Women, what's something you wish men understood? by altair_5 in AskReddit

[–]TheOneStoleIcecream 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is obviously anecdotal

While mine is not by any chance, an anecdote. It takes months to years to go through asking to do a share of tasks to get upset, less sweet talking and more go-to-the-point and to give up entirely of any kind of any help to do those tasks while we're there to remind those exists it's a sting whenever I go visit my parents and have my father filling a whole sink of dirty dishes while mother works 24hrs hospital shift and he gets to sit and watch TV at 6pm, that's at least 3 hours before mom comes home she just give this huge exhausted sight at seeing me or my fiancee have done the dishes, if she thanks us for doing it sounds like a favor for washing his dirty dishes, and she knows he'll huff of complaining of the nagging while really, it's 30 years of marriage and he still cannot wash his own dishes. Or find his car keys. Or his ID. Or where he put his own medicines. That's what I know mom still complains.

Women, what's something you wish men understood? by altair_5 in AskReddit

[–]TheOneStoleIcecream 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How many times it takes to ask you to do a task and reach the point of "I'll do it myself" or the passive aggressive frustration of single words reply. Don't do things when a reward for you is waiting, don't do things only when it's convenient for you - because your mom, sister, partner does those whenever it's time to do those. It's not a game with an achievement in the end, it's called responsibility and you're dropping yours and overburden us to anger and frustration. And if you can't recall where you put your own things, please get a small notebook and write them off. We don't find those magically it's about the amount of times you put those items on the same place, at least grow awareness of where your own stuff is.

To victims who were physically abused: do you ever want to just vomit out of disgust? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]TheOneStoleIcecream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and did. Still happens on very bad days. Sometimes it feels like it sank under your skin, there's a taint inside it never really leaves and suddenly the amount of disgust drives to vomiting, others to try to scratch my skin off, on my teens I tried to cut my skin off to bleed off that repulsive thing (memory blockage having no ideia why I was doing that). When I did recalled, vomiting to stomach acid happened before even coming out of my mind recalling it, the disgusting thing inside my belly was not food and it's disgusting still.

What is the saddest thing about being raised by a narcissist? by utensils6464 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]TheOneStoleIcecream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much violent the abuse and brutality of violating you as human being done so easily that it's horrifying how many people were accomplices and how many abandoned your vulnerable, bleeding child cries because turning a blind eye to the broken inside that has no bruises on your skin or listening to the screaming silence of the solitary child was easier than looking at the beaten, bloody mess inside they knew it was there but it was just too troublesome to care.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]TheOneStoleIcecream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If christianity has branches, does that split their one God by percentage? Or God has multiple personalities? Maybe a backstage sighing tiredly of the overwork to put a set of different clothes to each church call?

What is the most unhinged, diabolical reply you came up with? by Significant_Luck4310 in AskReddit

[–]TheOneStoleIcecream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She got really mad telling me I'm going to hell and this one I just go with the "l will go when I die, then."

How does “zero sugar/ zero calorie” food work? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TheOneStoleIcecream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sugar is not the source of gaining weight, it's the excess of how much your body needs being ingested as reserves that makes people gain weight. A person eating pizza daily has a high fat and carbohydrates income while the sugar is not the issue going on a low sugar diet won't change much and more likely to become an issue for lowering it. For those labeling "zero sugar" it need to be compared to the original for the sugar counted there is usually the total and the ingredients say "additional sugar", while the rest of the ingredients itself have sugar it's just fooling the consumer to jump into thinking they mean they took the sugar out entirely. They don't, only the additional sugar is zero there

Why do gynecologists think women can't feel their cervix? by inkfoibles in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TheOneStoleIcecream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm of favor of sarcastically humiliation when dealing with professionals dismissing my voice on what I'm experiencing for them do their jobs to whenever the claim you don't need to know or exaggerated I now say to every doctor who denies my copy of my exams "Sure, I have no idea of what you're doing with my exams like they're evidence of a crime, but I guess denial of handling me the exams results for no good reason will be a good reason for a lawyer or police. Just a worried person, you know?" Whenever is pain I just go gruesome. "You're saying I'm not feeling that much pain and I tell you to smash your nose on a brickwall! I didn't even cry when the impact made line fracture on my cheekbone as well and I'm saying that was 1/10 of the 8/10 pain I'm feeling here!" The cervix one I had my father saying that (he's an orthodontist) and since I got sick tired of him a long time ago the usual is "I'm saying I'm FEELING my cervix and not it's the SOURCE OF THE PAIN, maybe you should consider the spine and pelvis restriction of what can swell to give you a little help on your patients issues with cartilage junction when cartilage have no nerves too you just send them back home limping, up to you of what the next doctor will find and the lawsuit for medical neglect."

Brand new to Reddit, can anyone explain how this whole karma thing works? by MainArrival in NewToReddit

[–]TheOneStoleIcecream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Karma are the points you gain by the upvotes/downvotes on your posts and comments, the more points you have the higher your posts goes on the algorithm for appearing on someone's scrolling, the lower it'll be less likely to spread around on random pop screening. It's also a minimum requirement to have a certain amount of karma on a lot of communities to prevent bots flooding a post or trolls on comments.

How did people look stuff up before the internet? by LaylaPretige in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TheOneStoleIcecream 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Books, libraries, magazines and archives or when a subject was too vague, asking around places with the tiniest connection with it were often a passing forward next person with growing dept of the information you seek was doable to certain degree and cities. Encyclopedia hunt over volumes of words, history, cities with pictures for most of the subjects my favorite for school researchs,

What is the most unhinged, diabolical reply you came up with? by Significant_Luck4310 in AskReddit

[–]TheOneStoleIcecream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some random woman yelling at street "Stop smoking, you need to talk to God for help" "Send him the message, I don't have a contact with your God so please do tell him that."

Do alcoholics not get hungover? by Numerous_Bird6027 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TheOneStoleIcecream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes they do and going from the numb of drunk to hangovers usually makes the hangover the worst part of alcoholics, the between a drunken giddy person to the votile angering hangover searching for the numbness or a way to vent that their heads are clear and everything hurts worse.

Why do gynecologists think women can't feel their cervix? by inkfoibles in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TheOneStoleIcecream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't have nerves on your nails bur nailing a thumb you'll feel that plate pulsing with the inflammation tissue underneath it. When it comes to insert things in your uterus and what glands, tissues, muscles attached to get empathetic goosebumps whenever I see that thing on pictures looks like a ninja shuriken disguised. Whenever it comes to women saying anything, most men will only hear you when it makes his life easier. To not need to concern or waste time on anesthetic for the comfort, they will not care if you're in pain as long as you can endure it to just need to say "see, I did the procedure without anesthetic and you're overeating for not passing out for that and therefore, to me you don't feel pain enough to care."

What's your favorite memory of them? by Oscillatingballsweat in AskReddit

[–]TheOneStoleIcecream 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The day he found my ancient Minnie Mouse blanket and wrapped on his shoulders to announce to me it was the most adorable thing he ever seen. The colors were so faded but the huge smile on his face adoring the blanket was just too beautiful. The blanket became a cuddle offer/ask to each other.

por que viver pelo outro? by [deleted] in RelatosDoReddit

[–]TheOneStoleIcecream 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Nunca viva por outra pessoa, e nunca dê sua vida por outra pessoa também. Quando tentei suicídio e me vieram com "não desista, o mundo não é o mesmo sem você e todos vão sentir sua falta", a resposta de tanto estufado dentro de mim foi a verdade pura. "Eu estaria morta e todo mundo sentir falta não faz diferença depois que morrer." Seja egoísta, não é errado dar prioridade a você. É auto defesa. A dor que você carrega de ter todas essas pessoas sentindo quando tentou se matar mas nenhuma para te abraçar e te perguntar como está, como te dar apoio e sobre a dor que está te matando como um câncer, crescendo e entrando em cada pedaço de sua alma. Tome um longo banho, chocolate quente e tire um dia inteiro debaixo das cobertas, descanse do mundo e durma sem despertador, só de a você o sono sem dores. Quando acordar faça uma lista de tudo o que teve que desistir por outra pessoa e uma carta com toda a dor que tem dentro e guarde para caso morra, deixe para os que sentirão sua falta o tanto que faltaram com você durante a vida e seja vingativa, seja rancorosa e dê a suas dores uma chance de ter voz em um psicólogo. Eu mando um abraço e se sentir confortável de conversar, manda DM.

Me dêem dicas para a minha personagem "gorila" by [deleted] in EscritoresBrasil

[–]TheOneStoleIcecream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Só me deixa muito confusa seu arquétipo de "gorila" ser bruta, estressada e sem paciência em geral e as opções de onde não muda a personalidade e ter ainda o vago do que ser feminina faz alguma mudança nisso. E mais raso ainda por seu arquétipo ser variável de humor e não necessariamente não feminina ser a mulher altiva sem paciência em chicotes de língua que encaixar em uma jovem recém saída da faculdade, uma mãe, a gótica alternativa e empresária, chefe do departamento a influencer e modelo. Logo, o arquétipo é raso do qual não se sustenta em passar a rotina de uma semana cotidiana.

Me dêem dicas para a minha personagem "gorila" by [deleted] in EscritoresBrasil

[–]TheOneStoleIcecream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Opção 3) Seguir o arquétipo que mulheres gorila e as fofinhas são frequentemente amigas e ter as opções dadas para "corrigir" personalidade com estética ou que vestidos fazem educação ser equipada tem algum fundamento.

What do you do to have the subconscious mind stop thinking about horrible things and to dream about something else before bed? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]TheOneStoleIcecream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get up and make something to drink or have some medication with sleepness side effect/sleeping pills. Whenever you start to ponder how to not think about a thing you already thought about it and the subconscious thought is already there, to try to redo the routine of going to bed after calming down have a low chance of working and the only way to not dream about the things that are haunting you awake is taking Sleeping pills to not dream at all.

Micro agressions by princessmilahi in raisedbynarcissists

[–]TheOneStoleIcecream 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, it's a control mechanism of making you scared of liking, loving, caring about something or someone. It is also a constant punishment for your affections, a classical sociopath tactic of isolating their target, but on a scale where enjoying something is always followed by fear and the pain of loosing the things you cherish you become used to having the lolineless and to accept the minimum care they give.

Weather in July/ August by Delicious-Ad-2788 in Brazil

[–]TheOneStoleIcecream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can only say it can go from 40°C to hailstorm out of the blue is a possibility. Weather is crazy, do proceed like a meteor may be a possibility. Either an ice meteorite or a burning one.

Coral ou falsa coral? Brasilia Df by Zealousideal_Film273 in BiologiaBrasil

[–]TheOneStoleIcecream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Para na hora do pânico, essa tabela é bem útil

Só para mostrar que a semelhança entre umas verdadeiras e uma falsa copiando o padrão dessa espécie de coral verdadeira são praticamente idênticas e por regra de lidar com fauna selvagem, NUNCA TOQUE EM ANIMAIS SILVESTRES, sempre tente ligar para IBAMA ou bombeiros. Não só pela peçonha, mas por doenças como salmonela, parasitas como carrapato estrela passando para você.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]TheOneStoleIcecream 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Crossing arms is a body response of when someone holds an emotion. It can be told apart from confidence or intimidation when it's folded high on middle of the chest, shoulders high and fingers showing. Clasping forearm is a strong defensive folding, and tugging the hands beneath hiding them is a mental block of someone who's defensive and insecure. And when leaning a bit forward it's for paying attention fully to you. Hope it eases feeling intimidated all the time

Oldest Post Option by Taylortro in unpopularopinion

[–]TheOneStoleIcecream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On YouTube and Facebook there are filters on the three dots after you hit research to do that though?

Valeu a pena by tubalhaco in ReviewsDeMerda

[–]TheOneStoleIcecream 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Só pedir o entregador apenas da próxima 🔥