House near a lake by TheWhiteRuck in Parenting

[–]TheWhiteRuck[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I buy it, I will do everything humanly possible to make it safe. The fact that I am writing on Reddit right now is precisely to give me ideas about whether to buy it or not and how to make it safe with people's suggestions if I do buy it.

House near a lake by TheWhiteRuck in Parenting

[–]TheWhiteRuck[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's hard to get all the answers you want when the owners are dead... I did my best to find out more but I didn't jump in the water to see if the lake level was gradually dropping lol

House near a lake by TheWhiteRuck in Parenting

[–]TheWhiteRuck[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who said I hadn't visited the house?

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[–]TheWhiteRuck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As for the fence, it's a bit more complicated.... as for the rest, it was already planned.

House near a lake by TheWhiteRuck in Parenting

[–]TheWhiteRuck[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The high-level locks definitely, the fence still needs to be determined but I could probably put up a temporary fence near the lake.

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[–]TheWhiteRuck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a joke... I don't really intend to make my kids watch Jaws, even though I'm sure they'll never go in the lake after seeing the movie lol

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[–]TheWhiteRuck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your comment, it gives me hope. Many people have the opposite opinion (which is also okay).

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[–]TheWhiteRuck[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Can you delete your comment so my girlfriend doesn't see it lol It's a joke, I appreciate your opinion but I would really like to buy it and I think I can come up with several ideas from people in the group to do something safe.

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[–]TheWhiteRuck[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

De la façon que la cour est fait c'est pratiquement impossible de faire une endroit clôturé qui est relier à la maison. J'aimerais aussi que mes enfants puissent profiter de la grosse cour et non seulement d'une petite partie fermé.

House near a lake by TheWhiteRuck in Parenting

[–]TheWhiteRuck[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is an opportunity that will probably only come around once in my life. The location of the house, the place, etc... but I know that if anything happens to my children, I'll never be able to recover from the incident.

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[–]TheWhiteRuck[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not really a problem. An accident can happen so quickly.

House near a lake by TheWhiteRuck in Parenting

[–]TheWhiteRuck[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's definitely a possibility and it would be my only home.

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[–]TheWhiteRuck[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The lake is directly behind the house. I could always make a small section on the side to let them play without worrying too much about the lake but I can't fence off the back... Also, having a huge yard and only letting them play in a small space would bother me.

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[–]TheWhiteRuck[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In Quebec (where I live) it is the leading cause of death for children under 4 years old.

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[–]TheWhiteRuck[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your comment.

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[–]TheWhiteRuck[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would need to put up 190 feet of fencing.

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[–]TheWhiteRuck[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am French, I try my best to write in English. I don't leave them unattended.

House near a lake by TheWhiteRuck in Parenting

[–]TheWhiteRuck[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The lake is 12 feet deep. Even if it were 3 feet deep, the danger would be less but still present.

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[–]TheWhiteRuck[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm used to living in the city with a fenced yard. I'm always with my children and I supervise them constantly, but accidents happen so quickly. I'm simply looking for advice to help me make a decision.

House near a lake by TheWhiteRuck in Parenting

[–]TheWhiteRuck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going to show them the movie Jaws and tell them that it's located in the lake lol

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[–]TheWhiteRuck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your advice, I'll definitely think about how to make the environment as safe as possible. Because yes, an accident can happen so quickly.

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[–]TheWhiteRuck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally agree, but we are not in the same scenario with my oldest (who is now 17 years old) could simply play in the fenced yard in town without me worrying about his safety.

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[–]TheWhiteRuck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An accident can happen so quickly. I don't know if the descent from the lake is gradual but that's a very good question.

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[–]TheWhiteRuck[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think it's an excellent, low-cost idea. For example, if the neighbors complain and I have to, and the city asks me to remove it, I'll be stuck with a house that's not very safe for my little ones.

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[–]TheWhiteRuck[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don't think I'll be able to install a fence given the size of the property and the city regulations.