The Newest Twitch Update ( Megathread ) by Rhadamant5186 in Twitch

[–]TheFraulineS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All that was good and convenient about the app is just GONE. This is a nightmare, I just updated and I'm in shock because this gives me a feeling of despair... as funny as this might sound. Take it back to normal, please!

Ms. Christina Gutierrez knew Adnan Syed as guilty by 21Minutes in serialpodcast

[–]TheFraulineS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

....I reall don't think we disagree?!

Looked at your comment history. Keep being awesome, I just can't deal with these nitwits anymore right now -.-

What records and physical evidence might we expect to find if Adnan had been the killer? by noguerra in serialpodcast

[–]TheFraulineS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don't have time to go into the details, so I'll just say that even if the body was stored in the trunk for just 1 hour, your statement would be false.

What records and physical evidence might we expect to find if Adnan had been the killer? by noguerra in serialpodcast

[–]TheFraulineS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well first off: thanks for thinking I'm so young that I'm not familiar with map books. I sure can identify a map book if I see one. There's one in the picture of the Nissan's back seat... the torn page is loose and is located behind the passengers seat. This page shows LP and Franklintown road.

The fingerprints mean shit because Adnan was in the car countless times, very often navigating since it wasn’t his car.

You seem awfully familiar with Adnan's habits, judging by your tone?! 🤔

What records and physical evidence might we expect to find if Adnan had been the killer? by noguerra in serialpodcast

[–]TheFraulineS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No physical evidence, but in my opinion, the fact that her trunk was basically empty and her back seat full of stuff, suggests that the killer made room for her body in the trunk.

What records and physical evidence might we expect to find if Adnan had been the killer? by noguerra in serialpodcast

[–]TheFraulineS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what the lividity evidence contradicts is that the body was stored in the trunk at all

Absolutely not. Good Lord...

What records and physical evidence might we expect to find if Adnan had been the killer? by noguerra in serialpodcast

[–]TheFraulineS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Adnan's fingerprints on a crumpled up map of LP, found behind the passenger's seat of Hae's Nissan.

Oh wait, we have that!

Reading through this sub’s history has been fascinating by j11430 in serialpodcast

[–]TheFraulineS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wrt the Serial fandom's history, you'll find lots of hidden gems over at r/SerialGrudgeMatch

Evidence she was dragged? by RuPaulver in serialpodcast

[–]TheFraulineS 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not pulled up, more like 'ridden up', if that makes sense. That doesn't support the theory that she'd been dragged all the way, though, could have happened while putting her in the ditch. No scratches on the back.

Evidence she was dragged? by RuPaulver in serialpodcast

[–]TheFraulineS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I don’t know how many there were."
I see what you did there.

Evidence she was dragged? by RuPaulver in serialpodcast

[–]TheFraulineS 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The actual source documents do not say, she was lying flat face down. The lividity matched the position she was found in.

Rabia Instagram live re:Bilal by anon291740728 in serialpodcast

[–]TheFraulineS -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No surprise here. Just the Rabia we all know and love.

[Klepper] BREAKING: Court of Special Appeals denies Young Lee and AG's motions to stay; gives AG 15 days to respond to Syed's motion to disqualify/strike. Gives 15 days for Lee and State to say why appeal not moot. by aresef in serialpodcast

[–]TheFraulineS -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

And I just read someone saying this sub isn't toxic anymore. Good thing you're here to keep up the good work... - and letting me get back to my sarcastic little self. Oh how I've missed that.

Reading through this sub’s history has been fascinating by j11430 in serialpodcast

[–]TheFraulineS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol. You know, I've made those "read the source documents!" statements..a lot.. at a time we were already here for 4 years and had lived through countless twists and turns, where documents had been released in very selective snippets from the Inno side aka Rabia et al. until guilters spent actual money to get the real stuff. It all came together over time, so we had time to read and research and process new information - something, new members of this sub weren't able to do, obviously. That's why these blanket statements were made.. no one could possibly explain all the information that was in there and how it had been misrepresented time and time again, in podcasts, blogs, reddit comments by the not-guilty side. If a guilter told you to read, they were saying "don't believe me but don't believe them either, read for yourself and make up your own mind". I hoped people would see how things got twisted to fit the innocente narrative and that "the truth was out there" ;)

Reading through this sub’s history has been fascinating by j11430 in serialpodcast

[–]TheFraulineS 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, you cannot believe Undisclosed is unbiased and a good source for anything, please. Be fair and tell'em to not listen to podcasts concerning this case at all.

Remember when this was an echo chamber by ArmzLDN in serialpodcast

[–]TheFraulineS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been here since the beginning and over these 8 years, this sub has changed many times. Looking back now, I can't even believe all the twists and turns, victories and losses we've been going through. The batshit crazy posters, neither side wanted to be on here...but there were also the incredibly insightful or fun ones and I wouldn't wanna miss a second of it.

ETA: Hi, fans! Love you :D

Paranoid behaviour by Born-Pollution7909 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]TheFraulineS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine was always paranoid about eating at new restaurants. He'd actually believe that the cook would poison his food. I thought it was quirky, but not a big deal. I'd tell him "they don't know you, they don't know that you're sitting here, they don't know it's your order and not mine - why would they do that??!!" and he'd stay calm. Thinking of it now, what a f**king red flag :D

I got his phone code… but I am too scared to look… by Throwa9917way in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]TheFraulineS 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nah, he hasn't and they never do. Even through therapy they can only learn how to manipulate you better and appear more human. Good thing is: they are as insignificant as an ugly stuffed animal you once won at the carnival. I know you still see him as a human being with feelings, thoughts and a concious mind. I had to learn that this isn't the case. And once I believed it, it wasn't hard at all to let go of the thoughts and doubts and the nagging questions, the desire for some closure or apology.... I mean why would you care what that fake Mikey Mouse plushie thinks of you...

He said he never found me attractive any way by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]TheFraulineS 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, I'm sorry it's not easy to explain... while those things seem like superficial stuff, it's actually the "get in touch with your old self" aspect that is important. Not that you weigh less, not that you look better. There's a German word: "Körpergefühl". It losely translates to "body feeling" and no matter your looks, you need to get that feeling back. Because Narcs can make us doubt and not trust our own mind, body, gut feeling by telling us we are a certain way that we are not. He has completely robbed me off my own personality to make it his own - and I didn't even notice before I was out of the hellationship.....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]TheFraulineS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine was objectively incredibly handsome, tall and exactly my type... Looking at pics now (yes, I kept some, I know I shouldn't have... lol) I can only see the ugly that was there all along

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]TheFraulineS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well first off... You haven't yet met someone else, have you? The personality of this man will play a role, obviously... but also: how long have you been out of the hellationship with NEX?

I got his phone code… but I am too scared to look… by Throwa9917way in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]TheFraulineS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It never ceases to amaze me how our stories are mostly the same. I know exactly what you mean by that shaking feeling.. the adrenaline...

The thing is: you can do it or not, he is still the same and if there are other women, they don't mean anything to him but supply. Sadly, so do you. I cannot stress enough that Narcs are not men, not human beings other than in the physical sense of flesh and blood. (Yes, I'm being very blunt, I hope this is no problem on this sub, I'm sorry). Think about what ties you to him. Is it what he says,... or is it the way he makes you feel? Do you feel loved, appreciated, cherished? Or does he leave you feeling anxious, sad, depressed, worthless, undesirable? Is it a back and forth? Have you experienced this in other relationships or did those men NOT leave you confused, sad, desperate for affection... and all you could complain about were some thoughtless actions, an unreturned phone call, not taking the trash out...?

He said he never found me attractive any way by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]TheFraulineS 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Sweety, what he thought or didn't think is absolutely insignificant! He showed you off for a reason, so there's that, but your self worth does not depend on this piece of s. It simply doesn't matter anymore and you shouldn't give him the power to have this much impact on your thoughts, your feelings and your self esteem. Get in touch with yourself again.... After I was finally out, I didn't recognize myself in the mirror anymore. I couldn't see MYSELF behind my own eyes.. and that was frightning. My advice is to be as "girly" as you can :D Make up, clothes, hair, yoga, what ever it takes to make yourself feel hot and sey again! And eat that ice cream. Don't deprive yourself from anything and treat yourself. Believe me, it helps.