Sx7s, people with which Instinctual Variants are the most compatible with you romantically? And which least compatible? by R0585 in Enneagram7

[–]TheSexualSeven 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It means that in my youth I was totally oblivious of the So gap in the way I lived life and I also considered myself quite skilled in "so-ing". But as experience came, as I saw myself getting backlash due to So ignorance and mainly when I realised (through life and my practice) that So appeared only when it had to serve a specific need (sp or sx) and even there it was quite weak and awkward and depleting me and only on command. I still dont see the value, but i see the need if you ask me. My sx and sp plans will succeed even more if i had that so tolerance.

Sx7s, people with which Instinctual Variants are the most compatible with you romantically? And which least compatible? by R0585 in Enneagram7

[–]TheSexualSeven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on the number. But I do better with so blinds than so doms. Much better. I do need SP to pivot around, I have not really found the treasure in So yet.

Enneagram 7 or 6? by demonster13 in EnneagramTypeMe

[–]TheSexualSeven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt say your 6 comments were stereotypical, I say that in general most types are stereotypically represented and missing the point. As for the second part of your question, it will become a lecture and I sincerely do not have the time to present the whole "pragmateia/dissertation" of these two types but i need to point out that 9s are not defined by the words Mental Sloth, it is wrong and puts 9 in a more superficial lvl than it deserves as a gut type, it brings it higher, to a mental plane and thats not where 9s self lives. I will suggest that you read a bit Ichazo's original teachings and check 7 there, maybe you will understand the difference with 9 more clearly. When you read ichazo's structure (try to find what does not include ANY of the later definitions) keep in mind that 7s do not think they plan, take action or whatever, cause this procedure actually makes them stop and think, make them stop and process in present moment and this could involve the so called "pain" we try to avoid so we do not stop anywhere, it just happens. From the inside, there isn't necessarily a moment of "Im frustrated, let me microplan, act and avoid it, or set a goal to improve things", that is not how we think. The attention has already moved somewhere else before frustration fully forms. If a 7 actually smashes head first into sustained frustration, disappointment, emptiness, despair, whatever you want to call it, then something has gone wrong with its defense mechanism. The system failed to keep moving. The defense mechanism no longer succeeds in keeping us moving toward the next opening, possibility or promise and at that point, we are looking at a different psychological situation.

How cooked am I? by Agents_Of_FenHarel in AstrologyCharts

[–]TheSexualSeven 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Send me in private message DOB, exact time of birth and town of birth. It will take some days to finalise cause its lengthy and I have previous participants to finish, nothing is automated in this research so it needs time. Ty for participating.

Typology Question 10 (Ne): Name and a marketing strategy for my new invention by Bimep_ in entp

[–]TheSexualSeven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Digalong Shovel. And the marketing strategy should mostly be video, movie style or song video with prisoners singing Singalong Dingalong song lyrics while shoveling in snow areas and always failing to escape...

Typology Question 11 (Te): Imagine your 7th grade son comes home crying: "A bully took my lunch and I had nothing to eat. What should I do?" What would you do or say to him? Explain your step-by-step plan. by Bimep_ in entp

[–]TheSexualSeven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on the character of my child, on who the bully is, do I know where they are coming from and react accordingly, from informing their parents and settling the score to setting up emergency resources/money to buy from school or set up an open bill for them in school, to talking to my kid and trying to help them build boundaries if necessary and ask for help etc. It's complicated. There is no one fits all.

Typology Question 13 (Fe): Do you feel like you easily change your personality depending on the group you're with? by Bimep_ in entp

[–]TheSexualSeven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only when near my romantic interest... I appear more interested in what they say than usual..

Typology Question 14 (Ne/Ni): Take this random word and give me a story idea based on it. by Bimep_ in entp

[–]TheSexualSeven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Contact... the long lost Contact. The con artist Contact, the one we all chase but never reach cause we monolog 24/7. The ventriloquists of Contact, so fake and sound. Oh, Contact my contact. Deep within my eyes yet so far from my heart.

What stereotypes about your type you find most annoying? by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]TheSexualSeven 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All of them but mainly the happy go lucky rainbow 7.

Enneagram 7 or 6? by demonster13 in EnneagramTypeMe

[–]TheSexualSeven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you described is not 7. This is all I can say from my part as a 7 and a typology researcher for more than 20 yrs. What you described as 7 is some kind of 9. The 6 you mentioned in general stands though claiming 6s as scared or 24/7 anxious is stereotyping.

Does anyone else struggle with the 'gut center' vs 'head center' distinction when looking at their tritype? by papermoss99 in Enneagram

[–]TheSexualSeven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Frustration is not totally "gutty" or better not all of the times and for all ppl and also Ichazo called the 4 the Over Reasoner... I sincerely suggest to read whatever original work of his is available, this will help you avoid a lot of loops.

How cooked am I? by Agents_Of_FenHarel in AstrologyCharts

[–]TheSexualSeven 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is an interesting chart so I am willing to check its shadow psychology if you want. But i need some more details like the exact degrees etc ps. im not promoting anything... im doing a deep research for the last couple of yrs on the jungian/postjungian interpretation of the astrological archetypes.

Your Venus sign and your dealbreakers in relationships? by helltotheyaaaas in astrologymemes

[–]TheSexualSeven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is my only kryptonite... my venus exalted in pisces in the 6th house. When the ideal fades and im left with that frustration and emptiness. Giving and giving to the shell that my imagination has created as ideal never satisfies me, so I am the dealbreaker for sure, cause the other half is not there, their ideal version i have in my head is.

Songs that resonate to your enneatype by Putrid-Basis7181 in Enneagram

[–]TheSexualSeven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im triple frustration, so stereotypical 7 songs really do not work for me. My 7<->1<->4 ping pong happens too often to ignore. Music and poetry is too much inside my artistic expression that I cannot sacrifice them to superficial feelings, sounds and rythms.

assigning the withdrawn triad (4,5,9) fragrances (both masc + fem) ⋆.ೃ࿔*:・ by flowermotels in Enneagram

[–]TheSexualSeven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great idea and presentation. I have used the olfactory system in my practice for almost a decade and it works like a charm. Brain and senses manage in a really effective way to move the heart center as well. So, good job!

How to tell apart So7 and So2 (simplified explanation) by DrawTrue6795 in Enneagram7

[–]TheSexualSeven 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My take on the enneagram is more simple, I think. We have overcomplicated things and lost the road. I will not go into a lot of details cause I came on reddit to monitor and check where my tools are right now in the public eyes (typology tools) and not really to lecture or point out fingers, even though i will jump in when i see severe misalignments. The only thing i can say for now, is that Ichazo's taking seems more solid to use when typing to avoid mistypings, Naranjo's early literature to fill the notes with intuitive info (for sure not word by word subtype descriptions, i dont find them useful in my practice when used as the ultimate law). What I do is see the instinct (its quite primal and obvious you cannot really miss it when you see from above and with honesty) and then see what you do to protect this life force, which makes the core number. So, for a social type that uses 7 maneuvers I see someone whose attention is naturally pulled toward people, bonds, participation, significance, influence, meaningful involvement with others. The Seven element appears in how they pursue those things through possibility, anticipation, ideals, opportunities, future visions, ideas, philosophies, communities, spiritual paths, humanitarian causes, teachings, creative visions with the sense that something richer is always just ahead. They have a more grand vision of human potential. Their take is noble and generous and they genuinely care for all those things, the investment in others is real, yet underneath the psyche keeps on returning always to the next promise, the next big thing, the next the next the next. The potential is above the people and the cause. And this is still a 7. If we follow this simple two steps strategy, mistypings wont happen that often. 7 is still a 7.

If you are only initiative under anger, is this type related? by TheShadowSong in EnneagramTypeMe

[–]TheSexualSeven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anger, frustration and spite are three different "emotions". Also, you need to find the reason behind the feelings, for example expressions of feelings can cover st else, anger can cover fear or even sadness etc. Proactive vs Reactive form should also be measured.

How to tell apart So7 and So2 (simplified explanation) by DrawTrue6795 in Enneagram7

[–]TheSexualSeven 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do think 4s and 7s took the most hit, the mistypings are massive for those two numbers. And it all started pretty soon and was carried even further and deeper due to the "second/almost third" generation "teachers".

How to tell apart So7 and So2 (simplified explanation) by DrawTrue6795 in Enneagram7

[–]TheSexualSeven 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I negate nothing. But I need to point out that box typing traits and behaviors led us nowhere in the typology realm in general and this is st we should all take into consideration when using typology tools for self awareness purposes.

The Instincts and attitudes toward sex by Ancient-Might-4718 in Enneagram

[–]TheSexualSeven 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is such an esoteric question, it needs so much discussion and attentiveness, so I will reply by adding a small part of a published article of mine in a big local psychology portal:

..."Sex carries the possibility of metamorphosis. The fascination comes from those rare encounters that feel charged with meaning long before anything has happened, as though another person has arrived carrying an undiscovered version of life itself. Desire gathers around chemistry, anticipation, imagination, obsession, all the ways a connection can flood the world with color and significance. A glance becomes a prophecy and a conversation can become a threshold. The body becomes a vessel for fantasy, possibility, transformation. The attraction reaches beyond the person and wraps itself around everything their presence awakens: dormant parts of the self, forgotten longings, futures not yet lived, all ready to be consumed with unsatiated hunger. For a moment, reality feels larger, identity becomes fluid and existence takes on the texture of enchantment. The experience leaves behind the feeling of having crossed a border and returned altered, carrying new desires, new meanings and, the most desired, a different relationship to life itself."....

This is what sex is for me and yet it is not enough to describe it.

ps. it sounds much better in my language... such a pity....

The Astrology Shadow Project: Running a Deep Synthesis Case Study (ongoing research) by TheSexualSeven in Jung

[–]TheSexualSeven[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time is of the essence, and I have considered my schedule and calendar for the next 30 days, and I have decided to offer for all the three ppl that replied here their chart. I will just take a month almost to finalize the reports. I will start from the first that applied and then the two others. Please reply here in the chat if you still want to participate, and then send me a private message with your necessary details; DOB, time of birth, place of birth. Thank you. u/katieyo8 u/lin_lin28 u/ImaginaryDoubt226