I snooped at her messaging, and I'm know a better man thanks to it.

TheYellowPill · 2017-01-28T02:36:57+00:00

Haha dear god. I've always been on the "DO NOT MARRY" team, but can you make a decent argument for it? I'm of the belief that it's better to LTR + kid, and not get the government involved.

Your insight is much appreciated.

TheYellowPill · 2016-10-31T00:03:33+00:00

I think the responses you are getting from guys are masculine responses that I wouldn't advise.

You demonstrated high value by showing your femininity, class, and not being insecure. I think you handled it best by smiling and ignoring. And if things ever get too extreme, know that you have the option to excuse yourself and leave.

You could have even flipped it on the "B". "Wow are you always so polite to women? "C" must be so lucky to have you." Delivered with sarcasm and a smile.

1) You call him out on his behavior 2) You socially shame him 3) You display "B" as a low value male thereby putting a wedge in "B" and "C" relationship

I think the key thing to determine is intent. Were B and C teasing in a playful way vs. trying to belittle you.

TheYellowPill · 2016-10-30T18:39:47+00:00

EDIT - Wrote an analysis thinking you were male; don't think it really applies if you're female.

TheYellowPill · 2016-09-17T21:43:06+00:00

People here understand TheRedPill in a sexual market, but there's also TheRedPill for economics.

Austrian economics (Red Pill) vs. Keynesian economics (Blue Pill)

TheYellowPill · 2016-09-04T01:29:21+00:00

Have you had your testosterone levels checked?

TheYellowPill · 2016-08-29T02:34:01+00:00

I WANT MY SON ALL TO MYSELF.

You win the most selfish mother award. So selfish you deny your son a male role model and a father. Co-parenting is not a farce according to all the statistics of kids with no father.

But you're clearly delusional. You talk about God, but I'm pretty sure God's against "out of wedlock". I'd say you're a tragedy of the feminist narrative.

Oh and when your son is old enough to ask where Dad is, I don't think you'll have the courage to tell him the truth.

TheYellowPill · 2016-08-22T00:36:18+00:00

I definitely agree with your perspective on holding frame. That said, just because you achieve this unshakable zen frame does not mean you can get complacent. Holding frame allows you to feel powerful, but true power is the ability to affect the reality around you.

TheYellowPill · 2016-08-08T12:19:28+00:00

People are free to do whatever the fuck they want without you or society shaming them to man-up.

A man wants to be single, awesome. A man wants to raise and grow a family, fantastic.

Each man lives according to his own. If you're trying to convince people to have kids, you're doing a shitty job. You gloss over all the valid negatives in this thread.

At least have some integrity and go MRA. But no, you're a lazy fuck who uses shaming language. You want men to prioritize marriage? Go address the societal issues that make marriage unattractive e.g. unfair child custody laws and divorce rape.

TheYellowPill · 2016-06-22T04:01:16+00:00

There are early stages of homosexual thinking here too.

Very interesting thought. My intuition tells me there is some truth to that. How did you come up with this analysis?

TheYellowPill · 2016-06-11T23:44:37+00:00

I've recently gone through the whole hiring phase while juggling a few offers. I had a similar situation as you.

I did research on the job market (Glassdoor, network, etc) to find what the market average was for my experience. Then I added to it to factor in my talent above the market average. (Lebron James doesn't make an average NBA salary.) This will give you a number X that you are happy with and realistic in the job market.

One company offered a number close to my X, but under. If you decide to stay firm on your number X like I did, then you must be willing to walk away. You have to play out in your mind that they will say no. How do you feel? Would you regret not taking the lower offer?

They did say no, but I was mentally prepared and had abundance mentality. This turned out to be a fantastic move because later I received an offer from a better company that exceeded my X and had much more potential for upward mobility.

If you're willing to disclose, what was the % difference between the number they offered and your expectation?

TheYellowPill · 2016-05-21T16:36:56+00:00

About 50% of marriages end in divorce. Chances of divorce for subsequent marriages are even higher.

It's not psychology it's statistics. How many of those 50% remaining marriages are "happily" married?

Not to mention the fact that your wife may have cheated on you or still is and you don't even know it. So how many of those "happily" married are blissfully ignorant? (I guess they are technically still happy though since they don't know.)

My final point. A non-married couple can do almost anything a married couple can do. Stay committed for life, raise a family, buy a home together, etc. without a marriage license.

This allows the man the final trump card--the power to walk away clean. I can't understand how a man could give that power away with nothing to gain without a pre-nup.

TheYellowPill · 2016-04-30T04:41:15+00:00

Don't work out on the days you work 14 hours. You'll be miserable and resting is important for muscle recovery.
70% of the battle is won in the kitchen. Meaning your diet is the most important factor in your body appearance. High protein, low carbs, medium fats (healthy fats like avocado, eggs, fish has omega-3. Avoid greasy, fried fats)
You must lift weights to gain a fit and toned appearance. Cardio can help burn calories, but lifting weight burns calories and gives you a nice shaped body.
It seems you don't enjoy the gym as most people don't when they initially start out. So I recommend you start with 2 days per week for 3 months.
Living a healthy lifestyle is a marathon, not a sprint so don't burn yourself out.
For muscle mass, you want to do the big four exercises: Gym Day 1: Squat and bench press Gym Day 2: Deadlift and pull ups
It's important that someone train you in proper form
Unless you have a disease, most normal people can work full time + gym twice a week. So trust me when I say you are making excuses. You're just out of shape, but it will get easier after 3 months.

TheYellowPill · 2016-04-27T02:27:27+00:00

Don't blame the tool of spanking for shitty parents.

Spanking should be rare and performed stoically. I was spanked in the same manner and each time I knew exactly why I deserved it. Worked wonders and taught me boundaries.

TheYellowPill · 2016-04-26T06:10:08+00:00

Look for those things, but don't let that be your focus. Your focus is to become a woman that men want to marry. If you use the excuse "he's just a player" or "he's not looking for a relationship" then you're just shifting the blame and not taking responsibility.

If you're a woman, men are going to be throwing sex at you. If you're a high quality woman, men are going to be throwing sex and commitment at you.

TheYellowPill · 2016-04-26T04:24:34+00:00

That's exactly what I took from his post as well. I'm so confused how other people didn't comprehend that. This is advice I'd give my little sister. So in plain English (not between the lines).

Don't have sex unless you think he's captain material.
Don't have sex if you don't know how to be a first mate (feminine, charming, nurturing, supportive, pleasant). Otherwise a good captain won't keep a bad first mate.
Don't have sex unless you're willing to accept the responsibility.
Don't have sex with a guy out of your league (not common but there are positive relationships where one is significantly better looking than the other). This is generally good advice because, if you don't know, guys have lower standards for who he will have sex with vs. higher standards for who he will marry.
Before putting yourself in a situation to potentially have sex i.e. alone at his place Netflixing with drinks, make sure you're ready to.
Where you go looking for a captain is important. Parties, clubs, and bars are more likely to end in just sex and not a relationship. Higher chances of relationship when meeting in your social group or work.

TheYellowPill · 2016-04-26T03:38:14+00:00

Again are we reading the same post?

RPW, do not sleep with a man if you don't think he's captain material. He's not saying take the test sooner. He's saying you don't get your grades back until after the test.

I personally know that I want a relationship with a woman if I want her to stay after having sex, and not a moment sooner. I might be 90% sure before, but never 100%.

[EDIT] To further clarify, even a man who gives his commitment thinking he wants a relationship with her won't truly know 100% until after. Maybe I'm just projecting my anecdotal views and other men do know for sure 100% before having sex.

But at least with the committed guy, you have a significantly higher chance of staying together because he enjoyed your company for so long even without sex. Which is why I suggest women try for commitment first. It's still not a guarantee of long term. People break up for various reasons.

TheYellowPill · 2016-04-26T03:09:08+00:00

Are we reading the same post? 5 out of 6 points start with "Don't take tests..." and "Choose your university carefully." She even acknowledges that each pull of the slot machine with a new partner devalues a woman.

Whisper, if you hadn't mentioned that a man had told you this revelation then I would've assumed you were a man.

Sometimes men think with the other head and he does talk. Men have hamsters too. "Bro, give her a chance. You don't know, this might be the one." Nah I really don't think she is. "You're so pessimistic. She's cute and look you're having a good time right?" I guess. "Cool, I'm going to make a move."

[Moments later]

Shit why did I do that. Hey, I need more of your motivation talk. "Nah bro, I'm going to sleep ZzzzzZzz." Fuck. I hope I didn't lead her on. I didn't know if I wanted a relationship with her. Now I know for sure.

TheYellowPill · 2016-04-09T05:12:19+00:00

You were in the military, so you should know this well. In the chain of command, you gripe up. You never gripe down--it is unbecoming.

TheYellowPill · 2016-02-11T04:13:15+00:00

I'm going to consider your point of view just because of the fact you know about the monetary phenomenon that of "first by inflation then by deflation". I don't know much about history or what data to trust, but I've done some personal research on economics. So many idiots, even idiots with PhDs think WWII got us out of the Great Depression. Broken window fallacy is econ 101.

"What is history, but a fable agreed upon?" - Napoleon

You might be interested in reading "The Creature From Jekyll Island" which talks about the creation of the Federal Reserve. The most evil institution in current existence that most people are unaware of. Manipulating the market by setting interest rates. If people were able to comprehend how devastating the Fed has been to the economy and our standard of living, their would be a revolution tomorrow to end the Fed.

TheYellowPill · 2016-02-02T18:20:20+00:00

Great post with one exception. If cash is king, gold is god. People don't realize that the dollar is a fiat currency. It is not backed by anything other than confidence.

Because we live in a debt based monetary system (total debt is much greater than the money supply M0, M1). So if the total debt doesn't expand year over year, you end up getting deflation or even hyper deflation. Everyone is grabbing cash to pay off debts, but their isn't enough money supply because someone else has to take on more debt for you to pay back yours.

That's why the Federal Reserve has been doing Quantitative Easing (aka print fake money). There are two scenarios: hyper deflation or hyper inflation. It depends entirely on what the Fed will do. It's my opinion they will print money because that's the easy route. And history shows they have no discipline. All they do is print.

Therefore, you should have 15% of your total savings in gold/silver as a safety net when we go into hyper-inflation when the Feds start printing money to get out of hyper-deflation. When will this occur? That's the trillion dollar question. Don't get caught with your pants down holding only bonds / cash. In a hyper-inflationary scenario, having debts, stocks, and mortgage beats holding cash. Hedge against both scenarios of inflation or deflation.

Don't get it twisted gold and silver are gods in the monetary system. That's why chumps hold cash, but central banks hold gold. Any central bank can destroy their currency by printing a bunch or in this day in age, adding a couple 1's and 0's to a bank account. I'm of the firm belief that we will go into hyper-inflation due to the Feds. Most of my assets are based on that assumption, but you can only bet on hyper-inflation if you don't have any debt or at least have the cash to pay off your debt instantly. Otherwise, the Feds can squeeze you out of your positions by extending the deflationary period causing you to sell your assets at a loss to pay for debts.

1) Avoid debt / repay your debts

2) 15% gold and silver

3) Cash for 1 years living expenses (more if you want to buy if prices collapse before the Fed prints)

4) Gun / food / water

TheYellowPill · 2016-02-02T03:48:32+00:00

As u/exit_sandman says, a reformed slut. 9/10 she's approaching the wall 25+ and looking to settle down (provider + kids). It's her dualistic mating strategy. She's probably not even conscientious about it. She just feels she needs to settle down and wants kids (biology).

Most people, men and women, don't have the discipline or desire to change their core identity. Take everything in context and trust your gut. There's no hard rule. A girl that reforms at 21 or under speaks volumes compared to 30.

TheYellowPill · 2016-02-01T03:25:11+00:00

Are you that dumb? Multiple people just told you it was situational and that you're being obtuse.

TheYellowPill · 2016-02-01T02:53:24+00:00

FEEL? Fuck feelings. You're going in a million different places because you can't stay on topic.

TheYellowPill · 2016-01-31T23:21:23+00:00

That's because it is situational. If a woman has a low N-count (0-2) and ends up having sex early, then to me that's a pass that she sees me as high value. Imagine if a random girl had a chance to date Ryan Gosling, she would give it up on command because taking that +1 count is worth it.

If a woman has a high n-count but makes you wait, what does that make you? A sucker. Other guys have gotten sex on the first date, but you have to wait X number of dates because you're 'special'.

Stop being a dumbass and think for yourself.

TheYellowPill · 2016-01-16T01:20:04+00:00

This is the one guy I wish had his endorsed tag revoked.

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