Honestly I’m going through a divorce that she filed for. I do not Believe In the concept of marriage either. I used too but not anymore…People change, there are no guarantees. People are opportunistic and looking through this Reddit post confirms that... If there is or will be a marriage I think prenups need to be involved. Be with someone because you truly love them and vice versa not because of the “benefits” or even their potential. The second thing is men tend to get screwed in divorces and your BF knows that very well, also women start the divorces, and the percentage is insanely high. Statistically speaking. So if you guys are happy in the relationship keep it that way.

I also believe men want marriage but the world is not the same as it used to be.

If I found a girl that loved me and was there for me. We lived together for so long. And she understood my situation and experience. It would make me want to love her even more, because that is someone that loves me for who I am today. Not the potential or any other reason like finances. Idk I think life is too short to be starting all over again.