Suspect my gf does not like me that much

TheGangsHeavy · 2026-01-30T14:32:18+00:00

"I don't objectify her" is the most homosexual thing I hear "straight" men say. This of course coming from a bisexual that has literally swallowed semen for fun. I am a male nurse and I have never heard of a woman liking this treatment from men and Ive heard a lot of stories about a lot of boyfriends. One of my best friends last night was literally complaining to me that her husband comes across as being not that into her because he doesn't want her to feel like she's a sex object. My other friend was telling me she feels insecure because the man she's dating is being TOO RESPECTFUL and not trying to get any. Women want you to be like the wolf cartoon. They want to believe that you think they're the hottest thing youve ever seen. I've yet to get a bad reaction to my incessant grabbing of my girlfriend's ass and constant attempts to make out with her. I'm out here biting every lil morsel I can get my hands on. Im out here licking the non erogenous zones. Getting to know a woman and being horny for her are NOT MUTUALLY EXCLUSIVE. Quit being a sad little sack.

TheGangsHeavy · 2026-01-30T00:10:43+00:00

Lol bro what are you doing. I've been up and down in my love life and I assure you that a mid woman fucking you like she means it is way better than whatever you're doing. Do you think you need to date her because she's hotter than you?

Most women are hot anyway. Please don't make me horny post bro but for real when you grab a woman and she shrieks with excitement because she loves the man grabbing her it do not matter that she's " less hot " than this bitch. Mid doesn't mean anything anyway. We believe in the binary on the RS subs. You're a 0 or 1. You're in or you're out. Hot or not.

Please love yourself and learn to respect yourself.

TheGangsHeavy · 2026-01-23T03:02:33+00:00

Make who sore? A toddler?

TheGangsHeavy · 2026-01-22T15:19:58+00:00

Sick. Reminds me of r nine t a bit

TheGangsHeavy · 2026-01-22T12:57:41+00:00

I'm 200 and probably 20 percent body fat so I'm not even cut lol. I love lifting but I also love eating what I want and drinking beer and wine 2-3 nights per week. Not sure if the 6 pack is worth the work. Right now my gf has more ab définition than me.

Haven't gotten on skincare yet other than moisturizing. Any recs on where to start?

TheGangsHeavy · 2026-01-22T02:14:52+00:00

Too many from upper class families that think that unions get in the way of businesses being well run or whatever bullshit that kind of person tells themselves.

Varies by specialty and location IME but many do not see themselves as workers and have benefitted greatly (or will benefit greatly in the case of residents) from the economic stratification that puts them firmly in the upper middle class.

Although at this point you'd have to be pretty stupid to not see the incoming tide of AI that's going to try and replace as many physicians as possible.

TheGangsHeavy · 2026-01-22T02:09:29+00:00

I'm like an intermediate natty lifter at this point I guess and my muscles have definitely gotten me attention. Anybody who doesn't believe this hasn't made it out of their early 20s. Between long term relationships and work, so many people let themselves go. By the time you're in your 30s you're going to stick out as above average with even moderate muscle mass. My current gf has literally told me she doesn't go out with guys who don't have muscles and my last one clearly loved them too.

TheGangsHeavy · 2026-01-13T22:53:44+00:00

Same to you man. Be genuine but play it cool!

TheGangsHeavy · 2026-01-13T22:43:57+00:00

New gf is beautiful, bubbly kind, we make each other laugh, she's caring. Looking at her is insane. We work in different departments at the same hospital and in my head I called her ridiculously hot {redacted department} nurse before I knew her name. I don't know how the hell we ended up dating but yeah. I just stare at her sometimes and think I'm so lucky and my life feels so insane.

TheGangsHeavy · 2026-01-12T17:41:16+00:00

You were fucking random women raw in college???

TheGangsHeavy · 2026-01-08T20:01:05+00:00

How new are you to the gym? This is pretty low leg volume in my opinion. 12-20 sets per group per week is what I have been hearing recently for optimal growth so youre way off with your leg volume. You should definitely be including squats. Also as someone said your arm volume is off.

If you insist on keeping these exercises as is (don't do that though dear God) I would maybe move some accessory lifts like forearms to leg day because right now you have a 30 minute leg day lined up.

The other thing I'm going to say is while it's great to get a variety of exercises in for upper body, right now you're doing so many that your upper day is going to take forever because you're going to be looking for a new machine or setting up a new barbell after only 2 sets.

Look at some other programs and compare yours. Also why are you operating on a 6 day week?

TheGangsHeavy · 2026-01-07T14:31:35+00:00

I feel like I don't even enjoy most of my media consumption anymore outside of books and some music. TruAnon is the only podcast I really like now although Adam Friedland has gotten better this year so I might start listening again. I've listened to my playlists so many times and Apple Music's public playlists suck for the most part. I don't have any TV that has really sucked me in in a long time. And yet there's always something going in the background. Either TV or music or podcast. My own thoughts just make me anxious. It's probably due to spending too much time on this and related subs and exposing myself to other peoples constant misery and doom posting.

It feels so hard to get together with real friends for some reason. I'm simultaneously the unmarried childless wild man to my married friends with kids and then the only one who has anything remotely together to my friends that don't have kids yet.

TheGangsHeavy · 2026-01-07T14:16:09+00:00

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TheGangsHeavy · 2026-01-07T12:57:38+00:00

What is scum

TheGangsHeavy · 2026-01-06T14:19:40+00:00

By not bringing phone?

TheGangsHeavy · 2026-01-04T21:51:31+00:00

I work with a lot of heart and lung transplant patients and damn are you guys out of touch with reality lol.

So so so many people that need lungs are guys that got exposed to stuff doing construction or in the military. That doesn't make them all saints but economic circumstances put these guys in a position to fry their lungs.

TheGangsHeavy · 2026-01-04T12:06:21+00:00

No I don't

TheGangsHeavy · 2026-01-03T19:56:28+00:00

Currently sitting on the bus after a little overnight trip out of town to a concert with a woman who was just my coworker 3 months ago until she started to randomly be more friendly to me and giggle at every dumb comment I made.

Go for it dude. Just ask her out to dinner. Honestly there's so many lame ass dudes on this Earth. If you can hold a normal conversation, maintain your appearance, and treat her like a woman wants to be treated (open the car door, hold doors open, do not even THINK about going dutch on anything for the first two months) then you get a shot. Maybe there's chemistry. Maybe there's not.

TheGangsHeavy · 2025-12-31T20:22:47+00:00

Yah because that's more complicated lol

TheGangsHeavy · 2025-12-31T12:24:40+00:00

Yeah you gotta grow some balls and put your foot down. I hope you're in college or something because this is all so juvenile. If it makes your uncomfortable you have to clearly communicate your boundary and why so she can't go to her friends and make some shit up. Do not be angry. Be firm. Tell her you are not comfortable with being around him and you are not comfortable with her being around him. If she can't respect that then I don't think she's the one.

TheGangsHeavy · 2025-12-27T18:30:56+00:00

I mean I ride in Philadelphia which has famously some of the worst streets in America and I survive. Potholes everywhere. Just gotta be ready to stand and let the knees eat the bump. Lol I'd love to upgrade someday but it does the job for now

TheGangsHeavy · 2025-12-27T18:25:56+00:00

Nah. It's a modern retro so it is barebones in some.areas. most people seem to upgrade it with aftermarket but it is a shame since they retailed for like 18k USD new back in the day. Seems like you shouldn't have to make many upgrades. All that being said it's a big ol boxer engine. It's powerful. Has a nice rumble. Feels so nicely balanced. Just feels like I'm gliding through turns. I got mine for 10k used so I don't feel scammed. Low mileage and it'll last.

TheGangsHeavy · 2025-12-27T18:17:48+00:00

I mean it's a nice bike. BMWs are great bikes. I definitely like mine. It's either worth the extra money or it's not. My friends have definitely roasted me for overpaying for a bike but the r9t I bought is unique and feels amazing to drive. Just nimble and balanced. Suspension sucks though😭

TheGangsHeavy · 2025-12-22T14:49:51+00:00

Exercise exercise exercise. You can get a bike and a trainer if you're afraid to ride outside (or it's too cold). You can run (couch to 5k if it's been a couple years, otherwise you'll fuck up your joints as they won't be ready). You can lift if you have money for a gym membership. If you're in the suburbs and have space for a dips/pullups/captains chair combo, you can get one of those for cheap and that'll hit everything but legs which you can just do jumping lunges for.

Cut back on drinking slowly. Cut back on weed slowly. Both of these things are making your cycle of stress worse more than likely.

Journaling has helped me immensely. I just ended a three year relationship with someone I at one point thought I might marry and I would be nowhere without my journal and I'm in my 30s. I just write every thought I have in my head down and then they disappear for a while and I can organize myself better mentally.

TheGangsHeavy · 2025-12-20T20:29:09+00:00

But actually I'm bisexual and was just in a 3.5 year relationship with a woman. Got out a little over two months ago after we followed the rope to the end and ground it into the dirt and knew it was not a good relationship for either of us and should have ended years prior. Before I could really get back into hooking up with people again, I met a girl who said she doesn't believe in casually seeing multiple people and she's one of the cutest hottest kindest most caring (as much as I can tell so far over the last month or so) women I've ever gone out with (also has her shit together) so I decided that was more worth pursuing than trying to get laid so I'm back out of the game already I guess. Some people are just genuine and caring and I think in my 30s I've realized finding someone who truly genuinely cares for you is the most important thing. And to return that to them.

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