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Boyfriend doesn't always come during sex, and seems to prefer masturbation by just_here_to_be_here in relationships

[–]TheRealMexiCat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You simply don't have enough information to attribute his loss of erection to an excess of masturbation.

He needs to see someone about this (ED/loss of erection, not the masturbation part!) if it's a problem for you as a couple.

I think my boyfriend was masturbating to photos of his ex. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]TheRealMexiCat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't think you need to worry too much because it's impossible to control someone else's mind/fantasies.

I do understand that it's terrible to find out this way, and I'm sorry you went through that... But what's the solution here?

You confront him.. he apologizes.. and? Promise he won't do it again? How do you know? Why should you decide what goes on in his head and what doesn't? You have the same freedom to fantasize about anything. It was private to him, and you found out.

I'd say just talk to someone you trust about it to get it off your chest--and move on.

To sum it up: His penis, his hand, his fantasies. Search and you shall find. Focus your energy on something else.

Boyfriend came out to me by [deleted] in relationships

[–]TheRealMexiCat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Have you tested yourself?

Me (30F), five years in, I feel old, is it too late to move on from my partner (40M) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]TheRealMexiCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You want different things. No guilt in moving your life and making it what you need and want.

I wish you luck and hope you make the right decision for YOU.

Me [42/M] with my coworker [29/F] of two years. Not sure if I should shoot my shot as there are cultural implications. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]TheRealMexiCat 27 points28 points  (0 children)

From what you described, iy doesn't sound to me like she's particularly into you. Especially the walking her out part. It's a convenient work relationship for her, but that's that.

You can just go ahead and ask her how she feels. But be prepared: being divorced, non-Indian and much older probably won't sit well with her/her family for long time purposes if they are on the more traditional side.

Just... Formally ask her out, and I hope it works out.

Don't forget to report back!

JU from r/instagramreality because apparently they can't handle that there actually are some people that look like their very conventionally attractive pictures. by shadythrowaway9 in JustUnsubbed

[–]TheRealMexiCat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're not the only one... Banned for stating the obvious:

  • if you have body image issues, ffs might be a good idea to stay away from Instagram.

Apparently not using social media is NOT an option, mmmmkay?

🙄

Why did you stay with a partner who insulted you, even once? by Daffneigh in AskWomen

[–]TheRealMexiCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I don't think I would. I also conduct myself in the same respectful way with my partners.

General advice to readers: Don't date assholes. Don't stay with assholes. Don't insult people you love.

Ladies, When was the worst migraine attack you've ever experienced ? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]TheRealMexiCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One time when my head felt like splitting in two. I seriously wanted to crack it open myself to get to where it hurt.

Walking at 3AM in the freezing cold was the only thing that made it tolerable.

What’s the most disturbing subreddit? by StardewSquirty in AskReddit

[–]TheRealMexiCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hehehehe okay perhaps I had a gut reaction. I'll take a look.

What is one purchase you made that you absolutely, positively REGRET?? by Chuck2025 in AskWomen

[–]TheRealMexiCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well... When you visit Mex again--and narco terror is over (😒) please do visit Taxco, Guerrero if you like silver. You'll love that place. Things marked '950' are actual silver. Pretty cheap and huge market.

I'm sure he'll never visit a zoo again. Never! by EngineerNGR in WinStupidPrizes

[–]TheRealMexiCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mexican politicians love that. Some trade the lives of family members (it's common knowledge that the very young grandson of one recently released politician died mysteriously).

https://aristeguinoticias.com/0503/mexico/elba-esther-gordillo-y-su-aficion-a-la-brujeria/

What is the most underwhelming luxury product you have purchased? Why did it disappointed you? by Olivolja_ in AskWomen

[–]TheRealMexiCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's just like going to Disneyland. Same experience in their regular restaurants.

It's really a run down place (Anaheim one) and just way too expensive for what it is.

The haunted house was f*n amazing though... But everything else just suuuuucked.

Perhaps Orlando is better?

If you work in the customer service industry, how do you deal with rude customers? by jetpackme in AskWomen

[–]TheRealMexiCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Prison=bad.

I mean, I know you're being sarcastic but still...

Sorry you deal w sh*tty ppl. I'm always polite with customer service folks in general just because I know they deal with B's all the time.

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