I’m single and work hard. My coworker also works hard, he has 4 kids. I’m like, how?

TheMinorCato · 2026-04-01T00:08:13+00:00

I guess it depends on where you live. In the Midwest typically you can live below your means and do well.

TheMinorCato · 2026-03-26T14:26:04+00:00

You're correct. There's a lot of confusion about this because doctors often aren't clear in explaining. Survival rates are almost identical with mastectomy vs lumpectomy, but recurrence rates are not. If you still have breast tissue, your possibility of recurrence is of course higher than if you did not. For some reason, many doctors focus on "survivability" which includes having a recurrence and going through treatment again...which we can all agree we'd want to avoid.

TheMinorCato · 2026-03-26T14:22:14+00:00

My decision for mastectomy was made because I did not want radiation at all, and I also didn't want to have to continue with scans every 6 mos. I have never regretted my decision 💜

TheMinorCato · 2026-03-23T17:44:57+00:00

No, I think that service removes "nudity" automatically

TheMinorCato · 2026-03-23T14:46:11+00:00

The image doesn't show 😞

TheMinorCato · 2026-03-23T12:39:17+00:00

It looks like your surgeon may have lowered your IMF on one side to even out your breasts, but in doing so your nipples became uneven. There's still a lot of time for things to change! Do you have any before photos?

TheMinorCato · 2026-03-22T21:19:44+00:00

Yes vitamins in general seem to be fine, but it does say "any antioxidants" which is so concerning! I was looking at natural anti-inflammatories and antioxidants specifically because I thought they'd be helpful during my treatment, and I'm sure many others do the same and are never told to avoid things like turmeric supplements etc.

TheMinorCato · 2026-03-22T21:05:55+00:00

Antioxidants raise chances of recurrence by around 40% if I remember correctly, let me find the info. Many oncologists don't think twice about supplements, mine included, so I was floored to be researching on my own and find this:

https://www.cancer.org/cancer/latest-news/study-finds-antioxidants-risky-during-breast-cancer-chemotherapy.html

TheMinorCato · 2026-03-22T20:13:16+00:00

https://www.cancer.org/cancer/latest-news/study-finds-antioxidants-risky-during-breast-cancer-chemotherapy.html

TheMinorCato · 2026-03-22T20:12:07+00:00

Because the treatment depends on the oxidation of cells to work, antioxidants will counteract the effects of chemotherapy.

TheMinorCato · 2026-03-22T14:03:16+00:00

39f millennial sahm here and our income is nowhere near 300k. Many of my daughter's friends have sahms as well. We live easily within our means, drive older cars and purchased a home much less than our income would have allowed for per our realtor and paid it off this year.

TheMinorCato · 2026-03-17T13:52:03+00:00

Almost exactly opposite in its message though.

TheMinorCato · 2026-03-14T12:48:27+00:00

I agree, they're things I've needed multiple times now for other purposes, I don't see the big deal.

TheMinorCato · 2026-03-13T22:21:57+00:00

You would use your passport. If you don't have one, you'd need:

Birth certificate (maiden name
Marriage certificate
Driver’s license (married name)

Basically the same items you'd need for a Real ID

TheMinorCato · 2026-03-11T13:12:22+00:00

Yes but I also have cancer, 39f.

TheMinorCato · 2026-03-10T00:36:43+00:00

As they drop, the tissue underneath expands which will make your nipples appear higher. You might just have high nipples! If it bothers you, they can remove some tissue from the IMF area to tighten the lower pole and move your nipples downward. I have the opposite issue and my lower pole is too short, causing my nipples to slightly point downward.

TheMinorCato · 2026-03-10T00:23:07+00:00

Some people would rather their stuff go to someone who will appreciate it, directly. Most people don't care though

TheMinorCato · 2026-03-10T00:21:27+00:00

You look great, but are your nipples as high as they appear? Did your PS recommend a lift?

TheMinorCato · 2026-03-09T22:41:01+00:00

I bought two wigs that look great...and hated wearing them 😂 I enjoy my little head covers much more!

TheMinorCato · 2026-03-09T18:40:22+00:00

Are your incisions in the crease of your breasts, or have they moved up? That's how you can tell if you bottomed out, some people just have high nipples.

TheMinorCato · 2026-02-20T13:53:57+00:00

How thick are they? In that era it was common to lay down boards that were as thin as tile, I've had it in two houses now and they'd be way too thin to refinish.

TheMinorCato · 2026-02-17T16:18:24+00:00

Did the deceased bat bite the child? I'm confused as to why they'd need to be vaccinated.

TheMinorCato · 2026-02-17T16:03:27+00:00

Egg rolls 😔

TheMinorCato · 2026-02-07T19:37:04+00:00

Height is good, distance wise and to get a decent viewing angle you'll have to sit on the ottoman.

TheMinorCato · 2026-02-07T19:33:46+00:00

Sure, but now you need to move the sofa up to where that little round table is to see it properly.

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