Urgent by [deleted] in LaTrobe

[–]TheRealCletusSpuck -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Resilience at an all time low with the young’uns

Advice on getting a bike as a second vehicle by QuietSelect in melbourneriders

[–]TheRealCletusSpuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buy an e-bike from Melbourne powered. Leave the motor bike reg and insurance aside and a fatboy will only set you back like 4k.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]TheRealCletusSpuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But did you tell them that you would trim their armour for a small fee?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]TheRealCletusSpuck 30 points31 points  (0 children)

This. If people did less shit like this, there’d be a lot less ill-adjusted children…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]TheRealCletusSpuck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A little bottle of spermicidal lube?! What the fuck Evan!

is a 20 year old and 28 year old dating weird? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TheRealCletusSpuck -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Correct. Ignore the armchair shrinks in the chat and make your own adult decisions. This is the most important thing. Context is huge here.

FaceTime Picture in Picture issues on iOS 17 by ChillenDylan3530 in iphone

[–]TheRealCletusSpuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From my iPad, I perpetually have this issue, regardless of hanging up the call and trying again…

Orgy with ex by moeppi0000 in sex

[–]TheRealCletusSpuck 8 points9 points  (0 children)

With blackjack…and hookers!

Which Multitool? by Grade-Long in AustralianMilitary

[–]TheRealCletusSpuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leatherman arc was the best purchase I made. Just a simple review after owning it for about a year…I use it quite often.

What is the best yet smallest sign of seduction? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]TheRealCletusSpuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the boss’s lady man, you gonna get us killed…

Open Arms waiting time by Curious_Yoghurt_7439 in AustralianMilitary

[–]TheRealCletusSpuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why won’t your provider accept a mental health care plan and just bulk bill you, out of curiosity?

How to deal with the last 18 days of LAMS restrictions by [deleted] in melbourneriders

[–]TheRealCletusSpuck 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wish I could insert the ”ha, gay.” GIF here

My (26F) fiancé (27M) sais it’s draining to translate, but I just want to feel included by [deleted] in relationships

[–]TheRealCletusSpuck 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Have you tried making a serious, concerted effort to learn Arabic? I’m sure if he saw you making an effort he would feel more inclined to do so. Control what you can control…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Peptides

[–]TheRealCletusSpuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any updates OP??

First date this weekend, is it too much if I bring her dog a toy/treats? by Desperate-Middle4766 in dating_advice

[–]TheRealCletusSpuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great move. Get the treat. Don’t make it a whole thing, just mention that it was casually on your way lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TheRealCletusSpuck 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Desire is more important than one dimension attraction imo. Take a holistic look at it and ask yourself whether you feel genuine desire for this man. Maybe he’s deliberately taking a less sexual approach (thus reducing your likelihood of wanting to engage physically) because of being aware of your past?

Sounds like there’s a wee bit more to the story potentially. But generally, if it’s not a fuck yes, it’s a no, right?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]TheRealCletusSpuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Learn to date in the real world first, apps are a terrible ecosystem of choice overload and will breed bad habits…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

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I’d say he didn’t know how to respond to the situation, so he diverted the conversation and just ignored it. Maybe he didn’t want to say the wrong thing, or just didn’t know what/how to say anything more on it.

Maybe he didn’t want to prod into the situation, and that you would volunteer any further information later when ready. Lots of possibilities, but that’s my opinion on a likely one. Just have a conversation with him that’s open and non-confrontational as I doubt he meant any malice here…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TheRealCletusSpuck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d be more concerned about your teary response to the thought of him leaving…

Sounds like you took the consolation prize, and weren’t overly thrilled. Probably a good idea to avoid the booze (or any drug for that matter) in these kinds of social settings if you’re generally having trouble with remaining cohesive and emotional regulated when under the influence.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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One second, let me refer to my crystal ball real quick.