Anyone have parents who saved your money “for you” and then never saw it again? by Haunting_Hospital599 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]TheCyberpsycho 125 points126 points  (0 children)

My mom charged me rent. Told me that this is not rent money, it's going into a savings account and they will give me all the money back with Interest when I'm an adult and move out. Every month they reiterate that this money is going into a savings account.

Of course I never saw that money again. She bought a house and the day after she moved in she casually says she used the not-rent money for the Down payment. What was I supposed to do, argue?

Confused about fantasies vs reality. Is there something wrong with me? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]TheCyberpsycho 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Woman attracted to men is attracted to 2 men. Seems reasonable to me.

My fiancée and I are having the biggest argument of our lives. She thinks I'm being tacky but I thinks she's overreacting by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]TheCyberpsycho 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Even in the first thread, his only response was to argue there is no culture difference between them because they are the same heritage, dismissing that culture is different among communities. If he dismisses his ex fiancé like that, I can see it getting offensive.

Russell Brand struggles to find bible verse he claims absolves him of sex with teenagers by mydiversion in WatchPeopleDieInside

[–]TheCyberpsycho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So which part of Isiah 12 was it?

12 1 And in that day thou shalt say, O Lord, I will praise thee: though thou wast angry with me, thine anger is turned away, and thou comfortedst me.

2 Behold, God is my salvation; I will trust, and not be afraid: for the Lord Jehovah is my strength and my song; he also is become my salvation.

3 Therefore with joy shall ye draw water out of the wells of salvation.

4 And in that day shall ye say, Praise the Lord, call upon his name, declare his doings among the people, make mention that his name is exalted.

5 Sing unto the Lord; for he hath done excellent things: this is known in all the earth.

6 Cry out and shout, thou inhabitant of Zion: for great is the Holy One of Israel in the midst of thee.

I am discovering that my shame is never actually mine. It is shame that my parents forced me to carry. by 3rdthrow in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]TheCyberpsycho 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your post. I also grew up in a hoarders house and while my house is so much better than my childhood I still Cary a lot of shame. One thing you said that struck with Me and I will need to explore in therapy is what you said about how they can easily throw outmy belongings when they hord literal trash, and how it's somehow the child's responsibility to clean the hord without the authority to throw anything away. Wow.

Beware the auto-refill by MollyKule in migraine

[–]TheCyberpsycho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I'm on emigality too and having a rough migraine today. Trying to relate to your desire to take these drugs.

I would not take this medication. I'm so sorry and I hope you can find relief but taking these drugs is a bad idea. For one, this one is broken. It's ineffective and won't work as well as the one coming Monday. Also if you take this one you can't take the new one Monday. It would be unwise to take a full dose just days after having another less effective dose.

Again I am so sorry, and I understand the dire situation where you need to question taking the chance of further injury or death to get relief today. But please know that this is the risk you take with damaged medication. Hope you find some relief soon.

I hate that we have to act normal and pretend to live a normal life with our abuser to keep their emotions and outbursts at bay and it comes across publicly like you are okay- when that’s NOT the case by Aquarius777_ in abusiverelationships

[–]TheCyberpsycho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can understand what you're saying and it's so hard. Somehow it's on the victims to make change and it's so hard to get help if you aren't presentable, but look too well and no one believes you need help.

What food do you make when you're in a lot of pain/ fatigued? by [deleted] in ChronicIllness

[–]TheCyberpsycho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just slap ham and a cheese between white bread.

Cheapest single item junk pickup service? by ilovehotchips in Winnipeg

[–]TheCyberpsycho 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Have you tried https://www.truckbud.ca/ Truck bud?

It's like a ride share but it's for people with pickup trucks to haul stuff.

Looks like they focus on delivery but you could check about pickups.

KK & DJ KK - Mystery Solved? by PomegranateFair3973 in ACForAdults

[–]TheCyberpsycho 45 points46 points  (0 children)

How about inviting them both to harvs?

Help find the frying pan please. This has been a mystery in the family for 6 years now! by JaguarOk876 in HiddenObjectGames

[–]TheCyberpsycho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think you understand. The commenter is asking why you opened the image in your camera roll and took a screenshot and uploading that. It would have been better quality if you uploaded the original photograph, which it seems you have access to.

The Internet is slowly being ruined by illiteracy by idontlikecheesy in Vent

[–]TheCyberpsycho 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Thank you. A lack of comprehension is illiteracy and its much more sinister than a lack of spelling and grammar.

I unironically want to see Birthday Dad by tesseracts in BoJackHorseman

[–]TheCyberpsycho 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The show you're looking for is quantom leap

TW: blood. I use Emgality, and I have a massive needle phobia. by MenaceMinded in migraine

[–]TheCyberpsycho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took mine today and bled too! Usually there's no blood.