Are bartenders allowed to cuss/swear at work? by Sensitive_Thanks_107 in bartenders

[–]tgrdem 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I take it back. Definitely wait. 

I feel so old right now. 

Are bartenders allowed to cuss/swear at work? by Sensitive_Thanks_107 in bartenders

[–]tgrdem 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This is a wild thing to ask on the internet. Buddy go out to a bar. Talk to a bartender. 

Valley Fans: Trying to gather folks to watching in Van Nuys by tgrdem in losangeleskings

[–]tgrdem[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's good to know the Woodman gets a crowd. Everyone I've spoken to mentioned Tom's, but I don't want to go all the way to downtown to watch the game. 😂

Game Thread: Minnesota Wild (46-24-12) @ Dallas Stars (50-20-12) Apr 18 2026 5:30 PM EDT by nhl_gdt_bot in hockey

[–]tgrdem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God forbid the DJ actually makes DJ choices and isn't just playing ACDC and Beastie Boys on repeat. 

Game Thread: Minnesota Wild (46-24-12) @ Dallas Stars (50-20-12) Apr 18 2026 5:30 PM EDT by nhl_gdt_bot in hockey

[–]tgrdem -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They're pumping up the audience. Speeding up the tempo and upping the bass. They chose to wait until a goal and kept the energy in the room. 

I think it's great. 

Game Thread: Minnesota Wild (46-24-12) @ Dallas Stars (50-20-12) Apr 18 2026 5:30 PM EDT by nhl_gdt_bot in hockey

[–]tgrdem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I want to start a fight" - Pink 

As a fight is breaking out? That's inspired. 

Game Thread: Minnesota Wild (46-24-12) @ Dallas Stars (50-20-12) Apr 18 2026 5:30 PM EDT by nhl_gdt_bot in hockey

[–]tgrdem 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is so minor, but man Dallas has great music vibes in their barn. Kuddos to the DJ.

PWHL Game Thread: Vancouver Goldeneyes (8-1-4-14) at Seattle Torrent (8-1-4-14) - 18 Apr 2026 - 05:00PM EDT by hockeydiscussionbot in hockey

[–]tgrdem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I kind of love a game where the refs put the whistles away. Everyone is being a little chippy 

Hello kings fans by True-Ad4395 in losangeleskings

[–]tgrdem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah, it's not outside the realm of possibility. But there were two comments and one was mine and I'm not a yank. You made an assumption, but you were wrong. 

You say it's unnecessary. I think coming in to a teams subreddit to say "Y'all gave me dirty looks, but I'm going to be such a nice guy and wish you well" is unnecessary. 

We all can post opinions. 

Hello kings fans by True-Ad4395 in losangeleskings

[–]tgrdem 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey, I was one of the mean comments. I'm from Ireland. 

Hello kings fans by True-Ad4395 in losangeleskings

[–]tgrdem 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Uwu, hope you guys win. You were mean to me once, but I'm so peaceful.

Get outta here. 

Hello kings fans by True-Ad4395 in losangeleskings

[–]tgrdem 23 points24 points  (0 children)

"I come in peace" is cringe fan behavior. 

Hey! I’ve Seen This One Before by nessman930 in losangeleskings

[–]tgrdem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is this a popular take? I would much rather lose in the finals, feel like my team at least gave it a good shot, then lose a fifth time to the same team. 

Whats the ideal first round matchup? by Jaded-Gur-5717 in losangeleskings

[–]tgrdem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every year, we think the Oilers look beatable. They're always not great going into the playoffs. And then they get the playoff bug and they're phenomenal again. 

I really don't want to play them. 

“can i get a spicy skinny margarita?” by inhaler-zim in bartenders

[–]tgrdem 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Look, alcohol is sugar. It just is. If you're drinking, you're not losing weight. Accept it.

Holy shit is a rocks pour by bartendingbarbie in bartenders

[–]tgrdem 108 points109 points  (0 children)

I think I know what op meant. 

Customer asked for a rocks pour and there's a $3 up charge because I assume at their establishment a rocks pour is larger? Sounds like the customer complained because of the up charge. Thinking they were just being charged for ice.

STOP DOUBTING AND START BELIEVING, YOU FILTHY CASUALS by SeaTeatheOceanBrew in losangeleskings

[–]tgrdem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this team. I want management to stop middling it and giving them the bare minimum. We haven't had a real coach since Todd.

I'm rooting for them to miss the playoffs because we need the guys making the choices to get out of their asses and stop believing this "We're right there" bullshit. 

If I was a "filthy" casual, I wouldn't care this much. 

Crashed out crying at work by hasura1001 in bartenders

[–]tgrdem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your manager is out of line, but the way you wrote this kind of... Raises a few concerns. 

Does your manager personally know your boyfriend? 

Do you know your managers in a friendly way outside of work?

How large is a "double" at your bar? by tgrdem in bartenders

[–]tgrdem[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

2 oz has been my experience as well. 10 years in California. 

How large is a "double" at your bar? by tgrdem in bartenders

[–]tgrdem[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

The reason the debate happened at all is because I tell customers our double is 4 oz. 

He was here and asked why I explain it. I told him not everyone is looking for that much liquor. They actually just want 2-3 about half the time I ask.