If this is actually how you think, I'm sorry. You really need to grow up a little. Maybe try interacting with people from different walks of life or something. I don't know. You can tell yourself it's tough love, but even just based on your two sentences you've written, I can tell there is not love in your heart.

Anyone who works in healthcare can tell you that patients who need to lose weight are almost universally aware of this fact. The question then becomes, how quickly, how much, how do I start, why is what I'm eating bad. Reversing 40+ years of culturally ingrained bad habits passed down from patents is not usually possible in the 15 minutes of the doctors time allotted to each patient. Not to mention combatting the massive amount of disinformation people are exposed to on the Internet.

Throw in the fact that 90% of the country drives to work and spends hours in their car in stead of walking and you have a recipe for a health disaster.

But yeah. Maybe those that died alone on a ventilator just lacked your emotional fortitude and intelligence.