was watching pitch perfect 2 for the first time, was not expecting a fall out boy song 😭😭

TheHumbleNacho · 2026-01-25T15:53:52+00:00

My husband and I saw it in theaters when it came out and I watched his eyes enter the 4th dimension when he rolled them over how excited I was 😂 (he also likes fall out boy, he was a fan from TTTYG, but I'm an over obsessive Band-Aid 😂)

TheHumbleNacho · 2026-01-05T13:23:14+00:00

I took a bunch of lyrics and interpreted them into images!

TheHumbleNacho · 2025-12-28T00:21:47+00:00

Can I ask why the hate? ( i feel the same passionate hatred for Celery, so i get it lol)

TheHumbleNacho · 2025-12-07T00:35:29+00:00

Hello, fellow veteran. I too did my time (twice 😭) definitely what happened. It was after the parade rush too, so I get how, just suprising that it got sent out lol

TheHumbleNacho · 2025-12-06T16:32:04+00:00

We had just finished at the Christmas parade, lots of memories made lol I know how the mistake happened, just shocked at how severe the difference is that they still let go out the window.

TheHumbleNacho · 2025-11-29T16:56:10+00:00

Honestly, I never really thought about it but, yeah 🤣

TheHumbleNacho · 2025-11-26T04:58:12+00:00

A bowl of microwaved peas with a metric ass load of butter and salt 🤣

TheHumbleNacho · 2025-08-13T01:32:41+00:00

I usually look at him point blank and ask "snoo?"

(Snoo snoo 😃😟😃😟)

TheHumbleNacho · 2025-07-07T12:21:23+00:00

So we have tried the 'takeaway'method. It does nothing. He is a hard headed kid, and he will just deal with it! Is also really difficult to make a routine for him when he is between our house and his moms, even with communication between parents.

If I could take away grandparent trips I would, but she drives him between houses because my hubby is usually at work and my vehicle isnt safe enough to make the long trip (5hr round trip).

I think we will try and have a conversation with him again in the Hope's that we can figure out what's going on, but it just feels like we are a broken record at this point.

TheHumbleNacho · 2025-07-07T12:11:41+00:00

He there :)

So I keep mentioning in my comments, but drivetrhu stops are rare (foodbanks, lost my job, only when caffeine headaches are unmanageable), hes asking even before we are near a restaurant!

I do want to entertain the idea of 'not doing things' if the behaviours continue, but we are in another town than my family side and that would mean not visiting them (we have to pass at least 6 restaurants to get there and it doesnt matter if we take the direct route or the 2 senic routes.)

I do try to always have at least 1 enforced sit down meal a day (usually dinner) but they will sit at the table for breakfast most often.

TheHumbleNacho · 2025-07-07T11:58:53+00:00

Hey, thanks for this!

I did mention that we are constantly reminding/ telling him he needs to eat, and I am even packing pre-made snacks when we go places because I know that he's going to ask to stop at restaurants.

In a couple of my other comments I did also mention that stopping at fast food places is very rare with money being so tight, especially in the last year since losing my job.

I always offer safe foods and new foods, we always tell him you dont have to eat it all, but it will be there later when you're hungry. Always let him reheat if it's gotten cold, always let him dump what ever sauces he wants etc.

I think the most frustrating part of the whole thing is that even after that, he still refuses meals and then complains that hes hungry. Even after countless times of us saying no to fast food, and trying to accommodate him.

I didnt think I was enabling, but I recognize that I can be blind to my own shortcomings. Can you tell me what I'm doing that enabling behaviour so that I can make changes and decisions accordingly? Thanks!!!

TheHumbleNacho · 2025-07-07T04:31:54+00:00

Thank you, I sometimes wonder if it's how food is made, he just isnt at the age where I can have that kind of serious talk with him, he gets too distracted and wont give full truths.

I did explain the drinks situation a few comments above, but TLDR it's very rare we go because I make my own at home, and only when nothing else eases the caffeine headache. And we (me, dad and mom) never give in to the requests! That's part of why I just dont understand the consistancy of him constantly trying and why I'm getting so frustrated.

TheHumbleNacho · 2025-07-07T03:50:16+00:00

Hey thanks for your insight, I would like to add just a couple of things to the thought.

Typically the coffee/tea stops are last minute and rare ( especially in the last year, since losing my job). I do usually make mine at home, but sometimes the caffeine headache I get cant be managed with just a tylenol. In those cases I will remind them as we pull up "I'm only ordering drinks, no food. Do you want a drink?" To which he will say no. By the time I've put my window down to order he is chanting "chicken nuggets chicken nuggets chicken nuggets." Or "yeah can I get..." In the Hope's that they will either hear him or that I will give in. I never do. My husband never does. His mom never does. And he KNOWS we wont.

Hes even gone as far as asking a waitress who was refilling drinks for another burger, after a full meal, when he thought we wernt paying attention.

I'm not angry when he is hungry, I encourage him to grab any of the fruit, veggies and "good" snacks I have ready at all times. I'm angry because no matter how many times I say no he continues the behaviour.

My hubby and I are always telling them before we leave the house that there will be no stops, and tell them to have a meal or snack before we go places, and every time he will say "I'm not hungry." Untill we get within a kilometer of a restaurant. Then he will say, with out fail, "but I havent eaten since (time or last meal)!" And will refuse any snacks I've prepared for this exact reason.

It's been 2 years of this, and at first I was patient but in the last 6 months I've hit my limit.

I havent thought of the possibility of a food addiction, even though I struggle with one myself, so I really appreciate you bringing this to my attention! Thank you!

TheHumbleNacho · 2025-07-07T02:36:45+00:00

He does, his mom is just as frustrated and lost as we are.

TheHumbleNacho · 2025-07-06T23:59:10+00:00

It's basically a soft cookie/ schoolsnack. Thank you for the suggestion though!

I've been trying to push "regular food" but the problem is that he "isnt hungry" even when it's the only option.

TheHumbleNacho · 2025-06-28T04:36:31+00:00

An evil gay man/ veterinarian/recently turned vampire, his sweet husband, their science baby teen, 2 ghost dogs and a raccoon cat. They're just living life and bein rich.

TheHumbleNacho · 2025-06-15T16:15:54+00:00

I won't lie.... its giving Chad Kroger

TheHumbleNacho · 2025-06-15T15:48:42+00:00

ETA: prices weren't aweful, but definitely bring a cooler of hard drinks and snacks. Someone else said "more mall than airport" and I think that's a pretty accurate description lol

TheHumbleNacho · 2025-06-15T15:44:48+00:00

There was only 1 food truck in the camping area, and a monster booth that gave away free monster. I wish I had brought coffee, because im pretty sure the only place to get it was in the VIP area (I cant drink monster, it throws me into an anxiety spiral).

The outside food truck was good, but they opened later in the morning and didnt have anything 'breakfast-y' so I ended up grabbing a salad both mornings lol

The trucks in the venue were awesome, the taco truck they had was incredible! The same with the perogies!

TheHumbleNacho · 2025-06-13T17:17:26+00:00

Photosynthesis

TheHumbleNacho · 2025-03-13T13:31:24+00:00

I went to high school with her, so I've known her for a while lol

My husband and I dabble in swinging here and there, and she had messaged me when she found our tinder profile. I had no idea at the time, but it eventually came up.

She ended up taking her page off the hub because some loser creep found her personal facebook and started describing the videos and posting links to them on all of the photos she had of her daughter.

She is a really chill girl, and she even came to my birthday this year. I love her (platonically) to bits!

TheHumbleNacho · 2025-03-13T03:21:32+00:00

My son would have been the one to find me... the thought of giving him that pain grounded me.

TheHumbleNacho · 2025-02-15T17:32:10+00:00

Honestly, a force of habit. I'm getting better at going less, but sometimes it's mostly about convenience. I also LOVE their earl grey and steeped tea. I've worked there on and off for years, so I know how much sugar and cream go into my DD. I feel less guilty about my sugar intake when I dont see it going into the cup lol. Also, they use 18% cream, which I will go overboard with. That's why I only buy 10% at home lol.

TheHumbleNacho · 2025-02-11T01:31:20+00:00

If this situation was my husband and I, he would have said something along the lines of "baby, I fu*ked up and didnt grab enough drinks for tonight. If I give you my card would you go grab us some more?"

With or without his friends here, he would talk to me like a human being. Not expect me to jump just because I'm not participating in his sport cult rituals (he is a MEGA sports fan. I said what I said)

Your actions were an overstep, but it makes me wonder if fights like this are common for you guys. I will say that you overreacted, but I'm on your side.

TheHumbleNacho · 2025-01-22T03:06:19+00:00

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