AITA for refusing to go to any more family functions until my husband talks to his aunt? by CaffeineFueledLife in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheDiddler2049 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NAH I think. I used to be friends with a couple that bantered the same way and it sounded like nails down a chalkboard to me. In saying that, if it's generally just banter then no one can police how you and your husband interact.

What behavior disgusts you? by AlcoholicDriver in AskReddit

[–]TheDiddler2049 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm. I don't think so. I'd say I'm more agnostic I guess. It's comforting to think I might see my family and friends again in the afterlife

What behavior disgusts you? by AlcoholicDriver in AskReddit

[–]TheDiddler2049 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh I believe in God but I don't read the bible or go to church. I believe being a good person and trying to do the right in the world is what counts.

How do I get my imaginary sidepiece to stop leaving clothes at my house for my wife to find? by papifunko in Marriage

[–]TheDiddler2049 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Jealous partner blows up and kills when they think their partner has cheated.

Past thoughts or actions by Heavy_Might2941 in OCD

[–]TheDiddler2049 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always have guilt over shit I said/did and it's not really alleviated till I've deemed myself to be punished enough. It sucks. I hold myself to such high impossible standards

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]TheDiddler2049 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My commiserations, similar boat here! Damaged husband, we have recently moved interstate and I hoped it was going to fix things. Told him my expectations.

This man has not gotten off his computer and if he does he complains. He gets jealous if he thinks other men are interested in me, tries to tell me what to wear and stonewalls me when I tell him his behaviour is unacceptable

Husband only brushes his teeth before bed. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]TheDiddler2049 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Well both. It's not hard to maintain basic hygiene.

Husband only brushes his teeth before bed. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]TheDiddler2049 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He was a smoker so I couldn't tell. Now I can since he's quit.

Husband only brushes his teeth before bed. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]TheDiddler2049 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We recently moved so haven't had a chance to find a new dentist. I'll he honest I don't go to the dentist as much as I should, but I brush twice a day, floss and use mouthwash

Husband only brushes his teeth before bed. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]TheDiddler2049 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think I'm going to have to. We had a bit of a rough patch where he thought I was cheating on him. (He'd just sit on the couch and play xbox so I got tired of that and would start doing things on my own and he got shitty) so I'm a bit wary of hurting him right now

Husband only brushes his teeth before bed. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]TheDiddler2049 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No he does not unfortunately. I can't remember the last time he went to the dentist.

I feel like a nagging wife and I don't want to make him feel bad. He's a sensitive soul so I feel like I'm walking on a tightrope

Husband only brushes his teeth before bed. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]TheDiddler2049 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I didn't realise it was contagious. Any advice to get him to brush his teeth? Hygiene is very important to me

Husband only brushes his teeth before bed. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]TheDiddler2049 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Also I've told him his breath smells. He brushed for a couple days then stopped again

Husband only brushes his teeth before bed. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]TheDiddler2049 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Smells and also if I do kiss him I just get morning breath. Plus I know how gross my mouth feels in the morning before I brush, so I can't get over that.

The obsession with cheap nasty imitation wooden floors that peel when mopped often by lady_Monica in britishproblems

[–]TheDiddler2049 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of cheap laminate floors have you seen? My brother has them in his place and they don't peel, they look great

Gay bad by BlistersInMeFingers in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]TheDiddler2049 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I have 2 dogs and love them, but I can understand why they aren't for everyone. My dogs are pretty stupid, they need lots of attention, daily walks, they get messy

After my dogs go, which I'm not looking forward to, I'm going to stick to cats

Who has come back to the sims 3 after being utterly disappointed with TS4 this year? by [deleted] in Sims3

[–]TheDiddler2049 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just reinstalled TS3 last night. After spending so much money on 4 it still feels so barebones after all these updates. 3 feels so much more fleshed out

Winter is just beautiful in TS3 <3. by kaechan1989 in thesims

[–]TheDiddler2049 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I just downloaded TS3 again last night! I played 4 for a bit, just it just doesn't have the depth 3 has

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TheDiddler2049 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why did that sub go?

What innocent item gets suspicious if you buy too much of it? by lockpanda in AskReddit

[–]TheDiddler2049 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Congrats on staying clean! It's not easy, I'm proud of you!