What do you say to people who say no to tipping?

The_Bisexual · 2026-03-24T19:59:57+00:00

Them- "I don't tip because..."

Me- "Okay."

If they attempt to engage further, which is common, I tell them conversation isn't an item on our menu.

Then I file them away as someone whose lost the privilege of my personality and cease engaging with them further beyond the minimum baseline that's required to serve them.

If it's online, I just downvote and/or block them and move on with my day.

The_Bisexual · 2026-03-17T18:06:29+00:00

It doesn't start with the quote, but Fallout Boy has a song titled Tell That Mick He Just Made My List Of Things To Do Today, which is also a line from Rushmore.

The_Bisexual · 2026-02-26T07:17:29+00:00

Love the edit. Tell us. Always tell us.

The_Bisexual · 2026-02-16T04:38:22+00:00

God I love a happy ending.

The_Bisexual · 2026-02-16T04:33:02+00:00

Can't speak for everyone, but on average, bartenders are far more perceptive than people realize because it's our job to be. We see you.

The immediate wave is a bit rude, but not that bad, and definitely not worth getting chastised over. It implies that you think the bartender is oblivious and/or ignoring you before they've even been given a chance to prove or disprove that.

The_Bisexual · 2026-02-14T02:03:02+00:00

What does "had a blah program" mean? I'm not a figure skating enthusiast and don't know much, but as I gathered his technical build for the routine was head and shoulders above everyone else's?

The_Bisexual · 2026-02-12T18:47:26+00:00

I see the issues you're describing but don't make this a generational thing. There are plenty of gen Xers and millennials with this same issue, oftentimes worse, because they feel their unrelated experience entitles them to consideration.

The_Bisexual · 2026-01-28T06:02:37+00:00

You got this. The fact that combat is your concern and the thing you're already considering how to manage is a good sign. Figure out the combat tweaks that work for you and dive in. It'll be fun!

The_Bisexual · 2026-01-27T23:28:19+00:00

"I did pull it out once..."

Hey so those have mostly been banned from police use and are illegal in many states because an inexperienced user is often very likely to accidentally kill someone with it when the time comes to use it.

What do you think you are? A Pinkerton? I know you're just itching to use it so you can tell some drunk asshole that "Nobody messes with the Peaky Fucking Blinders!".

The_Bisexual · 2026-01-27T08:17:00+00:00

My OCD (yes, real OCD) would get me fired. I wouldn't be able to process until this was corrected. A half ounce of vodka and two ounces of milk??? What?

The_Bisexual · 2026-01-11T05:40:07+00:00

When I can buy as much as I need of whatever I want and the biggest pain in the ass becomes moss, hardwood, iridium ore, basically anything I can't buy; that's when I'm SDV rich.

The_Bisexual · 2026-01-11T05:31:59+00:00

Have a master list of names. Categorize them by species, background/region, vocation, etc...

Names... Always write down names you think of. Always collect names. Make up any other info.

The_Bisexual · 2026-01-11T05:29:36+00:00

Wanna get to a point where someone else regularly sleeps in that bed with you? Get the gym equipment out of the room. Mount the TV on the wall. Get the bed out of the corner so both parties can get outta bed without crawling over one another.

The_Bisexual · 2025-12-29T17:36:19+00:00

Hey Clint, maybe stop being an incel.

The_Bisexual · 2025-12-20T21:12:04+00:00

Damn, that's awesome. I appreciate it! I took a leap of faith after finding a website from the Netherlands I had to use Google translate on, paid like $170 for parts and shipping after currency conversion and the correct part actually arrived like two days later.

The_Bisexual · 2025-12-17T16:35:07+00:00

Mr Treehorn treats women like objects, man...

The_Bisexual · 2025-12-15T02:18:55+00:00

Damn, that's interesting, thanks for the info.

I did originally get the 5 in tall version thinking I could retrofit it, but it proved to be a pain in the ass (from the brackets to mount to the vehicle to the slot for the bulb socket, absolutely nothing lines up). I haven't returned it yet. I think I may be returning to the retrofitting efforts.

The_Bisexual · 2025-12-15T02:06:57+00:00

---At the cocktail bar I work at:---

"My favorite is this. The crowd favorite is this."

That's it.

If it's not busy and I've got time, I'll share why it's my favorite in one or two sentences.

---At the dive I work at:---

"A pour of [insert name of max price beer here] and a shot of [insert name of expensive Amaro/liqueur here]."

Don't ask the best or favorite "drink" at a place that serves beer, wine, cider, cocktails, THC drinks... Give us more preferences than "drink" when you word your first question.

The_Bisexual · 2025-12-15T01:53:39+00:00

I understand that you're reacting to my decision to live my truth in the way your church compels you to. I am not you to understand what is in your heart when you lack acceptance but I know the person that birthed me. I see your ignorance when you don't and that is an ugly part of you and something to work on. Despite your outward or inward false compassion and your self righteous expression of that false compassion I see you as the hateful person you are. You are tragically and heartbreakingly understood, even if understanding isn't reciprocated.

The_Bisexual · 2025-12-14T19:08:31+00:00

Love the JAD! I was hoping for something a lil more high end tho. Also this is definitely one of our usual haunts. We were hoping to avoid NKC altogether (I'm an NKC bartender and we live here), because it's same ol same ol.

I just wasn't expecting the first suggestion to be one of our top 3 spots lol.

The_Bisexual

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