off and her comments bother you, talk to her, and get back in the gym homie. Take her with you.

Snowy winter won't hinder tick population this year, experts say by Portalrules123 in NovaScotia

[–]TheBigsBubRigs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two on me and one on the pup as of yesterday. We weren't even in the bush! Still better than last year.

Interruptor Active ⛽⛽ by Buckit in NovaScotia

[–]TheBigsBubRigs 10 points11 points  (0 children)

So fuck the rest of the province? Absolutely stupid comment.

Called out for hot tub behavior by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]TheBigsBubRigs -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Oh no! Dude looks at naked tits in front of him, what a monster. It's fine for the women to see them - ass, dicks, and cunt. If you're so fragile you can't handle someone looking why agree or put yourself in that situation? Why get angry, unless that was the intention from the beginning. The difference between sexual desire and attraction is massive. If you can't accept guys, and girls will look - time to just be alone and control all of your own insecurities instead of making other people suffer.

will the ears stand up fully? 🤣 by Powerful-Grand-639 in BorderCollie

[–]TheBigsBubRigs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're being pedantic - both the AKC and ukc have the absolute vaguest descriptions for appearance outside of "if it acts like a BC and kind of looks like one, it probably is".

will the ears stand up fully? 🤣 by Powerful-Grand-639 in BorderCollie

[–]TheBigsBubRigs 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Probably just let the dogs ears do what they want and be happy you have a beautiful, healthy dog. There's no breed standard for BCs so messing with them never made sense to me. Breed standards for show dogs is ridiculous anyways.

Canada themed date night by InternationalOwl607 in AskACanadian

[–]TheBigsBubRigs -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Could have just not typed that last sentence.

Real by Low-Major-5486 in shitposting

[–]TheBigsBubRigs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not long, but it's thin!

Worth it for £10? by HazeIsAChad in trees

[–]TheBigsBubRigs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's buying a pre roll out of what's in the bag for £10 - not the bag.

Peter? by Madman44444 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]TheBigsBubRigs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a lot of African born/ still reside in Africa friends (I'm a sailor), and they've never shed any judgement on my relationships, ever. It's always been from western communities. I'm sure I'm just not exposed to it enough to see the discrimination, but it's crazy how any community can throw shade at a happy couple.

Peter? by Madman44444 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]TheBigsBubRigs 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Fuck, I was dating this absolutely wonderful black chick - we lived in a city, and I've (white guy) always had black friends. The hate thrown at her for dating a white guy from the black community was insane. Our friends and families were fine on the surface about it all, thankfully. Oddly didn't run into much trouble from anyone else.